Fisting

25 Apr 2010

I'm sure it has been done before, but I'm being a tad lazy and we also have heaps of new members to share their input.
Fisting: have you? Do you enjoy?
I'm aiming this primarily at female forumites and those who fist them as I cannot get my head around anal fisting without feeling distinctly uncomfortable! :shock:
The reason I ask is because it is something which eludes me. I have never managed to be fisted despite trying with a variety of willing fists. :lol2:
I adore being penetrated with fingers and toys (there is something I find erotic about the slight detachment of that act rather than penetrative sex itself, but that's another story wink

) and so I really want to love the fisting... Try as I might however, it would seem it ain't happening.
Over to you forumites lol

25 Apr 2010

I'm with Kaznkev on this. Absolutely love, love, love it.
Never thought we'd manage it in the beginning but perserverance was the key.
I think I made the biggest noise/mess ever the other night when *Him* had a fist inside me then managed a cock too :shock: It was a good job I didn't need to get up afterwards as I swear I wouldn't have been capable of walking with the amount of shaking I was doing.
The benefits of living in a detached house.....
*Her*

25 Apr 2010

so 3 out of 3 responses to Nola's question are in favour of it!.. im rather suprised at that. lol

25 Apr 2010

I like to watch it being done and I can understand it must feel great. I just don't know if my 'can't be done' block is physical or mental or a combo of both... :-?

25 Apr 2010

Quote by noladreams
I like to watch it being done and I can understand it must feel great. I just don't know if my 'can't be done' block is physical or mental or a combo of both... :-?

you need to give it a proper go Nola. Think 'happen' and im sure it will 'happen' wink

25 Apr 2010

Quote by noladreams
I like to watch it being done and I can understand it must feel great. I just don't know if my 'can't be done' block is physical or mental or a combo of both... :-?

Could be a bit of both. The best bit of advice I was given was to bear down at the point you think it can't possibly happen and bingo.
*Her*

25 Apr 2010

i have been fisted
it caused a masive bruise from the top of my thighs to my belly button which was very painful ... never again !
i cant actually remember what it was like to be fisted tho, just remember the pain from the bruise which was so bad i had to go docs ... he was amazed at it and how it had been caused lol

25 Apr 2010

Can't say it appeals to me at all either.
The best festival flag I've ever seen was just a fist aimed at a crown of thorns and the words "FIST ME JESUS" in capitals making it's way to the front of a very big crowd at Glastonbury '08. Still makes me laugh remembering it now. lol

25 Apr 2010

Does 'it' stay in a permanent state of gaping after too many fists?

25 Apr 2010

Quote by the_magik_s
I like to watch it being done and I can understand it must feel great. I just don't know if my 'can't be done' block is physical or mental or a combo of both... :-?

you need to give it a proper go Nola. Think 'happen' and im sure it will 'happen' wink

I know... I have it... you go first! :twisted:
I have two hands and we could have you both get on all fours and have a 'first to get it up gets a tube of Smarties!' competition.
'Bare down' could be like the 'marks, get so go..' command :rascal:
I don't get it personally, with men or women.. surely it must be the sheer, psychological naughtyness of it that gives pleasure as opposed to the physical side of things? I thought it was the more sensitive stimulation of both 'front' and 'back' bottoms that gave more pleasure.. as opposed to a fist that's about 7" in length and a similar circumference on average confused

You could achieve the same thing with a mango, grapefruit or large aubergine I guess and make a smoothie while you're there.

25 Apr 2010

It's something I would like to try wink

25 Apr 2010

Quote by BIoke
I like to watch it being done and I can understand it must feel great. I just don't know if my 'can't be done' block is physical or mental or a combo of both... :-?

you need to give it a proper go Nola. Think 'happen' and im sure it will 'happen' wink

I know... I have it... you go first! :twisted:
I have two hands and we could have you both get on all fours and have a 'first to get it up gets a tube of Smarties!' competition.
'Bare down' could be like the 'marks, get so go..' command :rascal:
I don't get it personally, with men or women.. surely it must be the sheer, psychological naughtyness of it that gives pleasure as opposed to the physical side of things? I thought it was the more sensitive stimulation of both 'front' and 'back' bottoms that gave more pleasure.. as opposed to a fist that's about 7" in length and a similar circumference on average confused

You could achieve the same thing with a mango, grapefruit or large aubergine I guess and make a smoothie while you're there.
not for me i have to say!.. i have fisted someone once. They seemed to be loving it but even as i did it i have to say i couldnt quite get it.

25 Apr 2010

Quote by brucie
i wouldnt want to do it and i dont like watching it.

:thumbup:

25 Apr 2010

Quote by kentswingers777
i wouldnt want to do it and i dont like watching it.

:thumbup:

There are so many anal threads on this site I didnt realize until about over half way down that you were all chatting about fannys. Once again I can say its nothing that appeals to me, Mrs Tweeky likes bigger sex toys very occasionally and thats about it.

25 Apr 2010

I have to say I'm the same as you Nola. I would love to be fisted, but so far (i'm not giving up lol

) ive been unable to achieve this. Im searching for a lady with small hands :twisted:

25 Apr 2010

I have hands like brickies hods and have never managed it.
I can understand the sensation thing cos a lot of playmates love "manual". In fact (and I think its cos of porn) human beings seem possessed with muff diving at the cost of manual stimulation which in my experience seems to be enjoyed as much if not more. A favoured technique of mine is to use my right had forefingers to stimulate the front wall and the left hand fore fingers to stimulate the back wall. This can be achieved even with my hands and with the most petite of playmates. This leaves other fingers free for anal and clitoral stimulation and tongues can of course be brought into play.
I practised by learning to knit through our letterbox. :2fingers: lol

(please not my use of iconny things what I have just discovered and minx insists on cos she reckons I come across in here as a humourless arse)

26 Apr 2010

I find lube, lube amd more lube helps, and as mentioned things go back to normal very fast,

26 Apr 2010

Never tried it, whenever i've suggested it its always greeted with this expression :eeek:
I can't think why???

26 Apr 2010

Quote by Kaznkev
waves her small lady hands at welsh minx

oooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo what's that saying hmmm think it is 'bring it on' :twisted:

26 Apr 2010

i love it
would only ever let mr b do it to me though as i would worry bout others getting carried away

26 Apr 2010

This is something I would just love to be able to do and although we have tried on numerous occassions, it has never happened, even with 5 gallon of very slippery lube and Mr NWC relatively smallish hand. I just never seem to be able to relax enough and I tend to feel what I can only describe as a burning sensation and I am totally sure that something is going to tear. At that point, everything just has to stop :eeek:
Have to say that I am totally blown away when watching it happen (in porn) and really, really would like to be able to do it, but alas, not so far wink

26 Apr 2010

the only fisting I have in mind at the moment would be of the "rearranging the hands on their dial" verity... no-one here though, and I wouldn't anyway... well, not in the workplace... not with witnesses.
lp

26 Apr 2010

You're right Nola, it has been done before, but it's such a great experience (allegedly :twisted: ) that it's worth another airing. I actually managed to work the search button :shock: and found this post I made in a previous thread:

We do this (me giving/Mrs C receiving ;-) ) once in a blue moon as a special event. We both love it, but we find it takes a combination of a few things to achieve:
Props:
Lube, (water based, lots); Latex/surgical gloves (saves worrying about rough nails etc); A decent vibe (we use an Eroscillator).
Frame of mind:
You both have to be in the right place mentally. Too much stress or impatience will ruin things.
Time, patience and practise:
Don't just expect it to happen. If you've never done it before it's % certain it won't happen first time. But it's like anything else: if it's worth doing, it's worth waiting for. Our first success was after about 6 attempts. I have big hands, and Mrs C is quite small framed, but she's given birth naturally so we knew it was possible.
Technique:
What works for us is a slow build up, starting with a couple of fingers and lot's of lube. Cubette needs to have the vibe on her clit while we build things up. In fact, if we stop using the vibe she just feels a stretching pain. Put the vibe back and the pain vanishes. Like someone else said further back in the thread, don't just go for the balled fist. You need to make a duckbill shape with your fingers and thumb. In our case I just press gently and let Cubette take the lead on how much pressure to use - she pushes onto my hand. Once you get past the knuckles, that's when you can start to make a fist inside.
A word of warning: The crushing pain at point of climax can leave a grown man in tears! Anyone who doubts the power of the pelvic floor muscles should try this!
Also, be careful with the withdrawal - it can be more painful for her on the way out than on the way in, so be slow and gentle.
If you're thinking of doing it, persevere... it's worth it if you can get there! :thumbup:

Hope that helps! ;-)

26 Apr 2010

That's a great post Cubes :thumbup:
Cheers for searching.

27 Apr 2010

Have done it a few times, lube does help and so does patients and lots of foreplay etc

27 Apr 2010

@ Ms_whips and Varca: Ohhhhhhhhhh Tight fannys :happy:

27 Apr 2010

I struggle with this too, so far everyone's hands have been too big.
Funnily enough tho, although I know how to do it, I've never actually done it to someone else, which just might work as I have the smallest hands of anyone (adult) that Ive ever met! lol

30 Jun 2011

Quote by tweeky
i wouldnt want to do it and i dont like watching it.

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There are so many anal threads on this site I didnt realize until about over half way down that you were all chatting about fannys. Once again I can say its nothing that appeals to me, Mrs Tweeky likes bigger sex toys very occasionally and thats about it.
There, to quote myself from last year. Now I can say I have actually done this, been the fister if that is the correct expression. It was with someone who was obviously well versed in doing it only took a few seconds to get everything in and TBH I didnt even know that was what was going to happen. Once in and fisting things went incredibly quickly and the lady in question gushed in less than 30 seconds. That was also my first experience of gushing too, all down my arm :lol: I actually enjoyed it quite a lot but not so much the act of fisting just the fact that someone got turned on so much by it. Maybe one day will attempt this seriously with Mrs Tweeky but have had a quick look :lol: and the dimensions down there dont look so promising.

30 Jun 2011

It must be time for bed, i thought it said Fishing and was going to say im not interested in doing it myself but like watching Robson Green doing it on telly rotflmao

Night

30 Jun 2011

Quote by meat2pleaseu
It must be time for bed, i thought it said Fishing and was going to say im not interested in doing it myself but like watching Robson Green doing it on telly
Night

Spectating a fishing event :shock: If you have a dictionary and you look up boring is that not what it says lol