Good manners

14 Apr 2008

Hi all was just wondering what you thought about people who don't have the manners to reply to you repling to there advert. It really P's me off mad

that they can't even put together two words " NO THANKS ", am i the only one here or what and before anyone says it, i know people get a lot of replies from us single guys and so on

14 Apr 2008

Quote by wantingsome
Hi all was just wondering what you thought about people who don't have the manners to reply to you repling to there advert. It really P's me off that they can't even put together two words " NO THANKS ", am i the only one here or what and before anyone says it, i know people get a lot of replies from us single guys and so on

This thread has been done before. We sometimes do not reply as we clearly state what we are looking for, but still people contact us, knowing they are not our sort to meet with. They obviously have not read our advert properly, and on that score we do not reply.
It is a fact of swinging, and something you will have to learn to live with..be it right or wrong.

14 Apr 2008

Jeez, the second grumble I've read in as many minutes!
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/279233.html
Read Fabio's post!
:thumbup:
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14 Apr 2008

i once got a reply back saying sorry your dick is too big and another said i was too young but on a normal day those could have been compliments but i was dissappointed and i wish they didnt reply at all
those are not opinions but facts..can you handle NO THANKS???

14 Apr 2008

If there is a lot of replies then typing out 'NO thanks' again n again n again etc might just be too much and too time consuming. If we have placed ads i have replied to most of them i think and once there were over 40! it took several goes on-line to get through them but I did. I can see why you would get annoyed as it also happens to couples replying to adds too.
Be philosophical about it grab a coffee and chill in the forum for a bit biggrin

welcome to Forum

14 Apr 2008

Apparently, some of the females here get so much mail it takes them weeks to get around to answering messages.
Patience is a virtue so Im told rolleyes

14 Apr 2008

Quote by Phuckers
i once got a reply back saying sorry your dick is too big and another said i was too young but on a normal day those could have been compliments but i was dissappointed and i wish they didnt reply at all
those are not opinions but facts..can you handle NO THANKS???

God I wish lol

If I had that sort of a reply i'd have it printed off and framed !!!

Before anyone says...I wouldn't pront anything off from S-H in truth

14 Apr 2008

Jeez, the second grumble I've read in as many minutes!
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/279233.html[/ur
when i first joined i spend the entire day reading posting on the forum,was shocked when my first listing was locked in seconds for recycling
today's bread is different from yesterday's, it might not sweeter but hey...
dont use the same old signature on different topics its both irrelevant and stupid.

14 Apr 2008

Quote by Phuckers
i once got a reply back saying sorry your dick is too big and another said i was too young but on a normal day those could have been compliments but i was dissappointed and i wish they didnt reply at all

Sorry I found that funny
bolt

14 Apr 2008

Quote by wantingsome
Hi all was just wondering what you thought about people who don't have the manners to reply to you repling to there advert. It really P's me off that they can't even put together two words " NO THANKS ", am i the only one here or what and before anyone says it, i know people get a lot of replies from us single guys and so on

it's unfortunate......but to some people, just saying 'no thanks' then makes them feel that due to the fact they have had a reply they should continue to contact you. I'm not saying that this is what everyone does but it is common. Therefore I tend not to reply to unsolicited messaged.
Recently i had a message to say that they had seen I wasn't playing and they weren't also so cos I didn't like whispers in chat I should meet up with them???

14 Apr 2008

@lost thank you,my first ha ha ha of the evening...wish i had a printer

14 Apr 2008

Hi again guys and thanks for the replys, to answer a couple of your replys, i do read peoples profiles very carefully, when you've been replying to ad's for as long as i have you tend to read every word just to make sure ( sounds desperate i know ) but i'm beening honest here and to the other reply, i've been dealing with rejection for a while now so " NO THANKS " wont be a problem. I think it just maybe me and some might say old fashion values

14 Apr 2008

Not everyone here knows that 'manners maketh the man'.
Try not to take it to heart, put it down to experience and move on.

14 Apr 2008

take hellnheaven advise
but sometimes i feel like couples or single females compete in how much replies they receive per ads,i bet they never even open to read some of them...is that right ladies???
well author do what i do,go to socials you wont be dissappointed...am going to one this friday in chams cant bloody wait...cream and coffee on lets meet forum
i once knew a reply collector