VIX ...... Vegetarians don't eat fish either and goodness knows how vegans survive healthily without vitamin and other supplements
A point of view from a gay guy. I advertise on a number of gay/bi websites, and a fair proportion of responses are from married guys who want to suck my cock and get fucked. I don't know whether they would describe themselves as straight or bi, and it's always dangerous to generalise, but there are certainly plenty of married guys out there who fancy a bit of cock.
i think that guys are the best ones to teach girls how to give a good hand job, and girls are the best at teaching blokes how to manually stimulate them too.....i love to watch my man wanking himself, its such a turn on and, gives me a new perspective!! lol
There is a scale called the "kinsey scale" (Kinsey instatute of sexual research) which aims to describe sexuality... from one end totaly straight to the other end of totaly gay.
But IMO there is a couple of problems with this scale... one is that it was introduced and first discribed many years ago when the general attitude and concensus of the day would have had an impact on describing the scale... "black or white" or somewhere inbetween.
My take on the scale is that it was created to describe more the emotional feelings as aposed to the sexual aspects... if someone has to be put in a group then surely there should be 2 scales... one sexual and one emotional?
A gay person is someone that could not concider a relationship of any kind with a person of the opersite sex, and straight person is someone that could not contemplate any kind of relationship with someone of the same sex... so a 50/50 bi preson in theory is someone who could contemplate a "relationship" with either sex... what this doesnt allow for is people (men or women) who have no problem with sexual contact with another of the same/oppersite sex, but could never contemplate (or imagine) themselves in a full term partnership with them.
I class myself as emotionaly straight, and sexualy bi.. some would say I'm confused, others greedy, others would put thier own slant on things... but if you concider the nature of swinging and the contact issues involved in the physical aspects it is quite hard to swing if homophobic; not impossible but at the very least you are coming into contact via association (does that make sence?) and depending on what is being done physical contact is inevitable... thats not to say there is direct and deliberate contact however. Can a guy be totaly straight if they like to make love or clean the woman after the man has been there, can a woman be totaly straight if she does the same after the man has been with the other woman and so on...
The funny thing is that when I've played with straight couples its hardly ever come up in conversation about my sexual tastes reguarding same sex contact... likewise when I used to swing with my ex we never made an issue of it unless the guy had stated that he was bi. Its funny that, and both genders are guilty of this, that "straight" people sometimes assume that a bi person is suddenly going to try and jump them but why should we lol. In foursomes we used to sameroom full swap, and in 3somes we/i usually knew beforehand the others likes and dislikes so stuck with that, after all you dont suddenly try and have anal sex with someone that has expressed a dislike for it, so why grab the same sex when they have stated, or you assume because of it being unstated, they dont like it.
Actually that reminds me of the "usual dislikes" pain, anal, and WS... I can understand specifying no anal especially in a MFM but pain and WS are far more specialised tastes one I'm into in a big way, pain, and WS I have experienced with an ex.
I like giving and recieving pain, but only when done correctly (what ever that means to the individuals) within a bdsm environment or play... but it doesnt mean I'm suddenly going to start spanking or flogging someone... oh well!
So now I have to admit there is a whip hanging on the back of my bedroom door and that I'm at my most comfortable with a woman when she's blindfolded and handcuffed?
I'm running out of closets to come out of here!