Err, Can anyone tell me why, having just joined this site "genuine guy seeking m/f couples" I am being hit on by unwanted lonely males? Ok appreciate my pics might be wrong, they were taken by one of the opposite. My age maybe in question but I'm not that hard up. Any girls/couples out there with ideas?
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Sex God
hello and welcome to the forum 
I can't see anything wrong with your pics :)
Some people answer add that don't describe them
keep persevering and I'm sure you'll have some fun in the end :)
I can't see anything wrong with your pics :)
Some people answer add that don't describe them
keep persevering and I'm sure you'll have some fun in the end :) Nsfjohn, what do you mean by "hit on"? If you mean guys appear in the list of members who have accessed your profile, that can sometimes happen accidentally. In the chatrooms, that bar that moves up and down the list of chatters sometimes develops a life of its own, and I find I often access the profile NEXT (or near) to the one I want to look at.
Sometimes guys check on other guys' profiles to check out the "competition" in a chatroom, especially if there's a guy there who appears to be especially popular in the room.
So don't worry too much - and good luck.
Sometimes guys check on other guys' profiles to check out the "competition" in a chatroom, especially if there's a guy there who appears to be especially popular in the room.
So don't worry too much - and good luck.
Sex God
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Err, Can anyone tell me why, having just joined this site "genuine guy seeking m/f couples" I am being hit on by unwanted lonely males? Ok appreciate my pics might be wrong, they were taken by one of the opposite. My age maybe in question but I'm not that hard up. Any girls/couples out there with ideas?
'Hard up'? :shock:
You do know that there are bi and gay males on here, don't you - who might just be a bit miffed about that remark - you don't have to be 'hard up' to be gay or bisexual
Quote by Nsfjohn
Err, Can anyone tell me why, having just joined this site "genuine guy seeking m/f couples" I am being hit on by unwanted lonely males? Ok appreciate my pics might be wrong, they were taken by one of the opposite. My age maybe in question but I'm not that hard up. Any girls/couples out there with ideas?
maybe they are hitting on you because your profile states you are looking for bi males and that you are orally bi.
...they are doing nothing more than taking a chance! Quote by Nsfjohn
Any girls/couples out there with ideas?
Hi John, there's a delete button in your inbox. All you have to do is delete the pm,s that don't interest you. Tell the guy's that "come on" to you that you are not interested. Easy
You may find that it takes a little longer than four day's to find what you are looking for too
Louise xx
These unwanted males may not be lonely at all.
Just because you are single, be you str8, bi or gay, that doesn't mean you are either.
I have loads of friends, a busy work and social life and, gasp, the odd bit of 1 on 1 sex!Not as much as I would like but some at least.I'd also like to do other things with other people hence my interest here.
I too have had males pm me asking about doing things sexually despite it being clear that my orientation is toward women be they single or half of a couple.
I simply politely refuse their offers and wish them well.
Just because you are single, be you str8, bi or gay, that doesn't mean you are either.
I have loads of friends, a busy work and social life and, gasp, the odd bit of 1 on 1 sex!Not as much as I would like but some at least.I'd also like to do other things with other people hence my interest here.
I too have had males pm me asking about doing things sexually despite it being clear that my orientation is toward women be they single or half of a couple.
I simply politely refuse their offers and wish them well.
Sex God
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Nsfjohn, I've just looked at your profile
:shock:
Do you think that having "Couple with Bi Male" as one of the things you're "looking for" might be the reason for the 'unwanted' attention????
Just a thought.
Nsfjohn, I've just looked at your profile
:shock:
Do you think that having "Couple with Bi Male" as one of the things you're "looking for" might be the reason for the 'unwanted' attention????
Just a thought.
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Err, Can anyone tell me why, having just joined this site "genuine guy seeking m/f couples" I am being hit on by unwanted lonely males? Ok appreciate my pics might be wrong, they were taken by one of the opposite. My age maybe in question but I'm not that hard up. Any girls/couples out there with ideas?
'Hard up'? :shock:
You do know that there are bi and gay males on here, don't you - who might just be a bit miffed about that remark - you don't have to be 'hard up' to be gay or bisexual
Have to agree with freckle for a change here
. You have what is required on your profile ie pics and a filled out advert. But if honest and maybe its just how you have worded things, your post sounds a tad rude.You are one of thousands of guys on here all looking for the same things, so do not expect instant sure with time you will find what you are looking for, but miracles are not one of them. Plenty of nice couples on this site and a lot of guys, most are not " lonely " though. :lol:
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Err, Can anyone tell me why, having just joined this site "genuine guy seeking m/f couples" I am being hit on by unwanted lonely males? Ok appreciate my pics might be wrong, they were taken by one of the opposite. My age maybe in question but I'm not that hard up. Any girls/couples out there with ideas?
'Hard up'? :shock:
You do know that there are bi and gay males on here, don't you - who might just be a bit miffed about that remark - you don't have to be 'hard up' to be gay or bisexual
I can just picture one of my gay mates reading that, & replying "Well they're of no use to me if they're not......"
Says you are seeking Bi couple and Couple with Bi male...........
Why not consider it a compliment that you are getting mail from people - even if they differ from what you are actually seeking..............
The day may dawn when the only thing that fills your Mailbox is cobwebs...............
Why not consider it a compliment that you are getting mail from people - even if they differ from what you are actually seeking..............
The day may dawn when the only thing that fills your Mailbox is cobwebs...............
