I have been searching through the swinging clubs via the link on this web site but none of them really strike me as a beginners environment? Does anyone have any advice for a young couple wanting to have a closer look at the scene??
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Sexlightened
I would love to help out but I have no experience with the clubs up in Lancashire !
Also I am too old and ugly to be of any use anyway !!
But good luck and have fun !
Also I am too old and ugly to be of any use anyway !!
But good luck and have fun !
Mod
As the wee Dean guy says 
get your name down for socials and munches and go along and meet new friends.
Won't be long till you're fighting them off with a big stick.
get your name down for socials and munches and go along and meet new friends.Won't be long till you're fighting them off with a big stick.
Master of Sex
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As the wee Dean guy says
Won't be long till you're fighting them off with a big stick.
thats a normal sized stick to everyone else
Mod
Hoi Dobber ......Don't forget anno where you live 
Sex God
i know of 1 club in the nw that does a newbies night i think its once a month .. whereby new people to the scene or just new to clubs can go along and they do icebreakers games and they have some fab advice to offer any new person to swinging or to the etiquette of clubs and swinging in general.
there is not a club i have been to where if you make it clear to the managers that you are new that they wont go out of their way to help you blend in and make the most out of your visit or help yu break the ice to more frequent club users to ask advice or just sit with so you dont feel so left out.
if you frequent a particular chat room, they normally hold social/non pushy (even though all clubs have a no means no policy) events at clubs and in that environment at least you will know some names to chat to.
in any event just go along to a club and have a sit down , take a few deep breaths and try to relax and at least have a look around, if ever you feel pushed or nervous about any attention just say no thanks and walk off, even go as far as mentioning it to the staff , they are there to help you
good luck and hope to see you at an event soon xxx
sara
there is not a club i have been to where if you make it clear to the managers that you are new that they wont go out of their way to help you blend in and make the most out of your visit or help yu break the ice to more frequent club users to ask advice or just sit with so you dont feel so left out.
if you frequent a particular chat room, they normally hold social/non pushy (even though all clubs have a no means no policy) events at clubs and in that environment at least you will know some names to chat to.
in any event just go along to a club and have a sit down , take a few deep breaths and try to relax and at least have a look around, if ever you feel pushed or nervous about any attention just say no thanks and walk off, even go as far as mentioning it to the staff , they are there to help you
good luck and hope to see you at an event soon xxx
sara
