We are Darren & Kat, both 30. We are a couple that have been together for 6 years now. A couple of years ago, things started to get exciting, but never really progressed from there. Things kept kicking of at friends parties, drinks after the pub, etc. Ranging from drunken play in underwear, same room sex, and then onto a girl/girl situation in a friends bathroom. Things were great, but it seem inside our circle of friends everyone has explorered as far as they wished too... with the exception of us!
I have been l visting this site for the last year or so, looking at the ads, and we still can't get our heads around it all, it's just a different world to us, even with our prior experiances! I just can't imagine having the courage to place an ad or even respond to one, let alone actually meeting up.
Kat wants some female action, and I'm 100% too as long as I'm not left out! A while back we got chatting to a couple in the chatroom and they suggested going to a pleasant club such as skinnys in brighton. We both kind liked the idea, but I guess we are just scared, mainly scared of not being able to fit in or just observe the situation without feeling pressure to perform in some way. End result was we never even had the guts to sign up

Any advice greatly appreciated,
D&K
