for single males who go to swinging clubs

What are single guys preferences in the club when developing long term friendship with single female who regularly attends?

31 Oct 2005

Im a single female who goes to swinging clubs. :rose: I want to get a better idea of what you guys are looking for. So I'm doing a poll. If you havent been to a club best not to answer the poll as you cant know until you've been there how you find it...eg some guys think gang bangs are awesome till they try to do one & feel self conscious.
I bet some of you are thinking I should just do what I want & if the guys cant handle it ....tough...Well I cant relax & enjoy if I know that there are people who are suffering. I want everyone else to enjoy too. Thats what takes me to cloud 9 & gets me flying.
Hope your input helps me to bliss out all the guys :angel: & all the guys develop good friendships with each other. Love to you all & big hugs

31 Oct 2005

not really the best way to do it as you can only choose one.
also my tastes depend on the atmosphere and person/ people im with. One night i may want to be your one and only, the next night i may just want to watch you sleep with the entire congrigation.
remember its good to talk, even about stuff as above before you start.
although if im doing it badly try and be a bit less obvious than 'you crap' lol.

31 Oct 2005

thankyou.....i dunno how to get it so you can vote for multiple....but it seemed that option wasnt there...anyway you get the picture.
Ive been going to a few clubs & when i was going with my partner we would strut around & invite people ...now im going alone ive gone all shy when i'm there lol. The single guys nights there are so many guys & so little time to play I find there is no time to chill out and chat (at the clubs)..well you cant have it all eh..so i was hoping to chat to swingers online.
BTW my name lets kiss refers to the band 'kiss' too as I would love to kiss a man who likes that rock band! Especially if he has tattoos

4 Nov 2005

I'm finding at the moment if a guy goes to the club weekly & I dont want to play with him......they just reach out & touch you & if you block them they sit watching until you get really aroused then try it on again!!! It seems to be the way that because some of the women are not forthcoming in inviting they think all the women just need a little 'push' & that pressuring the woman brings its rewards whereas the guy who is considerate goes home empty handed. I want to encourage all the female swingers....if i guy tries it on without invite when he puts his hand on you in a playroom...GRAB HIS HAND & move it off....then tell him later if he does it again you will make a note of his face & decide never to let him play with you

4 Nov 2005

The easiest way if they touch is to turn round and say " You ask a Lady before you touch"
If they touch again tell the staff and let them deal with them
Theres no need for it....and we shouldnt as females have to put up with it
I know I certainly dont

4 Nov 2005

i thought that was normal practise.
although i have seen a punch in the chops being a reply to such a touch.

4 Nov 2005

Quote by Vicky_uk
The easiest way if they touch is to turn round and say " You ask a Lady before you touch"

Quote by lets_kiss
they sit watching

I will admit, in a noisey environment, to touching on the hand or shoulder to get attention and then asking (made the mistake once of making a big assumption and got my head bitten off).
I will also admit to watching a women with someone after I was refused by her.
I consider both those situations to be OK. Have I been under a misaprehension and doing things wrong ??

4 Nov 2005

Quote by Phoenix
I will admit, in a noisey environment, to touching on the hand or shoulder to get attention and then asking (made the mistake once of making a big assumption and got my head bitten off).
Have I been under a misaprehension and doing things wrong ??

4 Nov 2005

Quote by lets_kiss

I will admit, in a noisey environment, to touching on the hand or shoulder to get attention and then asking (made the mistake once of making a big assumption and got my head bitten off).
Have I been under a misaprehension and doing things wrong ??

Well im saying they dont ask they just start fingering ur nipples & bum & then ur pussy if u dont stop playing & have a conversation with them......its rubbish that you have to keep stopping the sex to tell men off...how can you enjoy the play how can u relax..everytime you start getting turned on something more like a scenario starts developing.
I can well imagine your frustration and lack of enjoyment ... despite any club rules, politeness costs nothing but means alot biggrin

4 Nov 2005

Quote by lets_kiss

I will admit, in a noisey environment, to touching on the hand or shoulder to get attention and then asking (made the mistake once of making a big assumption and got my head bitten off).
Have I been under a misaprehension and doing things wrong ??

Well im saying they dont ask they just start fingering ur nipples & bum & then ur pussy if u dont stop playing & have a conversation with them......its rubbish that you have to keep stopping the sex to tell men off...how can you enjoy the play how can u relax..everytime you start getting turned on something more like a scenario starts developing.
well a few words usually work
"Back Off I said Dont touch" said in a loud voice
Just out of pure nosiness pm me the Club because I go to a few clubs and the dont touch approach works everytime..........this place sounds a nightmare

4 Nov 2005

Mod edited out commercial venture!
Oh... and banned the person too
rolleyes

:roll:

4 Nov 2005

and whats this got to do with male touchers at a swinging club?

4 Nov 2005

Quote by Vicky_uk
and whats this got to do with male touchers at a swinging club?

I was going to say that but then I realised lets_touch had mention the group Kiss and this reply related to a convention for the group Kiss redface

4 Nov 2005

ooooooooooooooh didnt know they were swingers :shock: lmao

4 Nov 2005

bring me with u one nite tell them all i'm your favourite a a jealious bastard who doesn't like u been touched unless you ask them

4 Nov 2005

Quote by Vicky_uk
ooooooooooooooh didnt know they were swingers :shock: lmao

Rockers, not swingers :lol2: although... I wouldn't be too sure ... Rock chicks :P

5 Nov 2005

Quote by Vicky_uk
The easiest way if they touch is to turn round and say " You ask a Lady before you touch"
If they touch again tell the staff and let them deal with them
Theres no need for it....and we shouldnt as females have to put up with it
I know I certainly dont

I agree completely with what you've said Vicky. I'd just like to point out that men deserve the same consideration. kiss

5 Nov 2005

Quote by Ice Pie
I agree completely with what you've said Vicky. I'd just like to point out that men deserve the same consideration.

WHAT

: You have to fight the women off.... ffs, I have to crawl on my knees to beg redface

Seriously, everyone, male or female should be asked, it's only polite.

6 Nov 2005

Quote by leprechaun
bring me with u one nite tell them all i'm your favourite and a jealious bastard who doesn't like u been touched unless you ask them

Ill take u with me then if any guy approaches then give them a menacing glare :happy: lmao then give em a black eye if they touch & tell em its cause they werent invited :twisted:
hmmmm thats a hell of a chatup line....wanna meet up? :taz: :wary: