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Hi all, I guess I should start by introducing ourselves?
We are Darren & Kat, both 30. We are a couple that have been together for 6 years now. A couple of years ago, things started to get exciting, but never really progressed from there. Things kept kicking of at friends parties, drinks after the pub, etc. Ranging from drunken play in underwear, same room sex, and then onto a girl/girl situation in a friends bathroom. Things were great, but it seem inside our circle of friends everyone has explorered as far as they wished too... with the exception of us!
I have been l visting this site for the last year or so, looking at the ads, and we still can't get our heads around it all, it's just a different world to us, even with our prior experiances! I just can't imagine having the courage to place an ad or even respond to one, let alone actually meeting up.
Kat wants some female action, and I'm 100% too as long as I'm not left out! A while back we got chatting to a couple in the chatroom and they suggested going to a pleasant club such as skinnys in brighton. We both kind liked the idea, but I guess we are just scared, mainly scared of not being able to fit in or just observe the situation without feeling pressure to perform in some way. End result was we never even had the guts to sign up sad
Any advice greatly appreciated,
D&K wink
danny and kat!
:welcome:
hope all your questions find answers!
neil x x x x ;-)
Hiya Danny and Kat and :welcome:
me and my other half have been on here since April which was when we first plced an ad and got into swinging ourselves.
Our first club experience was last weekend,we didnt once feel that we were under any kind of pressure to do anything we didnt want to.
If you want to just go to a club and get a feel for if its your sort of thing,then go for it,just observe and see what you think!!
Good luck!!
Hi we would like to know where you get your friends from we struggle to keep ours awake till 10pm. We don't think were boring cus we come on here for a start rolleyes
69position this is here cus i like it lol!!
Infact our friends don't like each other that much so the chance of them having sex with us is very remote lol
Hi & welcome from me smile
wave
Me and my other half (Morbius) have been here about 2 months after years of "shall we shan't we?" I can honestly say I've made some great, understanding and hysterical friends here ..... similar to you our real life friends just aren't the type (each to their own understandably).
We've been to two clubs now .. one is fantastic, the other wasn't that great, but each time we've felt fine and it's given us more confidence definitely.
Stick around, let people get to know you, get to know others, have no other expectations expect that you will make some great friends and it will happen for you :) And if it doesn't I can guarantee you will have a great time anyway LOL
Thank you all for your replys, you've made us both feel very welcome biggrin
I was clicking round the site and finally found out what a munch was! sounds like just the thing for us newbies? Can anyone suggest this a good first step? And how do we go about getting an invite to one?
Thank you all again, you've been great!
xxxx
K.
Welcome to the Site D and K......I hope you find all the answers to your questions....
Hello D and K wave :wave: :wave:
Welcome to the Mad house. If you have been popping in here for a while you will know that I am the only sensible person here - the rest are all nutters loon
I would suggest that you make the effort to continue posting in here so that you can get to know everyone and we can get to know you. Once you have worked out who you like and who you don't it becomes easy to arrange a meet, or better still, get down to your local munch so that you can put a face to the weirdo's you have been chatting to.
Good luck !!
Hiya D & K
Welcome from me too.
You do realise you have now embarked on a journey that will lead to an incurable addiction don't you.
Have fun!
Alex x x x
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Hi & welcome from me smile
wave
Me and my other half (Morbius) have been here about 2 months after years of "shall we shan't we?" I can honestly say I've made some great, understanding and hysterical friends here ..... similar to you our real life friends just aren't the type (each to their own understandably).
We've been to two clubs now .. one is fantastic, the other wasn't that great, but each time we've felt fine and it's given us more confidence definitely.
Stick around, let people get to know you, get to know others, have no other expectations expect that you will make some great friends and it will happen for you :) And if it doesn't I can guarantee you will have a great time anyway LOL

Like she says :laughabove: