Just wondered which guys did it, and what they thought of it, and weather there were guys who think its an insult to their masculinity.
does it make you have great orgasms? Any key pointers and tips?
best technique, best lube etc
Mr B wont entertain it ("its an exit only!!" he says)
but am thinking of trying it with an FWB :rascal:
and just wanted to canvas some opinions.
plus ive been quiet for far too long so am going on a thread rampage!! :bounce:
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Guys and Ass Play....love it or not a chance??
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Sex God
Dek wont entertain it either 
:giggle:
:giggle:
Warming the Bed
I am not not affraid to say I love if it the time is right! Feels great!
Mr Upon.
Mr Upon.
Sex God
Bonedigger stop it FFS! I don't know which bloody thread to post on now, this one or the prostate thingie! ;)
We have one of these . . .
. . . . which are very good at times, and with a bit of imagination can be used either in the obvious intended way by Gem, or worn by me for DP. Either way feels pretty damn good. :twisted: Orgasms can be really intense, and I have on occasion had a strange kind of non-ejaculatory, full on body quiver style orgasm which causes an unbelievably massive head-rush, the kind of orgasms which are usually the preserve of you girlies, or so I'm led to understand. ;)
The trick is to start slow and small, with lots of lube, and work your way up. Small vibrators are probably the way forward after a point, as the vibration increases the pleasure and reduces any initial discomfort.
Neil x x x ;)
We have one of these . . .
. . . . which are very good at times, and with a bit of imagination can be used either in the obvious intended way by Gem, or worn by me for DP. Either way feels pretty damn good. :twisted: Orgasms can be really intense, and I have on occasion had a strange kind of non-ejaculatory, full on body quiver style orgasm which causes an unbelievably massive head-rush, the kind of orgasms which are usually the preserve of you girlies, or so I'm led to understand. ;)
The trick is to start slow and small, with lots of lube, and work your way up. Small vibrators are probably the way forward after a point, as the vibration increases the pleasure and reduces any initial discomfort.
Neil x x x ;)
Neil explained it very well.
I have had lovely anal sex with men. I would say from an observational point of view their orgasm is very similar to women's as a result of well applied anal stimulation.
I must say that the man has to be comfortable with it and led gently as the sensation is unusual for them (as anal play is for women to get used to) So, once they are used to it they can experience the full works.
It is amazing to help them achieve it. I LOVE it.
I have had lovely anal sex with men. I would say from an observational point of view their orgasm is very similar to women's as a result of well applied anal stimulation.
I must say that the man has to be comfortable with it and led gently as the sensation is unusual for them (as anal play is for women to get used to) So, once they are used to it they can experience the full works.
It is amazing to help them achieve it. I LOVE it.
Sex God
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>still debating whether or not I should post.. if I start I won't stop
*waits eagerly*
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>still debating whether or not I should post.. if I start I won't stop
Gowan ...... you know you want to!!! :rascal:
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p.s. is that really who I think it is? bloody hell ..... long long time no see ......... hope life is good!
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>still debating whether or not I should post.. if I start I won't stop
*waits eagerly*
:twisted:
OK, seen as it's you
I wouldn't let anyone near my arse until I was about 30... no, honestly! :) Then along came Jon the big, sexy, all-American ass-master and introduced me to arse play. Life was never the same again :shock:
The guy could make my toes curl without going anywhere near them and, similar to what Neil and Splendid describe make my entire body shiver with some of the most intense orgasms I've ever had. Think struck by lightening, but in a nice way! :P
I've since taken great pleasure in seeing if I can use the same techniques on guys I've met to achieve the similar effects... just to check I wasn't some kind of freak. Net outcome = yes, it works and I'm not a freak. Well, not totally
I've found that even with the most hesitant of guys, a little rimming soon changes their mind and some of the really decent (and tall) ones even hold their own legs <snigger> Some of the really greedy ones actually arrive holding their own legs which isn't really attractive (over-keen doesn't work for me) and it means they can't walk properly so take ages getting there.
The rules of ass play for me are simple:
1) Keep it clean i.e. leave it a while if you've just had a poo and perhaps invest in an anal douche or take the head of the shower but be careful if live in a high water pressure area :twisted:
2) Keep it safe - obvious really but also think about using condoms on toys if they ain't your own
3) Use a good quality, water-based lube. Some silicone lubes are OK too but tend to make me and other people I've played with sting a little
4) Take it slowly and allow the muscles to relax - if not, expect pain similar to that of childbirth (so I'm told) to ensure
5) It will require you being relaxed which isn't easy to do with 8" of cock/dildo up your arse I know so start small and work up
6) If all else fails, find something to bite on, push through the ring of fire and pant :twisted:
It ain't for everyone I know but it is cool if someone knows what they are doing. If any guys are interested you know where my PM box is - won't tell your mates... :lol:
Actually - interesting question here... why do women enjoy it? Is it just the sheer naughtiness of it? What I mean is, they have no Prostate gland and, as far as I am aware, it's this that causes the pleasure/intensity of orgasm in men.
Anyone any ideas?
R6_biker x
Sex God
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Interesting read there R6 :twisted:
Thank you, I try
I see it as being kinda like the Martha Stewart of anal sex with a post like that I guess... 
R_6, I don't know you but with that comment, I think I love you!
Oh and great post above - :thumbup:
Sex God
Blimey... that was worth the wait!! :rascal:
I'm going to think about it and then I'll come back!
I'm going to think about it and then I'll come back!
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in response to your question R6.
I like receiving anal because it presses on my G-spot in just the right way which, combined with the other sensations of tightness and feeling ummmm 'exposed', gives me the most powerful orgasms.
infact R6- let me show you :twisted:
Thank you - that explains it better for me, not being that familiar with lady middle and back-bottoms etc :P
Show me? There you go, throwing yourself at me again... some people are SO easy
Seeing as the explanations are being done, here is my viewpoint.
It is only in recent times that I have let myself be fucked with a strapon, the first time it happened, the thought of "I'm not supposed to enjoy this" was going through my head, so probably wasn't as relaxed as I should have been, but having just watched two very attractive and pervy women just use a strapon, it was a very spontaneous "can you put your strapon on please?"
Since then I have been on the receiving end a few times, I like the feeling of it inside me, I love the feeling as it is gently eased out of me, just as the tip leaves my anus, all of it gives me a feeling that I really had no idea existed, but there is one feeling that tops the lot (for me.)
As I said in an earlier post, the more a slut I am made to feel, the better, I love the idea of being dominated, and the only way to truly do that, is to get into my head, which my friend does, all to easily, I remember my birthday last year, I was being fucked so hard, she had to hold a pillow over my face to muffle the noise.
Being fucked, whilst she holds her hand over my mouth, the hand covered by a leather glove, soft to touch, and intoxicating to smell, has to be one of the most amazing feelings/sensations I have ever had during sex, a feeling so powerful, so consuming.
It's safe to say I like it.
It is only in recent times that I have let myself be fucked with a strapon, the first time it happened, the thought of "I'm not supposed to enjoy this" was going through my head, so probably wasn't as relaxed as I should have been, but having just watched two very attractive and pervy women just use a strapon, it was a very spontaneous "can you put your strapon on please?"
Since then I have been on the receiving end a few times, I like the feeling of it inside me, I love the feeling as it is gently eased out of me, just as the tip leaves my anus, all of it gives me a feeling that I really had no idea existed, but there is one feeling that tops the lot (for me.)
As I said in an earlier post, the more a slut I am made to feel, the better, I love the idea of being dominated, and the only way to truly do that, is to get into my head, which my friend does, all to easily, I remember my birthday last year, I was being fucked so hard, she had to hold a pillow over my face to muffle the noise.
Being fucked, whilst she holds her hand over my mouth, the hand covered by a leather glove, soft to touch, and intoxicating to smell, has to be one of the most amazing feelings/sensations I have ever had during sex, a feeling so powerful, so consuming.
It's safe to say I like it.
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It is only in recent times that I have let myself be fucked with a strapon
:shock: You did what? :shock:
Slag, whore, greedy, cum-bucket bitch....
Just kidding, good for you mate and yes, that feeling as it first goes in and then out is cool - forgot about that bit :thumbup:
Sex God
Okay... I'm just gonna ramble cause I don't know how to explain it properly.
Anal sex for me is way up there as a mind fuck. It's a mental thing as well as a physical thing. I think cause it's a bit dirty really and to me feels a bit wrong.
ops: It's not something I do with everyone though... because it's a mind thing, it's sort of personal if that makes sense. I want to trust the person I'm with because there's also a power/control thing going on. It's a submissive thing for me.
I think being comfortable with your company is good, the angle is important and definitely relaxing helps... it'a a bit of a shock to the system so to speak.
I read a book that totally captures it for me... and explains it in a much better way than I could ever hope to...
I'm not sure I can put into words how I felt when I read it but if you like erotic fiction then it's a good read. :rascal:
I'd really like to try DP... still on my list of things to do but I dare say that involves an MMF and I've not quite plucked up the courage for that yet. :oops:
Oh... and lube... lots of it! :twisted:
Erm... and perhaps a bit of an arse slap and hair pulling while you're there! :rascal:
Anal sex for me is way up there as a mind fuck. It's a mental thing as well as a physical thing. I think cause it's a bit dirty really and to me feels a bit wrong.
ops: It's not something I do with everyone though... because it's a mind thing, it's sort of personal if that makes sense. I want to trust the person I'm with because there's also a power/control thing going on. It's a submissive thing for me. I think being comfortable with your company is good, the angle is important and definitely relaxing helps... it'a a bit of a shock to the system so to speak.
I read a book that totally captures it for me... and explains it in a much better way than I could ever hope to...
I'm not sure I can put into words how I felt when I read it but if you like erotic fiction then it's a good read. :rascal:
I'd really like to try DP... still on my list of things to do but I dare say that involves an MMF and I've not quite plucked up the courage for that yet. :oops:
Oh... and lube... lots of it! :twisted:
Erm... and perhaps a bit of an arse slap and hair pulling while you're there! :rascal:
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This is turning out to be a really interesting thread... all the different viewpoints/sexualities etc
.. aside from essex34m who is still just a common fuck-toy/boi
Oi!!!
Less of the common!!! Less of the fuck-toi/boi!!!
Oh hang on though, I don't think I have thought this through...
Sex God
I have a few up-the-bum issues. In fact, for SATC fans, there are lines in the 'up the bum' episode that I am fairly certain the writers pinched from me! 
It is partly as DG so eloquently put it, a trust issue and partly a physical pain threshold thing.
I had a partner in the past who was very curious about all things anal and he was a tad over enthusiastic in his attempts. He hurt me. :cry:
But through my own curiosity and experimentation, I eventually realised that some ass play could be pleasurable. I have a few toys and enjoy that kind of stimulation.
Anal sex however is still something I reserve for doing with those that I feel most comfortable. I suppose, not surprisingly, the only truly orgasmic (and bloody fantastic it was too :twisted: ) anal sex I've had has been with a gay man. I was totally relaxed, really horny and it was after rather a lot of very sexy and intense play. It was great. The resulting orgasm was totally different to any I had experienced before. It was a much more internalised feeling of general warmness and fabulousness that kinda spread through my whole body and left me gasping.
It didn't feel submissive, it just felt very relaxed and I think that was - and is - the key for me.
It is partly as DG so eloquently put it, a trust issue and partly a physical pain threshold thing.
I had a partner in the past who was very curious about all things anal and he was a tad over enthusiastic in his attempts. He hurt me. :cry:
But through my own curiosity and experimentation, I eventually realised that some ass play could be pleasurable. I have a few toys and enjoy that kind of stimulation.
Anal sex however is still something I reserve for doing with those that I feel most comfortable. I suppose, not surprisingly, the only truly orgasmic (and bloody fantastic it was too :twisted: ) anal sex I've had has been with a gay man. I was totally relaxed, really horny and it was after rather a lot of very sexy and intense play. It was great. The resulting orgasm was totally different to any I had experienced before. It was a much more internalised feeling of general warmness and fabulousness that kinda spread through my whole body and left me gasping.
It didn't feel submissive, it just felt very relaxed and I think that was - and is - the key for me.
Sex God
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the only truly orgasmic (and bloody fantastic it was too :twisted: ) anal sex I've had has been with a gay man.
I need to gets me a gay man! :lol2:
