Actually, dunno if double standard is the right phrase here, but why is it that when I am letching over some female totty with a colleague, the colleague is more than happy to accept that I do this, be they male or female.
However, when I am letching over some male totty, my female colleagues are accepting, however the male colleagues really don't know how to react.
I find this bizarre, as they are more than willing to accept I may be lusting after the women but when I say (as the next bit of totty walks in) "Oooh, and he's nice!" They go all sheepish and give it the "Oh, well, I wouldn't know" thing.
Women are more than happy to see that another woman is attractive, men are just.... I dunno... scared?
Anyone else even have a clue what I am on about here?
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Good Ole Double Standards.
One of those things in society, female female is far more acceptable than any sort of male male relationship. In fact most women are almost expected to find women attractive, but men just aren't supposed to see guys as attractive?
Not my views btw, sure I read this in some research article. Lets face it, we live in a mad world
Not my views btw, sure I read this in some research article. Lets face it, we live in a mad world
Sex God
Obvious innit? Majority of men wish to be seen as homophobic - the majority of women wish to be seen as lesbophilic!! 
Sex God
Quote by westerross
Obvious innit? Majority of men wish to be seen as homophobic - the majority of women wish to be seen as lesbophilic!!
Thems is big words Tune.
Me I'm not gay, but I have no objection in saying that a man is attractive.
John
us blokes sometimes get embarrassed or selfconcious when a bunch of women sit around eyeing us up and giggling...might blush!
oops looks like i read that wrong!!!
a bloke might have no problem saying 'that blokes a lucky bastard he looks like david beckham'' but might not say in front of a bunch of work collegues ''yes girls i know what you mean, i think its his hair, it really brings out his cheek bones''..........doesnt mean there not 'supremely confident' with their sexuality!!
'supremely confident'---i like that!
oops looks like i read that wrong!!!
a bloke might have no problem saying 'that blokes a lucky bastard he looks like david beckham'' but might not say in front of a bunch of work collegues ''yes girls i know what you mean, i think its his hair, it really brings out his cheek bones''..........doesnt mean there not 'supremely confident' with their sexuality!!
'supremely confident'---i like that!
Before we were married, hubby wouldn't have accepted it was "ok" to acknowledge that another man was attractive - not necessarily meaning he was "attracted to...." - Now we're married he seems to be able to recognise it and understand the difference between "attractive" and "attraction".
Either that or I have brainwashed him
Either that or I have brainwashed him
I have similarly realised taht since coming out as bi, I have been encouraged by all my male friends and boyfriend to point out which girls I fancy and be all suggestive, but I feel I'm still not allowed to notice a good looking guy. It is a double standard I guess but i can see why my chap would feel threatened by my fancying another guy. I think it's about being conspiritorial (or summat?) - i.e. blokes can't be in on the 'letching' in the same amnner if it's a just look bored.
Sex God
I was sat at a bar with someone from this site a few months back, and an attractive female walked by, and yes I was watching but so was he, I then get the comment you perving the girlies!!
I could only answer yes!! But at least we were both doing it at the same time!! :twisted:
I could only answer yes!! But at least we were both doing it at the same time!! :twisted:
Quote by Sarah1448
I was sat at a bar with someone from this site a few months back, and an attractive female walked by, and yes I was watching but so was he, I then get the comment you perving the girlies!!
I could only answer yes!! But at least we were both doing it at the same time!! :twisted:
LOLOL ..... Morbius is always laughing at me doing this. I get invited out by his mates when they all go out as I pick up on the nice girlies ;)
C x
Sex God
Calista amybe we should have a night out and leave the guys at home,
and bring back the girlies with us
and bring back the girlies with us
Mod
Quote by Sarah1448
Calista amybe we should have a night out and leave the guys at home,
and bring back the girlies with us
As long as I'm at home when you get there!! :twisted:
Mal
Quote by poniella
I have similarly realised taht since coming out as bi, I have been encouraged by all my male friends and boyfriend to point out which girls I fancy and be all suggestive, but I feel I'm still not allowed to notice a good looking guy. It is a double standard I guess but i can see why my chap would feel threatened by my fancying another guy. I think it's about being conspiritorial (or summat?) - i.e. blokes can't be in on the 'letching' in the same amnner if it's a just look bored.
That's exactly what I mean, hun!
(Except not with Reese, he - like me {& Rach} letch over everyone!)
