i got a reply before id even filled my profile out!
i am there under Earthchild check the forums
ooh and i have just found a d 36 yr old 22 yr old male
Earthy xx
surely this is a DATING site you all seem to be so worried about, if your a couple you do not go on dates so just ignore it and do not join simple really .
This is aimed at single people who go on dates not swingers , but i also do agree what has been said several times by different people that it should not of been advertised here or any links to here attached .
Dating and swinging are two different things .
cant see why your all worrying and fretting just ignore it and if you do join it use a different name to what you have here if you do not want to be found on here .
simple really
I can't really see what all the fuss is about.
Yes, there's a link from here to there, but not from there to here.
4T don't hide the fact that they are a commercial entity, or some of their other internet ventures.
I can see how some people would be upset at being used as unknowing guinea pigs, but you pays yer money (or not) and takes yer chances.
One thing to consider . . . .
After all the glitches and crashes we've had over here of late; wouldn't it be better to have them on some sort of "test site" so they don't interrupt our usage here ?
That's not as self centered or selfish as it may seem. I would guess that 80% or more of the members over there so far are not "genuine dating site members" yet. I'd also hazard a guess that when things are settled and proven over there, many of the first run of accounts will be deleted.
I really can't see any genuine reasons for the subtle and not so, "attacks" (for want of a better word) levelled at 4T unless there's a threat to the way SH works/functions.
Shit!
Got my first contact within moments.....I may have created a monster! :shock: