gah, no luck! :(

24 Oct 2007

hey!
I signed up on the site last monday, put some nice pictures of me on there, made a (what I thought) was a nice profile and then upgraded to the extra service right away!
Since then I have been updating it a few times a day!
I dont get very many messages atall, but when I do, they are from optimistic bi-sexual men presumably hoping that I want to try something with them!
any tips on how to improve success? - I thought my 'no naked pictures' approach would be unique and bring me sucess!
Lots of love to you all! smile

Will xxxx

24 Oct 2007

yes, wait longer than a week rolleyes

24 Oct 2007

:roll: :roll:
Hello and welcome to the forums wave

not sure what you're looking for but maybe it might be worth asking for a mentor........the thread is stickied at the top of this forum. They'll be able to help you to sort out your profile etc.
Hope that helps and you have fun on the site smile

24 Oct 2007

Quote by poshkate
:rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes:
Hello and welcome to the forums
not sure what you're looking for but maybe it might be worth asking for a mentor........the thread is stickied at the top of this forum. They'll be able to help you to sort out your profile etc.
Hope that helps and you have fun on the site.

I second this although didn't know you could get a mentor?
To be fair tho you have only been here a week you say but you do have to have a little patience and maybe if you chatted a bit more in either the chatrooms or forums you may get to know people and arrange meets that way?

24 Oct 2007

Bear in mind that you are a new fish in a large pond populated by lots of other fish ....
The forums are a good place to start, but not by moaning that the place owes you a shag as you paid your fees.
Who are you, what do you like, what are your interests, why should women find you more of an attractive proposition than the next single male?
Join in some of the posts, get to know people, keep an eye out for local socials and it'll happen.
BTW .... welcome
Cx wave

24 Oct 2007

Quote by jaymar
:rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes:
Hello and welcome to the forums
not sure what you're looking for but maybe it might be worth asking for a mentor........the thread is stickied at the top of this forum. They'll be able to help you to sort out your profile etc.
Hope that helps and you have fun on the site.

I second this although didn't know you could get a mentor?
To be fair tho you have only been here a week you say but you do have to have a little patience and maybe if you chatted a bit more in either the chatrooms or forums you may get to know people and arrange meets that way?
There is a thread stickied in the cafe for mentors........so it's quite easy for newbies to find if they want to.
Some people like that chatroom, others used the forum or the photo adds. Decide for you what works best. lol

24 Oct 2007

You are posing by Wednesday about not getting the reaction you desire since Monday??!!
As has been said Tyres give it a bit more time.
You have youth on your side so don't give up your dreams but don't expect them to come true in five minutes. wink

25 Oct 2007

You don't have anything on your profile and this isn't exactly endearing

I'm friendly , fun, not boring, and the exact opposite of the stereotypical sleezy perv you might find on here

not a good idea to make wide ranging remarks with nothing to back it up and only a weeks experience!
Check the Mentoring thread at the top of the forum.
Mal

25 Oct 2007

Quote by jaymar
yes, wait longer than a week

But a week's a terribly long time when you're 21 and so eager wink

:therethere: Ineedmoretyres

25 Oct 2007

Quote by Freckledbird
yes, wait longer than a week

But a week's a terribly long time when you're 21 and so eager wink

:therethere: Ineedmoretyres
… and when you're older too!

:rotflmao: :rotflmao:

25 Oct 2007

Quote by jaymar
yes, wait longer than a week

He has.....
According to his profile he joined in July dunno

25 Oct 2007

Quote by Mallock2006
yes, wait longer than a week

He has.....
According to his profile he joined in July dunno

Quote by Ineedmoretyres
hey!
I signed up on the site last monday,

:dry: :gagged:

25 Oct 2007

What does the stereotypical sleezy perv look like then? innocent

:welcome: to the forums btw.
Louise xx

25 Oct 2007

Quote by louise_and_joe
What does the stereotypical sleezy perv look like then?
:welcome: to the forums btw.
Louise xx

Find a mirror - I just looked in one and saw a sleazy perv wink

25 Oct 2007

Quote by Freckledbird
What does the stereotypical sleezy perv look like then?
:welcome: to the forums btw.
Louise xx

Find a mirror - I just looked in one and saw a sleazy perv wink

:shock:
:doh:
:giggle:
Louise xx

25 Oct 2007

My mirror must be faulty..
All I can see is a pervy sleez dunno

25 Oct 2007

ooohhhhhh I though he said pervy SLEEVES.
:doh:
I was ransacking my wardrobe to see if I had any pervy sleeves.
Seriously tho tyres, all the advice on here is good, but patience is the key, you are one in a million+ single males, but make your profile stand out from the others in some way.

25 Oct 2007

Seriously tho, am I alone in thinking "another waste of time", we're all giving advice to this young lad, and welcomed him and yet he's been in the chatroom lounge "commenting" on the members being (something beginning with 'e'.. Mallock help me here lol

)
Like I've said, they post, they moan, they nick off and are never seen again. :sleeping:
Slap my butt if I'm wrong smackbottom

:lol:

25 Oct 2007

Quote by jaymar
Seriously tho, am I alone in thinking "another waste of time", we're all giving advice to this young lad, and welcomed him and yet he's been in the chatroom lounge "commenting" on the members being (something beginning with 'e'.. Mallock help me here )
Like I've said, they post, they moan, they nick off and are never seen again. :sleeping:
Slap my butt if I'm wrong
:lol:

I'll slap your butt with pleasure :smackbottom: but somehow I doubt your wrong...

25 Oct 2007

Quote by jaymar
Seriously tho, am I alone in thinking "another waste of time", we're all giving advice to this young lad, and welcomed him and yet he's been in the chatroom lounge "commenting" on the members being (something beginning with 'e'.. Mallock help me here )
Like I've said, they post, they moan, they nick off and are never seen again. :sleeping:
Slap my butt if I'm wrong
:lol:

Peezy Serve I may be but I can't bring myself to slap your butt J! redface

What's this 'e' word then?
entertaining?
embarrassing??
extraordinary???
exhibitionist????

25 Oct 2007

Quote by niceandgentle
Seriously tho, am I alone in thinking "another waste of time", we're all giving advice to this young lad, and welcomed him and yet he's been in the chatroom lounge "commenting" on the members being (something beginning with 'e'.. Mallock help me here )
Like I've said, they post, they moan, they nick off and are never seen again. :sleeping:
Slap my butt if I'm wrong
:lol:

Peezy Serve I may be but I can't bring myself to slap your butt J! redface

What's this 'e' word then?
entertaining?
embarrassing??
extraordinary???
exhibitionist????
ellitist. :dry:
Think he meant elite
dunno

You are too nice and gentle my sweet one, spank me anytime wink

25 Oct 2007

Quote by jaymar
Seriously tho, am I alone in thinking "another waste of time", we're all giving advice to this young lad, and welcomed him and yet he's been in the chatroom lounge "commenting" on the members being (something beginning with 'e'.. Mallock help me here )
Like I've said, they post, they moan, they nick off and are never seen again. :sleeping:
Slap my butt if I'm wrong
:lol:

You're not alone honey. The word was 'elitist' - can I slap your butt anyway now? :twisted:
Promise to kiss it better afterward wink

25 Oct 2007

Quote by jaymar
Seriously tho, am I alone in thinking "another waste of time", we're all giving advice to this young lad, and welcomed him and yet he's been in the chatroom lounge "commenting" on the members being (something beginning with 'e'.. Mallock help me here )
Like I've said, they post, they moan, they nick off and are never seen again. :sleeping:
Slap my butt if I'm wrong
:lol:

Peezy Serve I may be but I can't bring myself to slap your butt J! redface

What's this 'e' word then?
entertaining?
embarrassing??
extraordinary???
exhibitionist????
ellitist. :dry:
Think he meant elite
dunno

You are too nice and gentle my sweet one, spank me anytime wink

ops: :oops: :oops: :oops:
Wow Jaymar, anyone who gets to spank you MUST be in the ellit, that's the most ellitist thing anyone's ever said to me! kiss

25 Oct 2007

Quote by Freckledbird
Seriously tho, am I alone in thinking "another waste of time", we're all giving advice to this young lad, and welcomed him and yet he's been in the chatroom lounge "commenting" on the members being (something beginning with 'e'.. Mallock help me here )
Like I've said, they post, they moan, they nick off and are never seen again. :sleeping:
Slap my butt if I'm wrong
:lol:

You're not alone honey. The word was 'elitist' - can I slap your butt anyway now? :twisted:
Promise to kiss it better afterward wink

pleeeeeese do! :rascal:

25 Oct 2007

He's still grumbling in the chatroom lounge rolleyes

We're passing by you on Saturday Mar wink

25 Oct 2007

elitist.....eh hows that dunno

what a load of old claptrap.......there are some nice people on this site, and as in life, some not so nice people, but for the most part, the nice ones far outweigh the 'orrible ones.
I will talk to anyone me, beacuse I believe in the adage 'do as you would be done by' and 'do unto others as they would do to you' and other such mottoes as filched from christmas crackers .
so if you are nice to people, they will be nice back, if you fling insults around, be prepared for what you get back.............
*wonders if anyone will notice the little mention of christmas I sneaked in there :whistle: **

25 Oct 2007

Quote by Freckledbird
He's still grumbling in the chatroom lounge
We're passing by you on Saturday Mar

Ooooh are you now? kiss

What time? we're off to a halloween party PM. x

25 Oct 2007

Quote by jaymar
He's still grumbling in the chatroom lounge
We're passing by you on Saturday Mar

Ooooh are you now? kiss

What time? we're off to a halloween party PM. x
Lunchtime-ish.

25 Oct 2007

Quote by Freckledbird
He's still grumbling in the chatroom lounge
We're passing by you on Saturday Mar

Ooooh are you now? kiss

What time? we're off to a halloween party PM. x
Lunchtime-ish.
You have a PM :wink:

25 Oct 2007

Sleazy Pervs??
Oh dear tyres you are a naughty boy. Come here and let me

:smackbottom: :smackbottom:
Then I may tie you up and gag you.........Sleazy enough for you?? Yes/No? but it may well stop you from moaning and making generalizations about the lovely pervy people on this site! lol