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Do you make decisions with your heart or head?
The reason I ask is we've ended buying an 8 week old Westie pup after only going to the breeders to choose one with / for my mother in law.
He's called Basil and is bloody gorgeous BUT my head said no and er indoors heart said yes........and she won :-(
Feel sorry for our old dog (who's terminally ill) too as he hates him so far.
I've not always made decisions with my head, sometimes my old fella too lol
ooohhh... where animals are concerned we always go for our HEART - ask the 7 cats in the house :P
depends on how close i am to the decision being made and how it will effect me
i have a bad habit though of letting my heart decide when my head should of decided and vise versa rolleyes
The heart always rules the head i think... Takes a cold person to always rule with the head alone.... I know I can't even when I should. Good or bad!!
Mike x
Usually the heart with me, usually to my detriment and in favour of not upsetting those close to me...
I know in my heart what I truly desire but my head knows what is the right thing to do.
Depends on the circumstances as to which one I listen to.
I make decisions with my intuition. I'm terrible for following it. Maybe that's classed as common sense therefore I must use my head?
God knows, at times I feel I use by butt wink
Sadly, Westies do not have the best of temperaments - the breed would be one of my last choices for a dog.
I hope you get on OK.
Plim :shock:
I always decide with my heart ......... but I am not sure that's right, when there are so many people in the world who don't actually appear to have a heart!
I am talking bollox now ........... but I've had a bad day at work ............. and on my 3rd Brandy already lol
Guess who might be late for work tomorrow? drinkies
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
when it comes to animals I just can't help myself....
soo can we see a pic of your new addition ?
I use my heart cos im a soppy git and often end up hurt
Forget the heart or head - I keep letting my stomach make the decisions. Hence lunchtime chips were followed by a Twix. Anyone got any tricks for shutting it up?
Last time i got involved with a *guy* I went with my heart and I ended up being very deeply hurt, gave the *guy* so many chances, forgave him so many things and I learnt something from it. He was a complete and utter twat confused :? Next time i shall use me head... and go with it was telling me all along..
As for animals... bless em, when i was in Australia last year I went to just about every dog pound in Victoria with my sister who was looking for a puppy. They were so many beagles and boxers, I wanted to take them all home with me.
Oh and my last dog, a beagle was called Basil!! Great choice of name!
If its lightweight and relatively unimportant. Then I tend to go the emotional route I guess. If however its important then I go with the head.
The more important or grave an issue the more i tend to use cold logic to resolve or tend to a matter. It is rare I panic. The two things that however do make me really sweat and want to run and hide are. Hospitals I nearly pass out just walking through the doors and the noises of any ICU type machines can bring on almost hysteria if i cant get away. The other is housefires. These aren't matters I have a choice over though. i guess they are phobias so a matter of head dunno
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when it comes to animals I just can't help myself....
soo can we see a pic of your new addition ?

I have some lovely ones but not sure the best way to get them on here? dunno He climbs onto the top of his plastic tub of dog food then falls asleep!
I'm probably too much of a head girl - my heart should sometimes tell my head to shut the fuck up! :love:
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I have some lovely ones but not sure the best way to get them on here? dunno He climbs onto the top of his plastic tub of dog food then falls asleep!

You got photobucket account? If not get one, its free then simply download onto there and it will give you the complete IMG code under your pictures for forums to make it even easier... biggrin
Then you get to put pics like these of our rescue putty cat with her first (and last!) litter:
I think with my head as my heart doesn't think it just goes tick tock.................. rolleyes
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I think with my head as my heart doesn't think it just goes tick tock.................. rolleyes

oohhh... I'd get yourself checked out if your hearts tick-tocking! :eeek:
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God knows, at times I feel I use my butt wink

Reminds me of a story about a US Air Force test pilot, who wanted to disprove the old saying about "flying by the seat of your pants". He had his arse pumped full of anaesthetic, got in his plane, went and did a full routine of crazy aerobatic stunts, landed and was violently sick.
After recovering he told his colleagues that his opinions had changed, and he now knew that a pilot's butt is the most important flight aid they possess.
Quote by goose35
I use my heart cos im a soppy git and often end up hurt

i will never hurt ya goosey babe big hugs n kisses all over ......... love ya back