I think you say it all for J & I Minx. I'm glad you get as much out of it as we do :smile: It's all been an unexpected pleasure really.
One thing we find hard though. Because of the nature of swinging and the fact that for a lot of it we have to keep it a bit quiet. It does get a bit difficult to manage sometimes with our non-swinging world. In saying that, there are some very special people from Swingworld we have and are priviledged to have let into our R/L's
Since we started swinging, we have met some wonderful people, and made some great mates along the way (most of them we have never played with.)
since I started posting in the forums, i have made some fantastic friends, and in all probability will never even meet let alone play with 99% of them. All I do know is, that I love the chat and banter with all of them, and I wouldnt miss it for the world.
This is my unwind place and its here I come for an escape from real life, but also to see, and seek others opinions on serious subjects too.
It sounds really cheesy, but I have always found it extremely difficult to make friends and to open myself up to other, but on here I feel.....well, to be quite honest, I feel that this is the first time I have belonged anywhere, probably in the whole of my adult life. I feel I can be honest and relaxed and myself with no expectations from others.
I have had help, advice and the most wonderful comments and compliments from complete strangers, who have taken time out of their own busy and hectic lives, and indeed their precious wind down time to send me a PM with advice, or have googled for something for me, and for that I thank them from the bottom of my hearts.
I only hope I give something, however small, back to the site and the forums.
finding it hard to make friends is not cheesy.
Opening yourself up to be someones friend requires trust and its all too easy for someone to abuse that trust.
Your feelings are correct.
I came here for some fun........achieved that and as an added bonus the women I've met have all remained as friends (and lovers :-)) too. I'd love to get more involved on the social scene as everyone here seems so nice and in the whole non judgmental.
We have found lots of friends on this site but not alot of lovers only found each other though the site we dont really do that much swinging 'mostly my fault' I seem to be scared about it now richard still has the buzz for it all and i want the buzz so bad but............ think I maybe the only one on the site that feels like that.
i have found lovers, a few come and go some stay around for a while then go or become friends,some totally shit on you, use you, take advantage of your good nature then fuck off.
i have also found a good many friends, and i mean real friends, that stand by you when you get shit on and friends and lovers betray you, they are the support network i never expected, the confidants, mates, shoulder to cry on, ear to moan in, people to laugh and have fun with, camp with, meet your family
i'd have had a real hard time lately if it wasnt for these friends and they all know who they are
i just want you to know i really appreciate it
Earthy xxx
same as above earthy, we love yah to bits, keep smiling xx
We have found what we were always looking for,
(Okay not a ravishing bi female with a non stop sexual appetite)
A nice couple who we play wuth regulary, visit clubs with and also goto dinner etc ocasionally.
It took a long time to find them, but we got lucky.
Also made loads of other friends on here, some whom have been very helpful in all sorts of ways.
but there's definately things u can talk about on here that no way in this world I could discuss with friends, no matter how long I know them. Well, maybe the exception of one friend.
and like creampie said you can talk about anything without disgusting or embarrassing them which is all good 
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:) :)