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do you follow yuor heart or brain

which one always wins
if you are is a mess or unsur what to do, do you follow your heart or your brain, and which one, do you feel is the worth one to listen to
Well, it would very much depend on the situation.
I think I'd follow my heart to the point where it wasn't making any sense persueing things any longer at which point my thinking bit would take over and make sure I was ok.
I think too much about things anyway and don't follow my heart enough sometimes.
I think it is down to the individual and how they see the situation. Sometimes my heart tells me one thing and my head says, hang on a min that wouldn't be such a good idea.....
Im afraid to say that my heart usually rules, it has won me many friends along the way because im more open, honest, sensitive, caring etc. BUT i do wish i used my brain more, because then i wouldnt be so hurt, sensitive, walked over or used that way.
Actually had a chat with a friend along the lines of this only last week, and they said not to change :rose: How sweet!!
I'm a practical sort of person who would always follow her brain - yes folks I do have one rolleyes
Often wish I could be the type who could follow her heart and cast aside things with sheer abandonment, but practically I know it would never happen confused
Tracy-Jayne
Quote by GenHertsCpl
Im afraid to say that my heart usually rules, it has won me many friends along the way because im more open, honest, sensitive, caring etc. BUT i do wish i used my brain more, because then i wouldnt be so hurt, sensitive, walked over or used that way.

that mirrors me completely.
JGL
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Im afraid to say that my heart usually rules, it has won me many friends along the way because im more open, honest, sensitive, caring etc. BUT i do wish i used my brain more, because then i wouldnt be so hurt, sensitive, walked over or used that way.

that mirrors me completely.
JGL
And it mirrors me as well. But why do we set ourselves up for the fall again................cos we can't change
Dave_Notts
I voted heart, but it really depends on the situation. Sometimes I wish I'd used my brain more, sometimes I wish I'd gone with me heart more.
heart always first,then when hurt,the old grey matter comes into play :twisted:
I voted heart too.
But sometimes I have to force myself to override it with my brain!
I am very definitely one who is prone to act on impulse!
Alex x
I'm very impulsive and led by my heart, it has made life hard sometimes for me but on the other hand I have known so many good people who appreciated my warm heart so it's not all bad smile
So reassuring to know im not on my own here! :love: :love: :love:
Lots of people have brains, but are lacking in any :love: !
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Lots of people have brains

That's so not true! Look at the US elections, for example, and their president!
Look at the forthcoming UK elections when Barmy Blair will get voted back in!
Lots of people have no brain and no heart.
Err, or am I just sounding way too cynical here?!
Maybe I just need a hug to make me feel happier ;)
kiss for zootle biggrin
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heart always first,then when hurt,the old grey matter comes into play :twisted:

that's me too sad
Often hurt but these things are sent to test us I reckon
i voted my heart
im just a big sofftee
loads of hugs for everybody
:inlove: :smug:
I should follow my brain more often,but as i forget to plug it in on certain days then my heart just has to do the decision making blink