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There's a thread called Depression - sorry don't know how to link. Total IT-phobe.
There are a few comments from people who may be feel, or have felt, the same.
It's fairly recent thread but the rate this place goes, it's probably on page 15 by now! I'll go and have a look for it - be right back!
There are a few comments from people who may be feel, or have felt, the same.
It's fairly recent thread but the rate this place goes, it's probably on page 15 by now! I'll go and have a look for it - be right back!
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/19672.html
That's it anyway. How do you rename them? You know like people have "click here to see my ad" ??? PM me the answer - I don't want to hi-jack this thread.
BIG hugs to you, lazee. :therethere: Sorry we haven't had chance to chat yet. Will be back online later tonight if you're about?
That's it anyway. How do you rename them? You know like people have "click here to see my ad" ??? PM me the answer - I don't want to hi-jack this thread.
BIG hugs to you, lazee. :therethere: Sorry we haven't had chance to chat yet. Will be back online later tonight if you're about?
Wotcher, Lazy. I 'speck you are still feeling down. You know, it ain't been that long, after all.
If you seriously think you're falling into the pit of depression and can't climb out - go see your GP. There's enough of us on here who have been thru/are going thru mental illness and it is no social biggie.
If the thought of that makes you mad at me, then I apologise. I don't know anything about you, after all. Just would not want anyone to 'put it off' for as long as I did before starting to get things sorted.
*hugs* as ever,
V
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If you seriously think you're falling into the pit of depression and can't climb out - go see your GP. There's enough of us on here who have been thru/are going thru mental illness and it is no social biggie.
If the thought of that makes you mad at me, then I apologise. I don't know anything about you, after all. Just would not want anyone to 'put it off' for as long as I did before starting to get things sorted.
*hugs* as ever,
V
XX
Orgasminator
Quote by Vix
If you seriously think you're falling into the pit of depression and can't climb out - go see your GP. There's enough of us on here who have been thru/are going thru mental illness and it is no social biggie.
Agreed... go and see your Doctor... Depression is a cruel illness... I had it once... turned up at my docs blubbing like a six year old who had been told that Santa Claus didn't exist... (cue folks going "What!!!) She put me on Seroxat for about six months and I knew when it was time for me to wean myself off of them...
Quote by Vix
If the thought of that makes you mad at me, then I apologise. I don't know anything about you, after all. Just would not want anyone to 'put it off' for as long as I did before starting to get things sorted.
I was speaking with my ex today, I woke him up at .. I know he is going to suffer depression for the rest of his life because he cannot find the energy to overcome it and it is very sad... a lovely, intelligent and funny man blighted by this illness... makes me want to cry (again). He thinks he can never be cured... and he has suffered depression for 20 years...
thanks people.I've just read through the"Depression" thread as recommended and it has confirmed what I was your kind responses have kind of told me that i am suffering from the big 's no stranger to me but when i finally came out of it previously I promised myself nobody would get me into that black pit again and yet.....
I gave up my whole lifestyle,job,friends,locale etc,when i fell in love with this woman,now I am stranded in a town I don't really know or like,just marooned and alone with memories that hurt so much.
Your responses mean so much.
lb
I gave up my whole lifestyle,job,friends,locale etc,when i fell in love with this woman,now I am stranded in a town I don't really know or like,just marooned and alone with memories that hurt so much.
Your responses mean so much.
lb
Orgasminator
Quote by GregLondon
The biggest problem about depression is that one of the symptons is lacking the energy and will to pull yourself out.
I'm on seroxat and it has helped. It also didn't have toooo many sexual side-effects.
My ex was on Seroxat for two years with no benefits what so ever... In fact he told me the pills made him worse... to my discredit I didn't believe him... now what do we hear in the news... Seroxat can make some people suicidal... I've yet to apologise to him for that... (makes mental note)...
Life is a big pile of pooh sometimes... :cry:
Sex God
Quote by WibblyWobbly
Life is a big pile of pooh sometimes... :cry:
That's sadly true ... but don't forget, no matter how bad you THINK it is for 'you' ... there are a hell of a lot of people out there who are in far, far worse situations than 'you' will ever be in ...
"Pick yourself up, dust yourself down and start all over again"
(Hope that doesn't sound flip or unfeeling ... I honesty do believe that we're all luckier than we realise, no matter what 'shit' we think we go through)
Orgasminator
Just look at all the great people on here and i am quite sure we can all put a smile back on your face.
TS
TS
Part of the way out is to say what you really mean.
I know it is practice used in many therapies, but often they help.
Write a letter to your ex. It NEVER gets posted, or she see's it, but it is everything you want to say, the whole truth and no holds barred. When you have done it, put it away for a few days and read it, and see if you have said it all. When you read it a few times, you will have seen to have said what you need, and you then burn it somewhere quiet, and as it smolders to ash, you close the book on the episode in your life and tomorrrow begin another day. Relationships have to be dealt with like the death of a dear friend. Once they have truely gone, we can but reminisce on the past. If you do think ONLY of the goodtimes, because the bad times have gone...the good stay with you forever and make you smile. I know from experience in a life taken, it hurts to think of the bad, so shut it out and you WILL think of the good, but also the future..
Hope it helps....
YY
I know it is practice used in many therapies, but often they help.
Write a letter to your ex. It NEVER gets posted, or she see's it, but it is everything you want to say, the whole truth and no holds barred. When you have done it, put it away for a few days and read it, and see if you have said it all. When you read it a few times, you will have seen to have said what you need, and you then burn it somewhere quiet, and as it smolders to ash, you close the book on the episode in your life and tomorrrow begin another day. Relationships have to be dealt with like the death of a dear friend. Once they have truely gone, we can but reminisce on the past. If you do think ONLY of the goodtimes, because the bad times have gone...the good stay with you forever and make you smile. I know from experience in a life taken, it hurts to think of the bad, so shut it out and you WILL think of the good, but also the future..
Hope it helps....
YY
Quote by yin yang
Part of the way out is to say what you really mean.
I know it is practice used in many therapies, but often they help.
Write a letter to your ex. It NEVER gets posted, or she see's it, but it is everything you want to say, the whole truth and no holds barred. When you have done it, put it away for a few days and read it, and see if you have said it all. When you read it a few times, you will have seen to have said what you need, and you then burn it somewhere quiet, and as it smolders to ash, you close the book on the episode in your life and tomorrrow begin another day. Relationships have to be dealt with like the death of a dear friend. Once they have truely gone, we can but reminisce on the past. If you do think ONLY of the goodtimes, because the bad times have gone...the good stay with you forever and make you smile. I know from experience in a life taken, it hurts to think of the bad, so shut it out and you WILL think of the good, but also the future..
Hope it helps....
YY
Thanks for that.I'll try and do it in the next few days.
