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Unknown User
Hello,
I don't think this is a problem on just this site but many others.
I find it really annoying that some bi/gay men can't accept rejection and that not all men are bi-curious and don't find men attractive. One clearly states you are only attracted to women, you then are accused of being a secret bi sexual.
If I was bi-curious I'd say so. Its really annoying that many profiles on these sites are fake ones created by bored chavs or bi/gay men hoping to see a cock cam.
Why the rouse? Why waste peoples time?
I have gay friends and they would never force this on me and would understand No mean no.
M1ssVery
Master of Sex
Don't take it to heart. Switch off your computer and they're *POOF* gone! (see what I did there?) :color:
No matter how much unwanted attention(winks, messages, chats) you get, remember: it's all virtual, these people are not actually knocking on your door. Ignore, delete, block..and have a nice day kiss
skinny
Sex God
Just get over it and enjoy the site. I think you you can be fairly sure that gay men are far less likely to pretend to be anything other than gay. It is a fact that many so called straight men indulge in, or contemplate, bisexual activity. If you show yourself on cam, particularly in a sexual pose or activity, then guys are going to watch, and guys are going to whisper you. That's just a fact. You can disable whispers, and you can block mail. Have fun.
Unknown User
take it as a compliment.... they must find something about you attractive if they contact. A simple thanks not my sort of thing...but hey good luck and have fun reply, is not such a difficult thing is it.
Unknown User
Quote by Rober_jones
Its really annoying that many profiles on these sites are fake ones created by bored chavs or bi/gay men hoping to see a cock cam

I'm a Bi Male and I'm not a Chav or a Cock on Cam watcher, you shouldn't tar everyone with the same brush.
Naughty_Wigan_Couple
Sex God
Quote by deancannock
take it as a compliment.... they must find something about you attractive if they contact. A simple thanks not my sort of thing...but hey good luck and have fun reply, is not such a difficult thing is it.

Exactly, a compliment is a compliment whether it is off a man, woman, or both. take it good spirit, say thank you but not what I am looking for. wink
Unknown User
Quote by deancannock
take it as a compliment.... they must find something about you attractive if they

They? Is this not a swing site where everyone is equal irrespective of preferences.
Marya_Northeast
Sex God
Quote by Rober_jones
Hello,
I don't think this is a problem on just this site but many others.
I find it really annoying that some bi/gay men can't accept rejection and that not all men are bi-curious and don't find men attractive. One clearly states you are only attracted to women, you then are accused of being a secret bi sexual.
Most people can't accept rejection. Men more than women, in my experience. They generally get a bit whiny then get arsey and call you all the bitches under the sun
If I was bi-curious I'd say so. You might, but many, many, MANY don't.
Its really annoying that many profiles on these sites are fake ones created by bored chavs or bi/gay men hoping to see a cock cam.
Why the rouse? Why waste peoples time? see above
I have gay friends and they would never force this on me and would understand No mean no.
And there's the difference . Real life versus the internet.
skinny
Sex God
You've been a member for a fortnight, you have fuck all on your profile, no pics of any value, you state that you like just about every sexual activity that can be listed, and you're complaining about being contacted by people claiming to be guys, presumably, I don't like to presume but your post suggests, because you showed yourself on cam...cock cam. Get over it and get known on site and go to a social. You will get out of this according to what you put into it.
Unknown User
I've been here years and never had my sexuality questioned. But then again, my primary focus isn't around glory holes* - something which tends to be most prevalent in the gay scene.
* see your advert and only other forum thread to evidence this sweeping generalisation. ;)
Unknown User
Quote by Rober_jones
Hello,
I don't think this is a problem on just this site but many others.
I find it really annoying that some bi/gay men can't accept rejection and that not all men are bi-curious and don't find men attractive. One clearly states you are only attracted to women, you then are accused of being a secret bi sexual.
If I was bi-curious I'd say so. Its really annoying that many profiles on these sites are fake ones created by bored chavs or bi/gay men hoping to see a cock cam.
Why the rouse? Why waste peoples time?
I have gay friends and they would never force this on me and would understand No mean no.

Well he didn't last long! Tis rare I say a bad word in the Forum about any fellow member, but my mailbox on here will now be free from insults since his exit.
Admins, if I've over stepped the mark here, well I'm sorry.
Lizaleanrob
Sex God
awwww he's gone before BIoke got to play with him talking of which
has any one seen fraser and BIoke lately bolt
Unknown User
Afraid not.