helllllppp!!!!!

30 Dec 2005

I know this site works because I have used it in the past when i was part of a couple. I am single now boo and finding it hard to meet people or couples just because im a single guy i haven't changed much ( well I have less sex ) other than that im the same. Or does with seperation come ugliness I understand A FEW single guys have fucked it for the rest of us and the ratio of guys to ladies is high so i have more compatition. Can any one help me out if you can view my profile and ads and give me a few pointers it would be very helpfull. I dont know prehaps I haven't got the gift of the gab (after all I am male) or prehaps im just plain ugly but I have got plus points but you need to be with me to see them any help would be great. By pm or by posting in forum which ever way would be fine.
Note: I know 99.9% of members are great but if the few idiots out there just post insults for the fun of it you are not doing anyone any favours constructive advice is all i need thanks in advance Mik69. smile

30 Dec 2005

get in touch with the couples u used 2 swing with when u were a couple!!!!!!
if u didnt upset em they`ll probably invite u over!!!!!!

30 Dec 2005

Thank's for your advice dawn but you know the drill with seperation comes good and bad ie: my ex get's all the friends, house, kid's and car and i get all the bill's grief and bugger all else she introduced me to swinging and then left me high and dry lol lol

30 Dec 2005

typed a long reply machine crashed so
LOL biggrin

30 Dec 2005

thank's steph but i have tried to put the right stuff in my ads and when i reply to ads no pm is the same non of your cut and paste crap i always read the ads and respond so in my replies. oh well i will keep trying I'm not beaten yet.

30 Dec 2005

Well, I have to say I can't see anything really wrong with your ads, and at least you've avoided sticking the ubiquitous cock shots on them. The trouble you'll have is that you are just one of thousands of single guys looking for that elusive couple.
Rather than just relying on the Ads you might do better to become a Forum regular, get to know people on here, get invited to social events and hopefully you will then find people you click with.
Good luck biggrin

31 Dec 2005

Thank's Lissa once again a lady has come through with some good advice. Also thankyou to the god's (moderator's) who didn't delete my post just because it was a poor subject title all they did was take a few L's & P's out (it was a bit long). At the time of posting just over 100 people have viewed this thread but no guy's have give me any advice come on lad's some of you must have been in the same situation help me out if you can. But ladies don't stop adding after all it's your opinion that count's and every little help's.

31 Dec 2005

Quote by mik69
Also thankyou to the god's (moderator's) who didn't delete my post just because it was a poor subject title all they did was take a few L's & P's out (it was a bit long).

:thumbup: :thumbup: :thumbup: :thumbup: :thumbup: wink

1 Jan 2006

Right that seen's to be more or less it then I think moral here is stick with it and be patient. Thank's for the advice you've made me feel most welcome smile

1 Jan 2006

I amin agreement with steph and lissa..............get yourself known in the forums and chatrooms and go along to the socials and munches etc, build up your own image etc
BUT there is also another avenue to look at.............the clubs....... go along on the to swinging clubs, you can meet lots of people not necessarily playing with everybody you meet, but you can chat to them and find out which of them use this site then you have already met people who would vouch or support you on here, I have chatted with people on this set then met up with them in clubs and vice versa met people in clubs and now chat with them on this sites chatroom.
Although clubs sometimes give you a much quicker response/feedback/success they are also a good way of increasing the circle of swingers that you klnow
anyway wishing lots of success

1 Jan 2006

good luck mik69, i know if you were in cornwall id be intrested, then if your looking for couples im in that dreaded group of being a single female.
xxxx lou xxx

1 Jan 2006

awe susan your a star all I seem to be saying is thank's but really everyone has been really helpfull where as they could have just viewed my post and thought f me not another single trying to get laid (which i'm not I can do that any, well most saturday night's but that's not what i'm after) smile

1 Jan 2006

thank's lou but I think nearly 300 mile's is a bit far for me to travel else i'd be down in a shot lol

1 Jan 2006

i dunno, these single guys that moan theres no chances for them and they moan about driving a meer 300 miles. lol
maybe youll stay on the site and take a trip down for one of the munches this neck of the woods?
have fun
xxxxx lou xxxxxxx

1 Jan 2006

I'm sure you would be worth the trip lol

Seriously I'll keep my eye on the munche's seem's my best bet to get known.