Before coming onto SH I haven’t had many times in my life that I felt paranoid.
But since coming on here I seem to feel it from time to time, I do at times find it hard to deal with, I know a lot of people would say don’t let things bother you but it is hard.
How do you cope with something that you haven’t had much experience of in the past?
It is a very strange feeling one that can drive you mad at times.
Maybe I shouldn’t care, I should just not give a damn, but I can’t.
I only ever feel it when I feel I have offended or upset someone or when I feel someone has misunderstood me, I don’t give a damn if people like me or not I don’t feel it then, as I know we can’t get on with everyone in life, we can but try.
Have others felt this way?
How can you go about resolving this issue?
I often think maybe talk to them direct but can this work?
I generally would back off and go in a quiet corner and say nothing, or just carry on as if nothing is the matter.
I suppose I have to understand we have no control over how others see things, maybe I should just let them get on with it.
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Have you ever felt paranoid?
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How do you cope with something that you haven’t had much experience of in the past?
As with anything, if it is something I have not experienced before then I do my best and learn from what happens.
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Have others felt this way?
Paranoid? Or like we have upset someone in here? Answer to both is yes. But I am rarely paranoid about things in here. If I have upset someone, I know about it. Paranoia doesn't often come into it.
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How can you go about resolving this issue?
If you have upset someone then you generally know why. So apologise if it is necessary. If you are suffering from paranoia, then I don't know how that is resolved unless you just decide to not let it bother you and get on with stuff.
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I often think maybe talk to them direct but can this work?
If you have upset someone, then yes. If you are paranoid about something then it may well be that what you think/feel is not what the other person thinks/feels. Is that not what paranoia is all about?
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I used to over analyse stuff in forum I don't tend to do so now. Paranoid I am most certainly not.
Oh and for sure Nola is an enlightened woman :thumbup:
Oh and for sure Nola is an enlightened woman :thumbup:
Sex God
Have I ever felt paranoid? Yep.
Sex God
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I used to over analyse stuff in forum I don't tend to do so now. Paranoid I am most certainly not.
Oh and for sure Nola is an enlightened woman :thumbup:
Enlightened? Nah... I just got a good night's sleep last night.
Now if you'd have asked me the question yesterday? Whoooole different answer!
Nola x
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I used to over analyse stuff in forum I don't tend to do so now. Paranoid I am most certainly not.
Oh and for sure Nola is an enlightened woman :thumbup:
Enlightened? Nah... I just got a good night's sleep last night.
Now if you'd have asked me the question yesterday? Whoooole different answer!
they are out to get ya ya know hunny :giggle:
Nola x
