Girls women lady type people...

25 Aug 2011

If on a meet with a guy or a couple and the guy seems to be great and all is going great guns until the point when the guy and yourself finds Mr Johnson aint getting up to play. Are you understanding or do you think "What a useless bas*ard"?
I know it can be a little dissappointing when J is with a guy and all is going well until its da dadadaaaaaaaaa condom time. At which point the guys Mr Johnson decides bollox to it and goes into erectus impossiblus mode. Granted, most of the time it just takes a little extra persuasion to encourage back to atention but other times it looks like a waste of arm and throat muscles and time would be better spent enjoying a cup of coffee and filling in a take a break book.

25 Aug 2011

Of course it's disappointing but these things happen. I think you have to come across as being understanding (although in you're head you just want it to work) as it cant be a nice thing to happen to any guy.
I do believe that a lot of it isn't just condom induced. It may start off that way but we all know that the brain is the main sex organ and surely as soon as a guy has an "Oh no!" moment and wills it to work, it has the opposite effect.
If the guy has one bad experience, he's also bound to put more pressure on himself and worry about it happening the next time so I think that being understanding is the only way to go.
If he's good with his tongue and fingers it can make up for it anyway lol

29 Aug 2011

This happened to me about a year ago. Thinking about it did not help. The lady was understanding and a little time and lack of pressure was all it took. She was far more supporting than her husband.
Why did it happen? Could have been because it was my first party. That I felt I needed to to hold my end up.

29 Aug 2011

Happens to me all the time. I warn playmates before hand and in the main find most folk to be considerate.
I really ought to get round to asking the GP for a more thorough investigation of the cause cos although my sexual exploits have never been fundamentally cock centric it would be nice to be able to rely on a rampant dibbler when the mood is right.

29 Aug 2011

Quote by Ben_Minx
Happens to me all the time. I warn playmates before hand and in the main find most folk to be considerate.
I really ought to get round to asking the GP for a more thorough investigation of the cause cos although my sexual exploits have never been fundamentally cock centric it would be nice to be able to rely on a rampant dibbler when the mood is right.

a considerable amount of erectile dysfunction caused in men over 40 ben is caused by smoking due to the narrowing effect it has on the arteries
this also effects the eyes badly as eyes have some of the smallest veins in the whole body !!

29 Aug 2011

Hmmmmm Speaking as a single lady who doesn't have cock on demand at home, it would be the worst thing ever :sad:
You get to fever pitch when all you wanna scream is FFS!!!! FUCK ME!!! and there is nothing... it's like that tumbleweed that blows across the desert just appeared... I think I would cry.. or scream.. AAAAAAAAAAAAARRRRRRRRRRGGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHH :sparring:
For me a vibrator is only satisfying on my clit... You can't beat a man's throbbing cock inside with his strong body over you letting you know he's taking you :grin:
Tho I know these things happen and it's just one of those things **huff**
XS :rascal: xx

29 Aug 2011

It's never happened to me on a meet, but I reckon it wouldn't be too bad; there's more to do than just cock stuff, right?! wink

It did however happen a few times with a guy I was seeing a few years ago. He subsequently found out he had diabetes, so I expect that was the problem. I know he was really bothered about it and I just wish, in hindsight, he'd gone to the docs as the diabetes might have been diagnosed sooner.

29 Aug 2011

Keep an eye also on any medications you are on. I had some trouble at one meet where it was shall we say up and down. Could well have been due to the steroids I was taking at the time which according to the leaflet increased female hormones in the body.