Following on from Bari's post about larger ladies being sexier ...... I've often wondered about what people have against larger men?
I've read a number of ad's both on here and other places that request no larger men (in terms of body size not cock size). What is that all about?
Hubby is a larger man, I've often read adverts and thought hmmmm could be a possibility and then been dismayed to read they don't want larger men. I suppose I can partially understand it ... larger gents aren't as beautifully attractive as those that have worked out I will admit, but lets face it, very few of us are totally happy about out looks/body size anyway.
Hubby has a massive personality, is loving, thoughtful and considerate to the ladies, experienced, and an excellent lover, why should his weight be the first thing that detracts from that?
C'mon ladies, you could well be missing out ...
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Quote by clarensteve
To me ultimately body size and looks etc dont really matter to me,i think your either attracted to someone or your not!
Clare,xxx
I totally agree, and I could understand after seeing pics etc that people might not like the look or be attracted to a larger person (male or female) but to discount it before even making contact is insane!
I agree hun... It's like age...its just a number. Size... Well beauty comes from the inside. Ok im skinny but i hate it, I'd love to be 2 stone heaver but i am wot i am and cant change that. Larger guys are attractive too. Some like big men...some like small. The amount of times a woman has said to me..."cor i wish i was ur size i bet you pull all the time" this is NOT true.I like everyone else get turned down as they are looking for a "larger lady".
Orgasminator
Quote by clarensteve
Steve is about 9 stoneish and would love to put on more weight but can't(wish i could give him a bit of mine!)
At the end of the day whats on the outside is just the tip of the iceberg!!
Clare,xxx
i volunteer to give Steve some of my weight, in a totally non sexual way of course lol
Unfortunately I fall into the two catagories I am large and in m y 50s but feel I have a wealth of experience and know how to please a woman tongue wise cock wise, handwise headwise and intellectually I am certainly not a wham bam "LETS FUCK YOU AND FUCK OFF MAN" but it seems that a lot of women prefer young slim lads which is fine but I bet they have nowhere near the mentallity of pleasing her as much as more matiure men would do.
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I think again it comes down to the numbers game. With ladies being in the minority in here and men in the majority, the ladies can pick and choose and be as fussy as they want. We are probably all aware of people who don't fit the stereotype of the bronzed adonis with the perfect body, looks and cock, but who are good fun to be around and also very sexual. Sometimes the ladies find out to their cost that the 'perfect' guy they chose isn't quite as perfect as they wanted. Perhaps if they haven't aimed so high, the result might have been overall, better.
Mal
Mal
I just think whatever you are, you have to be happy and finding someone who shares ALL your good and bad points is the key. I am pretty sure all the NORMAL folk cant look at themselves and laugh...I am, and NEVER will be normal. We all get down about our looks and sometimes we feel we want to be that other person. But like mal said
You get lots of open, honest people on here and that is why it is better than the other sites offering nothing to stimulate the mind...
Sometimes the ladies find out to their cost that the 'perfect' guy they chose isn't quite as perfect as they wanted. Perhaps if they haven't aimed so high, the result might have been overall, better
You get lots of open, honest people on here and that is why it is better than the other sites offering nothing to stimulate the mind...
I think you can get lots of "personality" from the lines on a page, being on this forum is fun both to read and to post, and the fun comes from the words and ideas.
Ooccasionally one sees a picture of a good looking man whose looks work without any attempted effort, rather more often a good looking woman, (but then I guess that's my natural viewpoint).
Looking at the ads on here I am slightly amazed a the number of cock shots and the immediate periferal areas, I didn't count them but only noticed a couple that I'd describe as good looking. I'm not a female but even so I can't think they'd encourage too many ladies to think, "wow I must have that!" I guess putting them there is an exhibitionism thing, (which I'm all in favour of or I wouldn't be here), but somehow the missing ingredient "stimulation" is lacking in the pics.
All except a tiny minority of the human race look better even a little bit dressed, as in sexy, attractive, willing, whatever criteria you choose, and we all look better in the dark. In my case the more I cover the better I get!
Most of this doesn't apply to under 30's, or maybe exceptionally under 35's, but for the rest of us I think it might be good advice.
Ooccasionally one sees a picture of a good looking man whose looks work without any attempted effort, rather more often a good looking woman, (but then I guess that's my natural viewpoint).
Looking at the ads on here I am slightly amazed a the number of cock shots and the immediate periferal areas, I didn't count them but only noticed a couple that I'd describe as good looking. I'm not a female but even so I can't think they'd encourage too many ladies to think, "wow I must have that!" I guess putting them there is an exhibitionism thing, (which I'm all in favour of or I wouldn't be here), but somehow the missing ingredient "stimulation" is lacking in the pics.
All except a tiny minority of the human race look better even a little bit dressed, as in sexy, attractive, willing, whatever criteria you choose, and we all look better in the dark. In my case the more I cover the better I get!
Most of this doesn't apply to under 30's, or maybe exceptionally under 35's, but for the rest of us I think it might be good advice.
Quote by clarensteve
Steve is about 9 stoneish and would love to put on more weight but can't(wish i could give him a bit of mine!)
At the end of the day whats on the outside is just the tip of the iceberg!!
Clare,xxx
God i wish someone could give me an extra 3 or 4 stone.
People say they would love to be able to eat anything they wanted and not put on any weight but in reality,for me its a pain in the arse.
Steve,xxx
Sex God
i suppose i am a larger man of sorts... but being 6ft2 i suppose i carry it well.....
it is like most things i suppose... everyone has their prefrences and if i am not there's then that is life...
but i hope that i win people over with my personality and i think that is more sexy than everything else... if you are mentally attracted then nothing else can beat that...
sean xxxxxxx
it is like most things i suppose... everyone has their prefrences and if i am not there's then that is life...
but i hope that i win people over with my personality and i think that is more sexy than everything else... if you are mentally attracted then nothing else can beat that...
sean xxxxxxx
Quote by fabio grooverider
i suppose i am a larger man of sorts... but being 6ft2 i suppose i carry it well.....
it is like most things i suppose... everyone has their prefrences and if i am not there's then that is life...
but i hope that i win people over with my personality and i think that is more sexy than everything else... if you are mentally attracted then nothing else can beat that...
sean xxxxxxx
So very well said could'nt agree more,
Clare and Steve,xxx
Quote by musketeer
I think you can get lots of "personality" from the lines on a page, being on this forum is fun both to read and to post, and the fun comes from the words and ideas.
Ooccasionally one sees a picture of a good looking man whose looks work without any attempted effort, rather more often a good looking woman, (but then I guess that's my natural viewpoint).
Looking at the ads on here I am slightly amazed a the number of cock shots and the immediate periferal areas, I didn't count them but only noticed a couple that I'd describe as good looking. I'm not a female but even so I can't think they'd encourage too many ladies to think, "wow I must have that!" I guess putting them there is an exhibitionism thing, (which I'm all in favour of or I wouldn't be here), but somehow the missing ingredient "stimulation" is lacking in the pics.
All except a tiny minority of the human race look better even a little bit dressed, as in sexy, attractive, willing, whatever criteria you choose, and we all look better in the dark. In my case the more I cover the better I get!
Most of this doesn't apply to under 30's, or maybe exceptionally under 35's, but for the rest of us I think it might be good advice.
I agree with every word of this. Brilliant post. The cock shots? Nice to look at, but no good, are they? I wanna see whole body and face. But, as many have said, it's more WHO you are, not what you are, for me.
Sex God
thank you guys.... as cheeky as i am, i do have my profound moments...
hope you guys are coming to the north-east munch...
:D :D :D
sean xxxxxx
hope you guys are coming to the north-east munch...
:D :D :D sean xxxxxx
Orgasminator
Quote by musketeer
Looking at the ads on here I am slightly amazed a the number of cock shots and the immediate periferal areas
We dont have any cock shots on our profile.............
maybe coz our camera doesnt come with a macro lense
Well i love larger men mmmmmmm i like them tall too and hairy lol oh n also going bit grey so not all us ladies like chippendales!
oh but i could oil one up if asked lol
oh and the age thing well deffinately older than 25 and upto say 55 or depends on the couple :wink:
love peppsxhope this helps xxxx
oh but i could oil one up if asked lol
oh and the age thing well deffinately older than 25 and upto say 55 or depends on the couple :wink:
love peppsxhope this helps xxxx
