Here's a question: let's say you were part of a couple where swinging, group sex and other such activities were part of the relationship (and let's say you really enjoyed that). And then you broke up.
How easy or difficult (or indeed important) have you found it to find a new partner who's into that stuff?
It there anyone here who used to do swinging but has a current partner who's not into it, and so is now just here for the craic? Is there anyone who has actively sought out a partner who would like swinging? At what stage do you ask? (First date: "So... have you ever been double penetrated? Or eaten pussy?")
Or do you just roll the dice and see what comes up?
I'm asking cos I split up with my girlfriend a little while ago. This was my profile since before I met her (which was partly why I was so chuffed that she was into all this), so I've kept it now.
For me, I kind of feel that the genie is out of the bottle a bit. Now that I've seen the girl I love getting boned by another guy, I want to keep seeing it. And I really enjoyed the whole group sex thing. But I'd never want to do it with a partner who kind of wasn't really into it herself, and I wouldn't want to kind of lead someone into it.
Also, dammit! Getting people to meet you was a hell of easier when the profile had her pictures on it. She was (er, still is) gorgeous (sigh).
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Sex God
Quote by flower411
I think that "swinging" as a couple has a lot to do with "fun" and not so much to do with extra sex.
We do it because it`s a laugh .....we would carry on without it because we just love being together.
If you "need" swinging to keep ya relationship then IMHO you should find another relationship
Bloody hell thats a good post :thumbup: from us
Quote by flower411
I think that "swinging" as a couple has a lot to do with "fun" and not so much to do with extra sex.
Quote by flower411
We do it because it`s a laugh .....we would carry on without it because we just love being together.
If you "need" swinging to keep ya relationship then IMHO you should find another relationship
Hum. Interesting when you realise that what you think you think isn't what you think.
Yes, of course. And I guess I would always, absolutely have been ready to drop the swinging had my ex wanted to. Because of course I loved her. And of course swinging wasn't the main thing in our relationship, it was some occasional naughtiness that made things a bit more fun. (Our breakup was nothing to do with swinging, by the way).
That said.....It would be nice if it could be a part of my life again. As if I'd learned to play the trumpet and was really enjoying playing the trumpet and then someone took my trumpet away.
Mind you, I probably wouldn't date someone who wouldn't let me play the trumpet.
Sex God
Quote by Sassy-Seren
Second swinging relationship?? I'm having enough trouble finding the FIRST one !
to that :-( Sex God
Quote by Sassy-Seren
Second swinging relationship?? I'm having enough trouble finding the FIRST one !
to that :-(you want me don't you? :dry:
:grin:
Is it that obvious ;-)
Sex God
Quote by Sassy-Seren
Stalker
keep it up :twisted:
What about the stalking ;-)
Quote by flower411
Hum. Interesting when you realise that what you think you think isn't what you think.
Yeah ....but ....what i think I think IS actually what I think I think !!!!! First time for me !!!! It`s brilliant !!
Ah, but do you really think you think what you think you think you think?
Quote by H-x
I googled the definition..........
It said it was when a man has his wallet ripped out of his existence forever.............except when going out and it is returned with the minimum required for the night
Dave_Notts
That's where I'm going wrong then, I like to go Dutch.
H.x
Fancy going for a meal then
Dave_Tighter_Than_A_Ducks_Arse_Notts
