Lambchop's thread on being dumped in the cruelest of ways got me to thinking. Have you ever taken revenge on a partner ( or ex ) in an extreme way? eg, ripping their clothes up, paint over the car etc. Also, do you see it as them getting their just desserts or are you showing signs of becoming a bunny boiler?
I went out with a guy many years ago and thought the sun shone out of his arse, I was so in love with him. Months later I found he was not only shagging his best mate's fiancee as well as me but he had slept with the girl who moved into the flat above him.
Grabbing all his beloved 12" vinyl records, making sure I'd chosen the most rare ones too ( he worked as a dj at weekends and this was in the 80s before cds were invented ) I piled them up in the middle of the garden and set fire to the lot of them. I watched them melt into a huge pile of black goo before I left for good. I'm sure he knew it was me but couldn't prove it but boy, it felt good :twisted:
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Getting your own back or bunny boiler?
I have no idea how true this story is, but it made me laugh.
Husband deserts wife for a sweet young thing and moves into their second home. After a few months Ex and SYT go away on holiday. The wife still has a set of keys to the second home and lets herself in. She takes a watering can and waters all the carpets thoroughly and proceeds to scatter many many many packets of mustard and cress seeds throughout. She turns up the central heating and leaves.
This story however is perfectly true.
Husband leaves wife for a newer model and moves into shiny new apartment with her. The new g/f has got a beautifull afghan hound. Jilted wife spends next few months feeding it Ex Lax through the letterbox!!!!!!
Husband deserts wife for a sweet young thing and moves into their second home. After a few months Ex and SYT go away on holiday. The wife still has a set of keys to the second home and lets herself in. She takes a watering can and waters all the carpets thoroughly and proceeds to scatter many many many packets of mustard and cress seeds throughout. She turns up the central heating and leaves.
This story however is perfectly true.
Husband leaves wife for a newer model and moves into shiny new apartment with her. The new g/f has got a beautifull afghan hound. Jilted wife spends next few months feeding it Ex Lax through the letterbox!!!!!!
Quote by Reikiradical
I have no idea how true this story is, but it made me laugh.
Husband deserts wife for a sweet young thing and moves into their second home. After a few months Ex and SYT go away on holiday. The wife still has a set of keys to the second home and lets herself in. She takes a watering can and waters all the carpets thoroughly and proceeds to scatter many many many packets of mustard and cress seeds throughout. She turns up the central heating and leaves.
This story however is perfectly true.
Husband leaves wife for a newer model and moves into shiny new apartment with her. The new g/f has got a beautifull afghan hound. Jilted wife spends next few months feeding it Ex Lax through the letterbox!!!!!!
I love it :giggle:
a very long story cut short--I had a lengthy relationship come to an end. we unfortunately had to share the house and agreed some ground rules. one of them being that we would not have any new "partners" in the house while the other was there.
I came downstairs one night to find a mutual friend with her tongue down my exes throat and her hands up her top...
:x
I had my revenge on my ex...
but on my friend it was a little more planned as I had- over the years- suspected her attraction to my partner and had asked them both as I felt that they were being dishonest (subsequently found out that they had been sleeping together for years)
anyway... as a valued and popular member of staff at the company we all worked for. I sent the friend an e-mail detailing exactly how much of a friend I had been to her for the previous 3 years. all the things that I had done all the support I had given etc etc..
I then detailed exactly how she had repaid the trust and how betrayed and hurt I felt.
I also said in the p.s that I had BCC'd (this is when you copy in other recipients and the main receipient does not know) in all my friends within the company, exactly whom, she would never know. As I had been at the company for a number of years she would never exactly know who knew what she had done. But when she went for a promotion or different job and she didn't get - they knew. If the conversation stopped when she entered a room - they knew. If people laughed as she walked passed then- they knew etc etc.......
I never actually BCC'd anyone as I couldn't be that cruel. :shock:
but was told by a friend who watched her open the e-mail that she went white on receiving it and then had to go home "poorly".
:)
Although mike48s' way is the best way..... at the time I did enjoy what I did and felt that I was reclaiming my self esteem after being treated badly for a very long time.
I have no regrets and it still makes me chuckle.
:lol:
I came downstairs one night to find a mutual friend with her tongue down my exes throat and her hands up her top...
:x I had my revenge on my ex...
but on my friend it was a little more planned as I had- over the years- suspected her attraction to my partner and had asked them both as I felt that they were being dishonest (subsequently found out that they had been sleeping together for years)
anyway... as a valued and popular member of staff at the company we all worked for. I sent the friend an e-mail detailing exactly how much of a friend I had been to her for the previous 3 years. all the things that I had done all the support I had given etc etc..
I then detailed exactly how she had repaid the trust and how betrayed and hurt I felt.
I also said in the p.s that I had BCC'd (this is when you copy in other recipients and the main receipient does not know) in all my friends within the company, exactly whom, she would never know. As I had been at the company for a number of years she would never exactly know who knew what she had done. But when she went for a promotion or different job and she didn't get - they knew. If the conversation stopped when she entered a room - they knew. If people laughed as she walked passed then- they knew etc etc.......
I never actually BCC'd anyone as I couldn't be that cruel. :shock:
but was told by a friend who watched her open the e-mail that she went white on receiving it and then had to go home "poorly".
:) Although mike48s' way is the best way..... at the time I did enjoy what I did and felt that I was reclaiming my self esteem after being treated badly for a very long time.
I have no regrets and it still makes me chuckle.
:lol: My ex decided to make a play for my new partner while we were in the process of splitting our shared house up. However, I knew her too well by this point so we decided to set her up, let her think that she was well in there. She was texting my new gf, not knowing that the messages she was getting back were all written by me and that I was loving every minute of winding her up!!
Anyway, she still has no idea to this day why nothing ever happened between her and my gf, and if they ever bump into each other she still asks her out for a drink or a coffee!
I don't know if she was worse than me cos she then proceeded to go out and get herself a new bird with the same name and birthday one day later than my new gf - stalkery or just downright creepy - you decide :shock:
!!
Anyway, she still has no idea to this day why nothing ever happened between her and my gf, and if they ever bump into each other she still asks her out for a drink or a coffee!
I don't know if she was worse than me cos she then proceeded to go out and get herself a new bird with the same name and birthday one day later than my new gf - stalkery or just downright creepy - you decide :shock:
!! 
Sex God
Quote by mike48
After my divorce and the way i was dragged through the courts for decent access
for my kids and the costs incurred ..the best way i found to get revenge and would recommend this way to everyone ...was to live the rest of my life being HAPPY ( :twisted: EVIL OR WHAT :twisted: still infuriates her to this day
Works every time
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Could not agree with you more - absolutely 100% spot on.
Jealousy and revenge damage you but getting on with your life and being really happy is better for you and damages the other side much more than anything else possibly could.
Right on
Orgasminator
My husband stole our marriage album when he left me and only recently I found out that he had stolen lots more pictures that he had no rights to. I don't care about the marriage pics but I am quite upset about him taking pics of my life before I met him. The only thing that consoles me is that he stole them because he thought I looked great in them and wanted to have proof that he had once married up in society.
Quote by Too Hot
After my divorce and the way i was dragged through the courts for decent access
for my kids and the costs incurred ..the best way i found to get revenge and would recommend this way to everyone ...was to live the rest of my life being HAPPY ( :twisted: EVIL OR WHAT :twisted: still infuriates her to this day
Works every time
:thumbup:
Could not agree with you more - absolutely 100% spot on.
Jealousy and revenge damage you but getting on with your life and being really happy is better for you and damages the other side much more than anything else possibly could.
Right on
I agree to a point but I couldn't just let the b*stard get away with it without paying him back in some evil way :twisted:
Remember, revenge is a dessert best served cold
Quote by Sassy-Seren
Lambchop's thread on being dumped in the cruelest of ways got me to thinking. Have you ever taken revenge on a partner ( or ex ) in an extreme way? eg, ripping their clothes up, paint over the car etc. Also, do you see it as them getting their just desserts or are you showing signs of becoming a bunny boiler?
I went out with a guy many years ago and thought the sun shone out of his arse, I was so in love with him. Months later I found he was not only shagging his best mate's fiancee as well as me but he had slept with the girl who moved into the flat above him.
Grabbing all his beloved 12" vinyl records, making sure I'd chosen the most rare ones too ( he worked as a dj at weekends and this was in the 80s before cds were invented ) I piled them up in the middle of the garden and set fire to the lot of them. I watched them melt into a huge pile of black goo before I left for good. I'm sure he knew it was me but couldn't prove it but boy, it felt good :twisted:
Sound like the woman fron the VW ads. Chucked all the stuff in the street n drove off in the car
Sex God
Quote by Sassy-Seren
After my divorce and the way i was dragged through the courts for decent access
for my kids and the costs incurred ..the best way i found to get revenge and would recommend this way to everyone ...was to live the rest of my life being HAPPY ( :twisted: EVIL OR WHAT :twisted: still infuriates her to this day
Works every time
:thumbup:
Could not agree with you more - absolutely 100% spot on.
Jealousy and revenge damage you but getting on with your life and being really happy is better for you and damages the other side much more than anything else possibly could.
Right on
I agree to a point but I couldn't just let the b*stard get away with it without paying him back in some evil way :twisted:
Remember, revenge is a dessert best served cold
Well sassy, If you think about how much the thought of revenge consumes you - you would realise that the person who suffers most would be you. Whereas being positive in your own mind and purging yourself of all the crabby negative thoughts will be much more beneficial to you than being consumed and filled with rage and thoughts of revenge.
Being happy is the ultimate revenge - ask any true Srink - it is the best revenge in the world
Nope, revenge only consumes until you've done the deed THEN you move on :grin: I hasten to add that he's the only one I've done an 'Alanis' on and I WAS only 24 at the time. I'm now a lot wiser, calmer and more mature so when I found out last year my ( now ex) hubby had found himself another bint, I just booted him out. The fact that I've kept the house and it's contents, my car and I'm having more sex than I ever did when we were together is enough for me 
It has been said that revenge is sweet.....
Just been talking to a friend of mine (not from the swinging scene, although that doesn't really matter I suppose....).
She was recently dumped by her long term boyfriend by text, and as an act of revenge, posted rather lewd pictures of him in HER underwear on her myspace account, knowing full well that his mates would see it as they were part of her network of contacts. She's apparently considering other ideas. Thereby confirming the phrase "a woman scorned...."
Got me thinking, have you ever done an act of revenge on someone? Have you ever wanted to but thought better of it? Any really good ideas for revenge that you'd just LOVE to show someone?
Have to admit there's been a couple of people I'd have loved to have done something to. Guess once I've calmed down and thought better of it I've realised it won't solve or change anything. Still, tempting at the time.....
Just been talking to a friend of mine (not from the swinging scene, although that doesn't really matter I suppose....).
She was recently dumped by her long term boyfriend by text, and as an act of revenge, posted rather lewd pictures of him in HER underwear on her myspace account, knowing full well that his mates would see it as they were part of her network of contacts. She's apparently considering other ideas. Thereby confirming the phrase "a woman scorned...."
Got me thinking, have you ever done an act of revenge on someone? Have you ever wanted to but thought better of it? Any really good ideas for revenge that you'd just LOVE to show someone?
Have to admit there's been a couple of people I'd have loved to have done something to. Guess once I've calmed down and thought better of it I've realised it won't solve or change anything. Still, tempting at the time.....
