Have U teamed up with a friend and did it change things

22 Jul 2005

Morning all
I have a female friend who I have known for 3 years. She is a fantastic friend and so open and honest it is unbelievable, she tells me things I donâ€™t want to hear from time to time but that all part of what makes her so great.
She is gay/bi and currently single. We talk about sex all the time and a few months ago she said that she had tried swinging before and how refreshing and exciting it was. I guess thatâ€™s partly why Iâ€™m here, fresh and exciting sounds good to me!
I seen an add for a couple in our city, Edinburgh, looking for a couple to join them. I called my friend and asked her if she was fun for a pos meet, after all we were meant to be going out together this W/S so why not have some sexy fun. Thankfully she didnâ€™t even hesitate and told me to get an E-mail off A.S.A.P.
The question to you guys is have you ever taken a friend â€˜from the outside worldâ€™ swinging with you? I know people become friends after meets but how has it worked FOR YOU when you have chosen this option?
I wouldnâ€™t like to lose a good friend or create a difficult situation for us when we get together.

22 Jul 2005

I took a work colleague once. Her and her hubby were interested in going to a club. They had done a couple of MMF bi threesomes in the past. I disscussed it with my wife and she said why not. Now I never had any intention of it going any further than showing them round a club and introducing them to the scene. One thing lead to another my wife and her started messing with each other and next minute I am shagging my mate from work oh dear. To be honest it was a great night and we went again the next night but then she got all uptight. I think it had something to do with her not liking her hubby getting attention from my mrs. We remained friends after to a point but we never swung with them again. :cry:

22 Jul 2005

Thanks for the feedback seagull.

22 Jul 2005

Quote by chazxx
The question to you guys is have you ever taken a friend â€˜from the outside worldâ€™ swinging with you? I know people become friends after meets but how has it worked FOR YOU when you have chosen this option?

For me it's the only option there's ever been, and that's by choice. I've never done anything sexual with anyone who wasn't already a friend, and I never will.
And I've never lost a friend as a result. biggrin