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alright everyone just wonder if anyone can give me a bit of advice! the prob is when my gf go's on top and im in her she cant feel anything when shes going up and down does any one know y this might be? and are there any tecneques or positions for her on top she could try to make it better for her is g8 for me when shes on top!
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Quote by fireball69
alright everyone just wonder if anyone can give me a bit of advice! the prob is when my gf go's on top and im in her she cant feel anything when shes going up and down does any one know y this might be? and are there any tecneques or positions for her on top she could try to make it better for her is g8 for me when shes on top!

You serious, mate? She on this site? I would talk to her about it, via PM
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alright everyone just wonder if anyone can give me a bit of advice! the prob is when my gf go's on top and im in her she cant feel anything when shes going up and down does any one know y this might be?

Maybe your dick's too small?
Just a thought :grin:
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Quote by bluexxx
Maybe your dick's too small?
Just a thought :grin:

No need for that, mate!!! Maybe (just maybe) he was being serious.
Yeah, I know.. it's a ong shot, but... just in case.
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very funny m8! she can read off when im on here so add replys to this thred and shes read them! so any tips or sugestions? she can feel abit but not too much and its not g8 so she wants to find out how to make her on top amazing! any tips or ideas? thanks
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Well, I have to admit to mild astonishment. Never heard of this before...
Does she position herself upright when astride you, or does she lean forward? The difference in positions makes a big difference to where the sensations are for her (and for you too for that matter). I've found that, in my experience, more women prefer the feelings they get from leaning forward.
Maybe give that a try?
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Quote by Vix
Maybe your dick's too small?
Just a thought :grin:

No need for that, mate!!! Maybe (just maybe) he was being serious.
Yeah, I know.. it's a ong shot, but... just in case.
I was being serious lol :lol: :lol: :lol: .... really....... honest....... cool
If she hasn't had this problem before with guys who have bigger dicks, there's your proof. Other than that, dunno....... :uhoh:
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Quote by Vix
Yeah, I know.. it's a ong shot, but... just in case.

Is that like a long shot, only slightly shorter?
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Yeah, I know.. it's a ong shot, but... just in case.

Is that like a long shot, only slightly shorter?
Yes. Yes it is.
Fireball69.... you have a PM.
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Hi. Have her sit on your cock while you lay back. She should be kneeling upright. Then get her to grind her hips forward and back as opposed to up and down. If you both get it right you can have your cock banging on her g-spot every time! Careful though. If she's over zealous (Spelled right?) your cock could pop out and she might hammer it good and proper!
This technique works VERY well for me and my girlfriend but it might not for you. Have fun trying!
biggrin :D :D :D
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You could try a willy extention??
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Get her to turn around (no not as in your name, but that may work) just try her facing your feet. Or try squatting on you, tighter...
Just a couple of thoughts...
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how about sticking a pillow under ur bum so ur slightly raised to make penetration that bit deeper.

OOOOH - i recommend that one too - its WICKED!!
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Hi. Have her sit on your cock while you lay back. She should be kneeling upright. Then get her to grind her hips forward and back as opposed to up and down. If you both get it right you can have your cock banging on her g-spot every time! Careful though. If she's over zealous (Spelled right?) your cock could pop out and she might hammer it good and proper!
This technique works VERY well for me and my girlfriend but it might not for you. Have fun trying!
biggrin :D :D :D

Yep thats the one that does it for us lol
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Quote by mojobiker
Hi. Have her sit on your cock while you lay back. She should be kneeling upright. Then get her to grind her hips forward and back as opposed to up and down. If you both get it right you can have your cock banging on her g-spot every time! Careful though. If she's over zealous (Spelled right?) your cock could pop out and she might hammer it good and proper!
This technique works VERY well for me and my girlfriend but it might not for you. Have fun trying!
biggrin :D :D :D

Well worded bud wink
if that doesnt work for you, then you might have to consider a cock job or alternatively invest in a cock extension
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I find leaning forward is good - frontal friction! but then at certain points i do a lean back thingummy as well that really hits the G and causes the ever fabulous gushing!
Oh lucky lucky me. it's just one of those days!
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When she's sitting on you, get her to raise her knees up then move her calfs forward so her legs straighten out and her ankles are laying either side of your head. Then get her to lay back while you hold hands and pull each other in a rocking motion.
That one is REALLY rude! :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
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When she's sitting on you, get her to raise her knees up then move her calfs forward so her legs straighten out and her ankles are laying either side of your head. Then get her to lay back while you hold hands and pull each other in a rocking motion.

HELL NO I tried that one once - oooooooooooooooooooooch :wateringeyessmiley:
What are you, a man or a mouse ? Grab her arse and move her until it works for both of you. Sorted smile
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I'm not sure what my postion is on this subject rolleyes

Maybe you should experiment.
How's Friday, for you?
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I think the clue is her going 'up and down'... all wrong, curl your hips up so that your cock is naturally directed towards your head and get her to grind back and forth against you by rolling her hips - she's in control so she should be able to make your cock rub against her g-spot and because she's moving back and forth against you her clit is getting stimulated too. If you've got a toned stomach and strong abs you should even be able to tense them as she's getting closer effectively allowing her to rub her clit harder against you.
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Quote by Vix
I'm not sure what my postion is on this subject rolleyes

Maybe you should experiment.
How's Friday, for you?
To use a Vix phrase:You've got a PM
..but not at the time of writing this 'cos I haven't done it yet.
The PM that is.
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I think the clue is her going 'up and down'... all wrong, curl your hips up so that your cock is naturally directed towards your head and get her to grind back and forth against you by rolling her hips - she's in control so she should be able to make your cock rub against her g-spot and because she's moving back and forth against you her clit is getting stimulated too. If you've got a toned stomach and strong abs you should even be able to tense them as she's getting closer effectively allowing her to rub her clit harder against you.

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Look,never mind all this SEX business Williams - now you've "come out" and joined the Forum I want to ask you about SPRITUAL matters.
Robbie - I sit and wait - Does an Angel contemplate my fate?
Sexlightened
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alas i was here well before the post regarding monsieur williams...
On a spiritual level and in reply to your question - if you sit and wait... you lose. wink
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confused It is a bit of a worry - Kit has always said that when she is on top, she does get more penetration and feeling.
The upright and grinding bit works, and TnH's suggestion of her turning round, which sort of duplicates the doggy position, which, by the way, would be a good question. How does it feel to her when you have sex doggy style?
And as a bit of added sensation - when she is sitting upright, use your thumb to stimulate her clitoris - better still, a vibrator. Not a rabbit though - it is a bit bulky, use one of the more basic models.
Oh, don't forget the nipples, anus, well, with your hands free it can be a whole body experience actually.
I could go on forever really, in fact, Jags hunny, are you busy? I just want to see if there is anything I missed....... :twisted:
lhk
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Quote by Robbie
alas i was here well before the post regarding monsieur williams...
On a spiritual level and in reply to your question - if you sit and wait... you lose. wink

Well Robbie thats true - but she won't forsake me! :wink:
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I feel I really need to further experiment in this area myself, to refresh my very bad memory, so that I can better offer helpful and insightful advice.
Any sexy ladies want to volunteer to help me analyse the problem and work on finding the ideal solution?
Anyone? Anyone at all? Anyone?!
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but she won't forsake me! wink

Yes she will. You may think not but everybody, given the chance, will shit on you from a varying heights.... its an unfortunate aspect of human nature and the constant battle to caress our self esteem.
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Quote by Robbie
but she won't forsake me! wink

Yes she will. You may think not but everybody, given the chance, will shit on you from a varying heights.... its an unfortunate aspect of human nature and the constant battle to caress our self esteem.
No she won't!She won't forsake me - you sang it mate - don't diss your own lyrics! :wink:
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Have you tried getting her to mount you facing your feet (good position for the rocking hips) or (when facing forwards) squat instead of straddle, all she need do is bounce then and you achieve full penetration. But as previously mentioned - if she leans forward whilst straddled over you - that works well also.
I can think of a few more but they are too difficult to explain in text. I might be willing to demonstrate a few of them to anyone who is interested lol