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Quote by H-x
I had a bit of a revalation at the weekend, Nat was down and we went out to a club (of the loud music variety) a guy was talking to me, I was talking back just thinking he was being nice rolleyes
Apparently he was flirting with me, my response was, 'Why would he be flirting with me, I don't fancy him'.
It would seem I only notice flirting when it's someone I fancy. And now I'm wondering, how d'you tell the difference between flirting and just being nice? It did make me feel a little uncomfortable, what do you do when someone flirts with you with the intention of it going somewhere and you don't recipricate, do you flirt back?
This is all new to me, I thought people were just friendly, blonde or what?
H.x

My money’s on... or what!
Quote by Stormwalker
My money’s on... or what!

My money's on.......stupid biggrin
H.x
Quote by Bonedigger
I do believe that you have one of my flirts framed and taking pride of place in your loo Choon, isn that right .....wink lol :lol: :lol:

No, but he does have a rather tasty calendar of Mel Gibson! :lol:
yum....choon care to invite me over to see your.....calendar :wink: :lol:
Now FB, you that calendar is there fer a very special reason... smackbottom
And BD - No 'cos I just couldn't bear to see you floating off with 'the best actor in the world!' :undecided:
Quote by helnheaven

If I do flirt with someone, who doesn't react, I might try again but after that, I'll just check me pulse and move on!
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But maybe they dont know how to react confused
I suppose if you have a pulse it may be a start :giggle:
Thanks! :undecided: :giggle:
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Quote by H-x
It would seem I only notice flirting when it's someone I fancy.

Your not the only one! Must be a South Wales thing!
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Quote by westerross
But maybe they dont know how to react confused
I suppose if you have a pulse it may be a start :giggle:

Thanks! :undecided: :giggle:
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kiss
Quote by flower411

I only flirt with people that I also flirt with in the chatrooms and have a laugh with!
I dont generally flirt in here as I dont flirt with total strangers, I like to have at least seen who I flirt with!
Hi Flower! :rose: lol

You`ve not been the same since you saw my bum on cam have ya minx ??? rolleyes
:shock: Flower you just had to tell everyone! redface
Well I blinked and missed the rest! wink
Awwww minx :therethere:
Don`ts ya luv me anymore ???
rotflmao
Well someone has to be your friend! :P
What would you do without me? :lol:
Another question - do you stop when it's obvious someone doesn't realise you're flirting with them, or doesn't acknowledge it?
Quote by Freckledbird
Another question - do you stop when it's obvious someone doesn't realise you're flirting with them, or doesn't acknowledge it?

No, you should never stop. You might miss out on someone/something really fantastic
:notes:
I really should take my own advice sometimes :giggle:
Quote by de_sade
Another question - do you stop when it's obvious someone doesn't realise you're flirting with them, or doesn't acknowledge it?

No carry on...I do realise...It's just that I'm shy... :twisted:
:shock: Yeah right, Sadie, of course you are loon
Quote by Freckledbird
Another question - do you stop when it's obvious someone doesn't realise you're flirting with them, or doesn't acknowledge it?

No carry on, it's only flirting after all and if they eventually see it and act on it, it could lead to great things. Took me 14 years with Stormy rolleyes
Quote by firelizard
Another question - do you stop when it's obvious someone doesn't realise you're flirting with them, or doesn't acknowledge it?

No carry on, it's only flirting after all and if they eventually see it and act on it, it could lead to great things. Took me 14 years with Stormy rolleyes
You could have given me a clue.. :roll:
Quote by Stormwalker
Another question - do you stop when it's obvious someone doesn't realise you're flirting with them, or doesn't acknowledge it?

No carry on, it's only flirting after all and if they eventually see it and act on it, it could lead to great things. Took me 14 years with Stormy rolleyes
You could have given me a clue.. :roll:
What!!! :shock: walking four miles with my hand in your pocket and telling you how "fond" I was of you and telling you that you look quite handsome in the dark was'nt enough clues ffs :doh:
Quote by flower411
Another question - do you stop when it's obvious someone doesn't realise you're flirting with them, or doesn't acknowledge it?

No carry on, it's only flirting after all and if they eventually see it and act on it, it could lead to great things. Took me 14 years with Stormy rolleyes
You could have given me a clue.. :roll:
What!!! :shock: walking four miles with my hand in your pocket and telling you how "fond" I was of you and telling you that you look quite handsome in the dark was'nt enough clues ffs :doh:
You told him he looked "quite" handsome "in the dark" !!!! pmsl
rotflmao
:roll: With clues like that, are you surprised it took 14 years.
Quote by flower411
Another question - do you stop when it's obvious someone doesn't realise you're flirting with them, or doesn't acknowledge it?

No carry on, it's only flirting after all and if they eventually see it and act on it, it could lead to great things. Took me 14 years with Stormy rolleyes
You could have given me a clue.. :roll:
What!!! :shock: walking four miles with my hand in your pocket and telling you how "fond" I was of you and telling you that you look quite handsome in the dark was'nt enough clues ffs :doh:
You told him he looked "quite" handsome "in the dark" !!!! pmsl
rotflmao
:roll: With clues like that, are you surprised it took 14 years.
I swear she's said nicer things to me in these forums !! Does that mean I'm in ?? lol :lol:
Who knows... dunno
I was flirted with the other night and I actually noticed :shock:
He did have to spell it out quite clearly for me but I go the hint in the end. This was just after he'd told me it had been his birthday the previous weekend.
I didn't take him up on it though, at 84 I didn't think his heart could take it lol
H.x
Quote by firelizard

You could have given me a clue.. rolleyes

What!!! :shock: walking four miles with my hand in your pocket and telling you how "fond" I was of you and telling you that you look quite handsome in the dark was'nt enough clues ffs :doh:
Even I wouldn't have missed those signs :lol2:
right folks after the events of this weekend I fancy a good old flirt with some one wink Any takers
Quote by hisandhers
right folks after the events of this weekend I fancy a good old flirt with some one wink Any takers

innocent
Quote by Steve
right folks after the events of this weekend I fancy a good old flirt with some one wink Any takers

innocent
now how did I guess you would come along & put a smile on my face sweet lips lol
Quote by hisandhers
now how did I guess you would come along & put a smile on my face sweet lips lol

I'm more than a willing participant in the joy that is putting a smile on your face ;-)
And if I dont manage it first time I will be forced to keep trying till I do :rascal:
Quote by Steve

now how did I guess you would come along & put a smile on my face sweet lips lol

I'm more than a willing participant in the joy that is putting a smile on your face ;-)
And if I dont manage it first time I will be forced to keep trying till I do :rascal:
so how can you see if I'm smiling like this hump rotflmao
Quote by hisandhers
so how can you see if I'm smiling like this hump rotflmao

Why the room has mirrors all around :rascal:
Quote by Steve
right folks after the events of this weekend I fancy a good old flirt with some one wink Any takers

innocent
Steve.. you're just a tart :silly:
Quote by jaymar
right folks after the events of this weekend I fancy a good old flirt with some one wink Any takers

innocent
Steve.. you're just a tart :silly:
just give me another hour with him then I'll pass him over lol
Quote by jaymar
right folks after the events of this weekend I fancy a good old flirt with some one wink Any takers

innocent
Steve.. you're just a tart :silly:
I try my best :lol2:
Quote by hisandhers
just give me another hour with him then I'll pass him over lol

Is it possible for one mere man to cope with an hour of pleasure with you ;-)
Quote by Steve

just give me another hour with him then I'll pass him over lol

Is it possible for one mere man to cope with an hour of pleasure with you ;-)
if you can take the pace hun :lol:
Quote by hisandhers

just give me another hour with him then I'll pass him over lol

Is it possible for one mere man to cope with an hour of pleasure with you ;-)
if you can take the pace hun :lol:
I am more than happy to take the challenge ;-)
I do not flirt, I just get accused of it. Mrs Mann tells me I am flirt.
"Was I?" say I, "I was trying to get her number."
"Flirt!" she says.
Honest I do not know I am doing it?
So when is flirting from the heart, can it be?
Travis
Quote by hisandhers
right folks after the events of this weekend I fancy a good old flirt with some one wink Any takers

innocent
Steve.. you're just a tart :silly:
just give me another hour with him then I'll pass him over lol
Couldn't he handle two at once then? :wink: