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Greetings to all
As is customary at this time, I wanted to send you seasons greetings, but I was conscious of the potential pitfalls in expressing such greetings without unknowingly offending anyone's sensibilities. After due consultation with my solicitor, we concurred that the following text is sufficiently "politically-correct" to allow its distribution to a wide range of family and friends without (hopefully) transgressing anyone's deeper feelings. Apologies in advance should this objective not be met, despite our sincere endeavours.
Please accept with no obligation, implied or implicit, my best wishes for an environmentally conscious, socially responsible, low stress, non-addictive, gender neutral celebration of the winter solstice holiday, practiced with the most enjoyable traditions of religious persuasion or secular practices of your choice with respect for the religious/secular persuasions and/or traditions of others, or their choice not to practice religious or secular traditions should this be the case.
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I bet even this gets me into trouble :giggle:
nope, you have really upset me, i dont want to start 2007 again!!!
markz mode......... rolleyes
Quote by 3verve
and yes, i feel the government is to be blamed for over PC'ness in UK. It should have spent money on educating the public on different cultures and religions instead of putting in new laws.

You mean the way that Muslim countries educate their populations and promote acceptance of cultures different to their own? No, I didn't think so.
Unc.
Quote by BrightonGeezer
Please be aware that it is your right as a parent to withdraw your children from any religious education. This law was not brought about by racists, not in the fashionable sence of the word anyway. It was brought about because people from certain other religious groups did not like their kids learning about other religions.
I'm an Atheist, and none of my children are allowed to be brainwashed into religion at school.
One pertinant question though. Which of the main stream or widely believed religions would openly tolerate Swinging Heaven membership?

Children in mainstream state school, other than church schools (whose guidelines are different) are NOT brainwashed into any religion. Withdrawing them from R.E. doesn't mean that they won't learn about other religions anyway.
And in answer to your pertinent question, I doubt any of them would openly tolerate or understand swinging or membership of SH.
Quote by neilinleeds
people fought tooth and nail to achieve that , and stained the land with blood so we could enjoy it,
neil x x x ;)

Exactly! And now what was fought for is being given away by the very people who should be ensuring those freedoms are protected. Of course other cultures should be allowed here, even though they are cultures which do not offer the same freedoms where they have control. What should not happen is that our culture becomes submerged or subserviant to those other cultures.
I would accept Happy Eid or Happy Hanukah as I hope it was intended, as a gesture of inclusion. For someone to be offended by that indicates a smallness of mind that is almost repulsive to me.
Unc.
teaching children ABOUT religions is ok,but what we actually do is teach them that there IS a god, that there was someone called jesus who was the son of god ,based on beliefs with no evidence that stands up to scrutiny.
adults also delude kids with santa till they`re about 7, then thankfully their peers enlighten them.
was it plato who said give me the child till he is 7 and i will give you the man?
every religion wants to get the kids,and all religions think theirs is the "true" faith,some think believers in other faiths deserve damnation after death and unfortunately some think non believers in their religion are fair game for abuse and persecution.
rant over
merry christmas everyone rotflmao
Bloody Radicals are everywhere lol....
Just a quick update as we have been using taxi's the last few nights.. we decided a straw poll was in order lol.. we asked the mainly Asian drivers first if they were Muslim and then if they found Christmas in anyway or form offensive.. Then just to be 100% asked if wishing them a Merry Christmas was offensive at all and each and everyone laughed and said No... and any Muslim who did was nuts.. or just looking for trouble..
Not a perfect way of testing the waters but goes some way to prove that some.. and some from all race religion and creeds will want to spoil the party no matter what... BUT can only sploil things IF we let them and take any notice to start with...
Merry Christmas... Like it or Not lol....
Mike xx
sounds to me like this guy just had a chip on his shoulder!
If the black Lab is the one I think it is, it belonged to Guy Gibson. What I find offensive is the lack of tolerance for other peoples beliefs/cultures/lifestyles, (as long as they are legal) wherever it comes from.
I stand corrected. My point, however, remains...little is offensive until we put a name to it that 'offends' someone else.
I am deeply saddened by the way people so readily entrench themselves in dogmatic confrontation. The future of society must be based on tolerance and respect FOR OTHERS!!!!!!!!
Unfortunately people view respect as a selfish concept ...other people must respect MY position.
Therefore I see it that the muslim should have respected
the christians guys sentiment in wishing him a happy xmas and should have returned the greeting acknowledging the culture and beliefs of his colleague .Simple as.
He could also have added mubarak eid if he wished to have his own beliefs respected .
I think Dave Allan summed up this whole issue when he closed his programmes with .
"May YOUR god go with you"
Respect and tolerance is our only hope
I am deeply saddened by the way people so readily entrench themselves in dogmatic confrontation. The future of society must be based on tolerance and respect FOR OTHERS!!!!!!!!
Unfortunately people view respect as a selfish concept ...other people must respect MY position.
Therefore I see it that the muslim should have respected
the christians guys sentiment in wishing him a happy xmas and should have returned the greeting acknowledging the culture and beliefs of his colleague .Simple as.
He could also have added mubarak eid if he wished to have his own beliefs respected .
I think Dave Allan summed up this whole issue when he closed his programmes with .
"May YOUR god go with you"
Respect and tolerance is our only hope
Quote by Unc
You mean the way that Muslim countries educate their populations and promote acceptance of cultures different to their own? No, I didn't think so.
Unc.

In some of the Muslim countries it's acceptable to stone behead or hang homosexuals, murder women who break allowable displayed flesh rules, and disappear social dissidents.
I do hope you're not suggesting we follow their example on those matters too..?
So it appears youre' saying that if you "choose" to be a Christian you're fine as you and the culture are as one, but if you "choose" to be agnostic, atheist, Muslim, Pastafarian or any other belief (or lack thereof) system then you must suffer the way things are and not protest at what you might see as injustice or oppression.
I will stand up to injustice and wrong doing, I don't care what religion you are, right is right. I am fed up with being told that I cannot do this/that in case it offends a certain minority/religious group.
well put while i would defend absolutely anyones right to their faith unless it affects others in a negative way,i am unable to respect the actual religion itself,which i see as a delusion. how do you respect something you dont believe exists ?
Quote by Freckledbird

Please be aware that it is your right as a parent to withdraw your children from any religious education. This law was not brought about by racists, not in the fashionable sence of the word anyway. It was brought about because people from certain other religious groups did not like their kids learning about other religions.
I'm an Atheist, and none of my children are allowed to be brainwashed into religion at school.
One pertinent question though. Which of the main stream or widely believed religions would openly tolerate Swinging Heaven membership?

Children in mainstream state school, other than church schools (whose guidelines are different) are NOT brainwashed into any religion. Withdrawing them from R.E. doesn't mean that they won't learn about other religions anyway.
And in answer to your pertinent question, I doubt any of them would openly tolerate or understand swinging or membership of SH.
I disagree, I have five children, four still at school. Yes they are mainstream state schools and yes I have withdrawn them from RE. Religion is the opiate of the masses and has caused more wars and more murders than anything else in history.
I know I have upset a lot of schoolteachers, social workers, and other tinpot dictators. But I saw a Wiccan friend of mine accused of all sorts of disgusting crimes because he taught his kids to argue with the brain-washers. I don't preach anything to my children, and will not allow anyone else to do so either.
I best not say what I did when the Jehovah witnesses came to my door, suffice to say they never came back! :twisted:
Quote by BrightonGeezer

Please be aware that it is your right as a parent to withdraw your children from any religious education. This law was not brought about by racists, not in the fashionable sence of the word anyway. It was brought about because people from certain other religious groups did not like their kids learning about other religions.
I'm an Atheist, and none of my children are allowed to be brainwashed into religion at school.
One pertinent question though. Which of the main stream or widely believed religions would openly tolerate Swinging Heaven membership?

Children in mainstream state school, other than church schools (whose guidelines are different) are NOT brainwashed into any religion. Withdrawing them from R.E. doesn't mean that they won't learn about other religions anyway.
And in answer to your pertinent question, I doubt any of them would openly tolerate or understand swinging or membership of SH.
I disagree, I have five children, four still at school. Yes they are mainstream state schools and yes I have withdrawn them from RE. Religion is the opiate of the masses and has caused more wars and more murders than anything else in history.
I know I have upset a lot of schoolteachers, social workers, and other tinpot dictators. But I saw a Wiccan friend of mine accused of all sorts of disgusting crimes because he taught his kids to argue with the brain-washers. I don't preach anything to my children, and will not allow anyone else to do so either.
I best not say what I did when the Jehovah witnesses came to my door, suffice to say they never came back! :twisted:
Then it's your local school. I'm a teacher and I've taught in a number of schools - in none of them were any children brainwashed into religion. confused
just read today where teachers at a state school,not a church school, barred a child from the christmas party and getting a prezzy from santa cos his parents objected to his being taught any religion in school ffs. these are poeple we entrust the most open and vulnerable minds in our society to ffs.
Quote by annejohn
just read today where teachers at a state school,not a church school, barred a child from the christmas party and getting a prezzy from santa cos his parents objected to his being taught any religion in school ffs. these are poeple we entrust the most open and vulnerable minds in our society to ffs.

Well, if they didn't want their child to do R.E., why would they want their child to go to a party celebrating a religious festival? Can't have it both ways dunno
Quote by BrightonGeezer
I disagree, I have five children, four still at school. Yes they are mainstream state schools and yes I have withdrawn them from RE. Religion is the opiate of the masses and has caused more wars and more murders than anything else in history.
I know I have upset a lot of schoolteachers, social workers, and other tinpot dictators.

An admirable attitude if ever there was one rolleyes
Quote by BrightonGeezer
But I saw a Wiccan friend of mine accused of all sorts of disgusting crimes because he taught his kids to argue with the brain-washers. I don't preach anything to my children, and will not allow anyone else to do so either.

And who says that their brand of "religion" is correct dunno
Quote by BrightonGeezer
I best not say what I did when the Jehovah witnesses came to my door, suffice to say they never came back! :twisted:

There's that admirable attitude again ;-)
Quote by BrightonGeezer
I'm an Atheist, and none of my children are allowed to be brainwashed into religion at school.

and thats your choice...just a pity your brainwashing your own kids into your beliefs instead of giving them a choice.
for the record both my boys attend a Catholic 6th form college and a Catholic secondary school and i have seen no evidence of brainwashing,just a bloody good education and total commitment to the kids...something i don't think i would have seen at the local state school in our area.
Quote by Freckledbird
just read today where teachers at a state school,not a church school, barred a child from the christmas party and getting a prezzy from santa cos his parents objected to his being taught any religion in school ffs. these are poeple we entrust the most open and vulnerable minds in our society to ffs.

Well, if they didn't want their child to do R.E., why would they want their child to go to a party celebrating a religious festival? Can't have it both ways dunno
as has already been pointed out the decent part of religion is meant to be inclusive of other beliefs( or lack of same).luckily the council concerned forced the school to back often do you hear of a council doing the right thing ?
i have absolutely no belief in what a bunch of deluded shepherds have foisted on us over the last thousands of years,but that wont stop me having great christmas parties,or for that matter accepting greetings from muslim friends whether for christmas or their own festivals. i even like carols, doesnt mean i have to believe them or have my kids taught any religion as truth.
schools should be totally secular as in france
Quote by Freckledbird
just read today where teachers at a state school,not a church school, barred a child from the christmas party and getting a prezzy from santa cos his parents objected to his being taught any religion in school ffs. these are poeple we entrust the most open and vulnerable minds in our society to ffs.

Well, if they didn't want their child to do R.E., why would they want their child to go to a party celebrating a religious festival? Can't have it both ways dunno
I think as parents we can "have it" any way we like. The PC madness that grips this country is mainly propagated by schoolteachers.
Most children attending a Christmas party are much more interested in the sweets and jelly than the religious aspect anyway.
I guess I now know why homeschooling is so popular these days.
Quote by BrightonGeezer
I think as parents we can "have it" any way we like. The PC madness that grips this country is mainly propagated by schoolteachers.

What complete and utter popycock confused
Most of the PC madness in this country is propogated by people who are not even affected by the so called non PC attitude in question....
i.e.
Most of the anti gollywog on the jamjar brigade werent even of an ethnic origin likely to be offended by its presence but simply believed someone must be offended by it so started to kick up a fuss :?
The above is mearly an example and is not intended to offend anyone in any way,sahpe or form.
Quote by Mallock2006

I think as parents we can "have it" any way we like. The PC madness that grips this country is mainly propagated by schoolteachers.

What complete and utter popycock confused
Most of the PC madness in this country is propogated by people who are not even affected by the so called non PC attitude in question....
i.e.
Most of the anti gollywog on the jamjar brigade werent even of an ethnic origin likely to be offended by its presence but simply believed someone must be offended by it so started to kick up a fuss :?
The above is mearly an example and is not intended to offend anyone in any way,sahpe or form.
Love the smallprint!
But really, it does begin at school.
Quote by BrightonGeezer

I think as parents we can "have it" any way we like. The PC madness that grips this country is mainly propagated by schoolteachers.

What complete and utter popycock confused
Most of the PC madness in this country is propogated by people who are not even affected by the so called non PC attitude in question....
i.e.
Most of the anti gollywog on the jamjar brigade werent even of an ethnic origin likely to be offended by its presence but simply believed someone must be offended by it so started to kick up a fuss :?
The above is mearly an example and is not intended to offend anyone in any way,sahpe or form.
Love the smallprint!
But really, it does begin at school.
hey you do know that Pink Floyd's "The Wall"...was just a song? rolleyes
At the true root of the thing Christmas is a religious celebration to mark the birth of Jesus Christ.
So if you don't want to have your kids taught R.E at school thats your right and choice as a parent but the school were probably making a point of not including your child in the religious celebration of Christmas.
You probably think of the whole Christmas thing as a social celebration i assume? Many people do your not the only one. I think Christmas is far too commercialised these days and the social pressure to give gifts is more driven by big business' idea to get your money into their tills rather than any religious connotation.
I don't want to get into the religious argument as the the wave of opposition is far too great a tide for me to try and surf and I could be called a heretic!!
Lets not forget that most of us don't even realise that in reality Jesus wasn't actually born on the 25th December. The date we use to mark the birth of Christ was moved to this date to suit the Christian Astrological calendar, it is thought through the Gospels of Mark and Luke he was born on the 11th or 12th of September in the 3rd century toward the reign of King Herod when there is documented proof written in stone (pardon the pun)that a census was compiled of all the inhabitants of Jerusalem and names Jesus of Nazareth living there. :shock:
I would't say anyone is right or wrong, peoples religious beliefs are their own business. Christmas as a mass commercialised social celebration or celebration of the birth of possibly the most important figure in history?
I dunno lets just have a good time and make Christmas about whats really become important, being with the ones you love and making it about what you want it to be!!
Quote by flower411

hey you do know that Pink Floyd's "The Wall"...was just a song? rolleyes

Oh shit !!! :shock: Was it ? :shock:
its true!
none of it was real!
Quote by Srne
I don't want to get into the religious argument as the the wave of opposition is far too great a tide for me to try and surf and I could be called a heretic!!

I've been called far worse, usually by those who so devoutly follow the Christian message of peace and love and free will...
Lets not forget that most of us don't even realise that in reality Jesus wasn't actually born on the 25th December. The date we use to mark the birth of Christ was moved to this date to suit the Christian Astrological calendar, it is thought through the Gospels of Mark and Luke he was born on the 11th or 12th of September in the 3rd century toward the reign of King Herod when there is documented proof written in stone (pardon the pun)that a census was compiled of all the inhabitants of Jerusalem and names Jesus of Nazareth living there. :shock:

Except of course the gospels hang their own stories over a loose framework of common theming due to being written over quite a period of time. Not to mention said gospels were edited, picked and chosen by a vote, written by people not even alive at the time Christ was meant to be around... You have to admit, for such a world changing event such as God's firstborn hanging out with fishermen there's really very little agreement on who, where, when, what, how. There's also the minor detail of the messianic prophecy in the old testament stating the paternal bloodline of the messiah, which is tenuously and erratically proven through Joseph - The slight problem being of course that was his step father!
But aside from all that, the celebration of Christ's birth was pinned onto the Winter Solstice in keeping with the placing of many Christian festivals. The giving of gifts has more to do with Yule than some loose re-enactment of three itinerant monarchs, just as I'm fairly sure even a miracle worker descendant of God didn't lay chocolate eggs on a different date each spring.
And this is why religion annoys me, and threads like this irritate me. People are being offended that their religion (the faith of the nation apparently) is being twisted, corrupted and subdued from various angles, when that very religion is a global example of just that process! Sadly many people repeat dogma parrot fashion without putting any thought into the words (Merry Christmas is a substitute for "Have a nice day" at this time of year), or play the "My Gods better than your (none existent for mine's the only true one) God" games, and just shows how a multicultural multi faith society is always going to have problems, even if the sledgehammer of politcal correctness reduces the scale of the tension.
Quote by Shambolic

I don't want to get into the religious argument as the the wave of opposition is far too great a tide for me to try and surf and I could be called a heretic!!

I've been called far worse, usually by those who so devoutly follow the Christian message of peace and love and free will...
Lets not forget that most of us don't even realise that in reality Jesus wasn't actually born on the 25th December. The date we use to mark the birth of Christ was moved to this date to suit the Christian Astrological calendar, it is thought through the Gospels of Mark and Luke he was born on the 11th or 12th of September in the 3rd century toward the reign of King Herod when there is documented proof written in stone (pardon the pun)that a census was compiled of all the inhabitants of Jerusalem and names Jesus of Nazareth living there. :shock:

Except of course the gospels hang their own stories over a loose framework of common theming due to being written over quite a period of time. Not to mention said gospels were edited, picked and chosen by a vote, written by people not even alive at the time Christ was meant to be around... You have to admit, for such a world changing event such as God's firstborn hanging out with fishermen there's really very little agreement on who, where, when, what, how. There's also the minor detail of the messianic prophecy in the old testament stating the paternal bloodline of the messiah, which is tenuously and erratically proven through Joseph - The slight problem being of course that was his step father!
But aside from all that, the celebration of Christ's birth was pinned onto the Winter Solstice in keeping with the placing of many Christian festivals. The giving of gifts has more to do with Yule than some loose re-enactment of three itinerant monarchs, just as I'm fairly sure even a miracle worker descendant of God didn't lay chocolate eggs on a different date each spring.
And this is why religion annoys me, and threads like this irritate me. People are being offended that their religion (the faith of the nation apparently) is being twisted, corrupted and subdued from various angles, when that very religion is a global example of just that process! Sadly many people repeat dogma parrot fashion without putting any thought into the words (Merry Christmas is a substitute for "Have a nice day" at this time of year), or play the "My Gods better than your (none existent for mine's the only true one) God" games, and just shows how a multicultural multi faith society is always going to have problems, even if the sledgehammer of politcal correctness reduces the scale of the tension.
Blimy,......... :shock:
Errr... yeah! I think.. maybe possibly but definately a good point well made..
Merry Christmas... xx lol
Mike xx