After pondering the homophoic thread and my reply I was wondering ....
Have you done something sexually just for the experience even if you didnt really fancy it? If so how did it go, and would you do it again?
Ive had one or 2 encounters where i wasnt really into the guy and it wasnt a great eperience for me, actually felt like i'd let myself down in some crazy way after.
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Master of Sex
I think it's a boundaries thing ... most of us have immoveable boundaries set in stone that we, under no circumstances, would cross and others that are a little more flexible. I've pushed against some of those flexible boundaries and tried things that I wasn't raring to try - just for the experience. Some of those experiences I wouldn't care to repeat ... others I think would be ok to try again as they might be even better with a bit more practice. Obscure enough for you? 
I try not to pre-judge anything and am basically willing to try anything just for the hell of it.
having said that my own moral compass does set up some boundaries, e.g it must be pleasurable and it mustn't harm anyone/thing. If it meets those criteria then I reckon I'd try it (or have tried it).
It's not really any different than say food. I'll see a meal I've never had, it looks tasty but it contains nothing I've ever tasted before. Yup, I'd try it, albeit a little hesitatingly most likely.
having said that my own moral compass does set up some boundaries, e.g it must be pleasurable and it mustn't harm anyone/thing. If it meets those criteria then I reckon I'd try it (or have tried it).
It's not really any different than say food. I'll see a meal I've never had, it looks tasty but it contains nothing I've ever tasted before. Yup, I'd try it, albeit a little hesitatingly most likely.
Sex God
only when the mood takes me :red
my thing that always make me feel iffy after and i still cant get my head round is random stranger sex! now i know im on swinging site an it sort goes against the vein.. but after ive done it an its only been a few times that i havent spoke to the other person after ive felt rotten for weeks an so ive sworn never to do it again... me an stranger one nights do not mix its just not my bag.... need a conversation an a giggle for aleast five mins first!!! lol... 
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my thing that always make me feel iffy after and i still cant get my head round is random stranger sex! now i know im on swinging site an it sort goes against the vein.. but after ive done it an its only been a few times that i havent spoke to the other person after ive felt rotten for weeks an so ive sworn never to do it again... me an stranger one nights do not mix its just not my bag.... need a conversation an a giggle for aleast five mins first!!! lol...
I can sort of relate to that one Furby :smile: I sort of got into a situations...once only and I just couldn't continue, didn't do a thing for me! When i thought about it afterwards, I realised I didn't fancy him or even like him...
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yeah once, but shan't go into that incase it's read by that person!
lesson learned: learn by your mistakes x
Snap! lol
It's that old saying though - you learn by your mistakes
I've always been a person that pushes boundaries - either ones made for me or by me, just to see if I can. And not just sexual ones.
And by doing so, I've found things I like, things I don't like - been in situations that were great and others that make you think, 'why did i do that?'
But for me, that's life - To be Human is to make mistakes and learn from them...........it's when you don't that I think there's a problem
