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Quote by gaz69
hi anyone out there tried this, would like to meet a group of males to satisfy wifes fantasy, mine also but a little cautious of the safety aspect, are we better to advertise for a group or individuals, what our your views.
This may sound like inverse thinking to some but look at it like this:
If you advertise for a group of males you might be unlucky enough to find yourselves on the receiving end of an unpleasant, dangerous even, experience should they just happen to be a group of guys who know each other and are up to have some bad "fun" at your expense. You will not be in control.
If you make arrangements with individuals and put them together to form a group you will be in control because they will all be strangers to each other hence there will be safety in numbers as it were.
On the occasions when I am........er.........being played with by a group of males,
ops: :oops: I am always in control because they don't know each other from adam, and anyway most of them are thoroughly nervous and start at the rustle of a leaf or the crack of a breaking twig underfoot! 
:roll: Hope this helps!
:wink: ES :rascal: :rascal:
Sex God
Sounds like great advice Eager.
Scenario:
A group of guys together. Out of five of them there may be one who is a little 'pushy'. As nobody knows each other and they don't know if you know any of them either then they will play by your rules only. If one gets out of hand you can just blurt it out and if the others your with have a decent bone not in your body (sorry had to snigger at that) then they will stand up for you.
Personally I would just work your way with singles until you find a group who you would really like to have a group expereince with. This would take a long time (probably anyway) but atleast you would have fun in the mean time.
Scenario:
A group of guys together. Out of five of them there may be one who is a little 'pushy'. As nobody knows each other and they don't know if you know any of them either then they will play by your rules only. If one gets out of hand you can just blurt it out and if the others your with have a decent bone not in your body (sorry had to snigger at that) then they will stand up for you.
Personally I would just work your way with singles until you find a group who you would really like to have a group expereince with. This would take a long time (probably anyway) but atleast you would have fun in the mean time.
Sex God
Quote by gaz69
hi anyone out there tried this, would like to meet a group of males to satisfy wifes fantasy, mine also but a little cautious of the safety aspect, are we better to advertise for a group or individuals, what our your views.
You may happen to find a group of males who already know each other and who are looking for what you're offering --- all well and good provided you are aware that a group of male who know each other will have had chance to plan what it is they want, which maybe not what you want. If you were in a private place, ie. at home you would be then in a position to have to exercise crowd control :shock: . That's worst case scenario, obviously, but it could happen and you have to think about that.
If you advertise for a group of individuals to come together in a group you will not have the problem of what they have planned together as they will all be strangers. I'm kinda thinking that's safer. You can vet each one individually by phone or whatever and make sure they know the rules beforehand. I've organised groups in this way (max about 5 guys) -- not exactly for a gang bang, but it's the same thing really ---- inviting a number of strangers to my home and expecting them to behave. They always have with me, and I've never had any problems. There are other members on the forum who also advertise for groups like this so there are people who could give you further advice. One thing I would point out is that you will get a lot of no shows. Some guys bottle it, or make excuses, so be aware that you will always get those who don't turn up.
One way that you might do it totally safely is in a club. They have security, so you do not need to worry as much about things getting out of hand. You could get a group together in an orgy room, or if you were more choosy you could hand pick guys and take them all into a private room. Just a thought :P
I think I was lucky. My first (and so far only outside of clubs) gangbang was with a group of guys who already knew the ropes. They had 'performed' for other ladies. So they were understanding of my issues and totally caring.
I would be wary of beginners unless there was a third party there (in your case probably the male partner) who would control and organize things.
It is to my regret that good, safe gangbangs are, in fact, really hard to come by, especially if you're single.
Jezzay.
I would be wary of beginners unless there was a third party there (in your case probably the male partner) who would control and organize things.
It is to my regret that good, safe gangbangs are, in fact, really hard to come by, especially if you're single.
Jezzay.
Sex God
Quote by sancpa
hi,
only my opinion of course,
paulo
And a valid one! :thumbup:
Quote by sancpa
hi,
my first post... just a comment. As a single male that has been in that situation i believe that gang bangs with people that do not each other are good enough and if you break the ice you can create a good group.
only my opinion of course,
paulo
So supposing they're not good enough and you don't break the ice the way you like. Suppose one of the guys is heavily into S&M, domination and so on and the lady isn't. Suppose two of them are! That's a lot of muscular strength. Who can she call on to help? "Hello, Mum, I've arranged this gangbang and one of the guys is a bit rough...."
No. It's not like that. You have to understand the risks we take.
Jezzay.
sure... i do...
and i guess there is no way around that, because we are all very weary of eachother the first time. What i meant is that after 1 successful gb then you can build up with the "good" regulars... and probably the first time is a risk.
I was in a gb and being bi i would have loved so do some sucking... but i was not sure about that... i could have been kicked out or become very popular...
is a difficult one
p
and i guess there is no way around that, because we are all very weary of eachother the first time. What i meant is that after 1 successful gb then you can build up with the "good" regulars... and probably the first time is a risk.
I was in a gb and being bi i would have loved so do some sucking... but i was not sure about that... i could have been kicked out or become very popular...
is a difficult one
p
Having been to one club I would say go for that, it is safer and you have more control. As the second choice then slowly building a circle of friends who you trust. Gives you the chance to go for a gang bang role with more confidence.
So really just another thought along the same lines
Normally first instincts are right.
So really just another thought along the same lines
Normally first instincts are right. 
Sex God
I agree with those who recommend arranging it within a swinging club - especially for the built-in security reason.
Putting an ad for single guys to come along as individuals, rather than a group, is possible, but half of them probably won't turn up. :cry:
Putting an ad for single guys to come along as individuals, rather than a group, is possible, but half of them probably won't turn up. :cry:
