Oooh, now here's a question (go on, you're now all gonna tell me its been covered to death already.......).
Do you, or have you ever faked an orgasm while on a meet with someone to...
1. Make them feel better and boost their ego a bit
2. Get it over and done with 'cos they're just not hitting the right buttons
3. Well, any other reason!
Personally, I don't fake it, if I don't, I don't, simple as that. I can always have hubby sort me out at a later time!!! However, I do believe it must happen for some people. Do you think it's right? Is it classed as a little white lie? If the person was not doing it right, would you speak up and tell/show them what to do? Would it make a difference if you were meeting them at home, a party or a club?
I await your views....
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Have you faked it?
I'm sure I have when I was younger, but I can't actually remember a time.
Honestly, I don't feel the need.
I find it pretty easy to climax so if a guy's not doing it right then I'll just get on top and "do it myself".
There are times when I can't orgasm (usually when I'm not well, have something on my mind or had too much to drink). In this case I have been known to blurt out quite blunty "look don't try to make me cum because I'm not going to".
I don't want the person (people) I'm with to be wondering what they're doing wrong when it's nothing that they're doing (or not doing)
Honestly, I don't feel the need.
I find it pretty easy to climax so if a guy's not doing it right then I'll just get on top and "do it myself".
There are times when I can't orgasm (usually when I'm not well, have something on my mind or had too much to drink). In this case I have been known to blurt out quite blunty "look don't try to make me cum because I'm not going to".
I don't want the person (people) I'm with to be wondering what they're doing wrong when it's nothing that they're doing (or not doing)
Sex God
Now I for one can't wait to hear views on this as I am not an "easy" person to make cum. I have wondered what I would do if faced with a situation where I knew it was'nt going to happen.
I must point out at the same time though that this in no way affects my enjoyment as I love to see and hear other people's enjoyment. It is soooo horny :twisted:
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FIRE xxx
I must point out at the same time though that this in no way affects my enjoyment as I love to see and hear other people's enjoyment. It is soooo horny :twisted:
Love
FIRE xxx
Sex God
Have done in tha past for a variety of reasons... now I don't bother cos I'm only cheating myself out of a damn good time if I choose to fake it. I've all the patience I need with long term partners and I'm willing to help them get it right and vice versa.
WIth a shag in a club, I've no patience what so ever. If he's rubbish then give him instruction.
If he's still rubbish (but I quite like him) then a bit of showing how things want to be done in a gentle subtle 'ooo, do it like this' kinda way. If its still not hitting the mark... then quite frankly <NEXT>
WIth a shag in a club, I've no patience what so ever. If he's rubbish then give him instruction.
If he's still rubbish (but I quite like him) then a bit of showing how things want to be done in a gentle subtle 'ooo, do it like this' kinda way. If its still not hitting the mark... then quite frankly <NEXT>
Would I fake it? No.
Have I faked it? Yes.
When I was younger I definitely faked it from time to time, really just to get it over and done with.
But now I'm older and wiser I would never fake it. I have no qualms in saying that it's just not going to happen for me - but in a way as to not make the other person feel bad.
Have I faked it? Yes.
When I was younger I definitely faked it from time to time, really just to get it over and done with.
But now I'm older and wiser I would never fake it. I have no qualms in saying that it's just not going to happen for me - but in a way as to not make the other person feel bad.
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Oooh, now here's a question (go on, you're now all gonna tell me its been covered to death already.......).
Do you, or have you ever faked an orgasm while on a meet with someone to...
1. Make them feel better and boost their ego a bit
2. Get it over and done with 'cos they're just not hitting the right buttons
3. Well, any other reason!
Personally, I don't fake it, if I don't, I don't, simple as that. I can always have hubby sort me out at a later time!!! However, I do believe it must happen for some people. Do you think it's right? Is it classed as a little white lie? If the person was not doing it right, would you speak up and tell/show them what to do? Would it make a difference if you were meeting them at home, a party or a club?
I await your views....
I am worried about how you would fake that huge wet patch you left in the back bedroom at the party Sara...
Hey hey!
That wasn't me!!!!! You must be confusing me with someone else!!! I was even kind enough to put the sheets back on the bed, that's just how good a person I am...
I don't think I can fake it. There's just too much a man has to produce, what with the erect cock and the final deposit. It tends to be inescapable. But there are guys who can perform extraordinarily well. But I suspect that in intimate relationships they suffer from the same feelings as anyone else. I have often failed to meet the situation through worry and doubts.
However I once had to work long and hard at breaking from a very possessive woman. The sex still continued and this unfortunately was convincing evidence that I still felt for her. She took to initiating and leading the sex, which became very focussed and she orgasmed easily and splendidly on many occasions. So for a while it held off the inevitable.
But in the end behaviour and body language tend to betray the faker. In my case she eventrually realised that it was all over. So I suppose most people can fake a relationship but not so easily with the sex. :cry:
However I once had to work long and hard at breaking from a very possessive woman. The sex still continued and this unfortunately was convincing evidence that I still felt for her. She took to initiating and leading the sex, which became very focussed and she orgasmed easily and splendidly on many occasions. So for a while it held off the inevitable.
But in the end behaviour and body language tend to betray the faker. In my case she eventrually realised that it was all over. So I suppose most people can fake a relationship but not so easily with the sex. :cry:
don't know if it's unusal for guys to do it, but as others have said when i was younger i have faked it. In particular one lady was very demanding & although i could keep it up on demand i couldn't always get to the final result. So developed a technique of clenching the muscles to simulate an orgasm & then pulling out & quickly removing the condom so no lack of evidence. It worked well & taught me that you can enjoy sex without having to orgasum everytime.
Sex God
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I have faked it many time, main reason is cause i found them boring and a little noise makes men cum quicker
saying that i have been know to just tell them to stop
And people say rommance is dead
:DFancy a shag???
No... oh well then.... I'll fake on my own...
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Cuppa tea anyone? :lol:
Sex God
i have , just once , was getting bored and it had been a long day, if i had cum i was already at a stage of running on empty so i just thought she will never know......hence the faked orgasm........id just like to point out this was not with rose, how could anyone get bored with her.....
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From a male point of view...........yes I have :shock: on a few occasions in my youth when I've been too boozy to be arsed with it all
Now the question from some how can a man fake it? Quite simple a bury ya head in there shoulder, back or what ever part will easily hide a fake cum face, give out a muffeled groan lay panting for a short time then nip off like a flash to the bathroom using the excuse of a clean up and remove the empty condom.
Well it always seemed to work for me but as I said I was boozy :lol:
Now the question from some how can a man fake it? Quite simple a bury ya head in there shoulder, back or what ever part will easily hide a fake cum face, give out a muffeled groan lay panting for a short time then nip off like a flash to the bathroom using the excuse of a clean up and remove the empty condom.
Well it always seemed to work for me but as I said I was boozy :lol:
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Do you think it's right? Is it classed as a little white lie?
I await your views....
I think it a horrible thing to do, and does the girl no favours either - in an "ongoing relationship" Particularly if it's done to boost the guy's ego. If he thinks he's doing it right, he'll do it again, and again, and again.
Casanova
Wow! people fake orgasams :shock:
Now im scouring my mind to see if it has been done to me in the past......havent found any obvious clues.....but i have a realy big grin on my face as i remember some realy great fun times
Nicky
I dont see the point in fakeing it,surely its better to teach and be taught and then do it for real
Now im scouring my mind to see if it has been done to me in the past......havent found any obvious clues.....but i have a realy big grin on my face as i remember some realy great fun times
Nicky
I dont see the point in fakeing it,surely its better to teach and be taught and then do it for real
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There's really no point, I'm not that good an actress and I'm very fortunate in that I come so easily and frequently. Althoug this is a problem in hotels
H.x
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Excuse me a minute while I just go and fill my bath with ice and lay in it... whilst also screaming into a pillow!!!!
Sex God
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There's really no point, I'm not that good an actress and I'm very fortunate in that I come so easily and frequently. Althoug this is a problem in hotels
H.x
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Sex God
Same as most, I have in the past to 'get it over n done with quicker' ie if someone was trying really hard and there was just no way things were happnening, but with Den I can't say it's ever been something I've had to do, and I would definately be able to tell if he'd been faking it! Unless he has a very clever trick up his trouser leg.........
Sometimes, there will be times when it just won't happen, but it doesn't mean to say I'm not enjoying myslef, so I'd never fake it in that case!!!
Sometimes, there will be times when it just won't happen, but it doesn't mean to say I'm not enjoying myslef, so I'd never fake it in that case!!!
