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Is it just me or does anybody else say something then spend hour or days regretting what you have said. Just a chance remark that you thought was innocent but eneded up hurting the one you cared about.
With regret, this is what I have done and do not know how to put it right. I now wish I had kept my big gob shut but the damage has been done. One day I will learn to keep it shut, but too late this time.
Dave_Notts
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Is it just me or does anybody else say something then spend hour or days regretting what you have said. Just a chance remark that you thought was innocent but eneded up hurting the one you cared about.
With regret, this is what I have done and do not know how to put it right. I now wish I had kept my big gob shut but the damage has been done. One day I will learn to keep it shut, but too late this time.
Dave_Notts

We all do from time to time Dave.. Just apologise - that's all you can do.
What did you say anyway? wink
Paul
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Is it just me or does anybody else say something then spend hour or days regretting what you have said. Just a chance remark that you thought was innocent but eneded up hurting the one you cared about.
With regret, this is what I have done and do not know how to put it right. I now wish I had kept my big gob shut but the damage has been done. One day I will learn to keep it shut, but too late this time.
Dave_Notts

Whoever it is that you said the wrong thing to simply explain that it was unintentional.
We all do it one way or another,and its always to the ones that mean the most.
Were all human after all!
Clare,xxx
wink
Well I have apologised unreservedly but this wonderful person wants time to think about it. I now just have to wait for their responce. Time will tell now, but it could be may biggest mistake this year.
Dave_Notts
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Well I have apologised unreservedly but this wonderful person wants time to think about it. I now just have to wait for their responce. Time will tell now, but it could be may biggest mistake this year.
Dave_Notts

Sounds tough but damage is damage. We've all done it and then we are into the damage limitation game. Having said that genuine remorse (and it has to be genuine remorse) is sometimes really effective and can even improve what you had before but usually only when the hurt party wants it.
sad
As forrest gump said...shit happens mate.
part of life unfortunately ans hope it gets better... :cry:
Dont worry Dave , its not as if anyone really cares what your opinion is anyway mate.........................
......................erm what I meant to say was . Erm im sure you can make amends and everyone likes you so much it'll all be ok ...................or something
DOH !!
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Is it just me or does anybody else say something then spend hour or days regretting what you have said. Just a chance remark that you thought was innocent but eneded up hurting the one you cared about.
With regret, this is what I have done and do not know how to put it right. I now wish I had kept my big gob shut but the damage has been done. One day I will learn to keep it shut, but too late this time.
Dave_Notts

Sounds like you have done the typical male thing, all you can do is grovel like the rest of us. redface
Hope she understands that you are a decent bloke underneath. lol
Good luck mate.
Awwww I feel for you hun......all you can do is apologise and then wait for her response, don't hassle her, just leave her to it....
I hope things work out for you hun....
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Awwww I feel for you hun......all you can do is apologise and then wait for her response, don't hassle her, just leave her to it....
I hope things work out for you hun....

echo exactly what the darling helen has said....i am sure she will see what a good thing she has in you. and forgive you.... then obviously chalk it up as experience and never do it again.......
sean xxxxxxx
Just a pity you are not female Dave otherwise you could have claimed:
"I must have been having a ´Blonde´moment"
The WHOOSH Man
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Just a pity you are not female Dave otherwise you could have claimed:
"I must have been having a ´Blonde´moment"
The WHOOSH Man

Can't men be blonde???