Hello All

3 Jan 2005

Hi - Just thought I would introduce myself. Been lurking these forums for ages now and finally decided to register. I am a married Kent male (Medway area) in my early 30's. The wife knows I am on here and is considering getting involved herself but is happy for me to explore things on my own at the moment.
Just a question though to all the regulars. When you joined these forums were you sure exactly what you were looking for? I see all these posts by people who want this and want that - but me, I'm still not sure. I am primarily interested in (And would like to meet) women but am sort of Bi Curious but am not sure if I am ready to explore that side of me yet - certainly not with single guys. I guess I am looking to get to know women who do not have a problem with that side of my nature but again I aint sure exactly what I want. I see these ads in the contact section where people are so specific about what they are looking for - I was going to place an ad but until I know what I want I cant think what I should advertise for lol.
Anyway - enough of this soul searching. I hope to get to know people better now I have finally left lurker mode and who knows - maybe I will get to know what I am looking for in the end confused

3 Jan 2005

Welcome to the asylum, Midnight Surfer.
When I came to the cafe, I exactly knew, exactly what I wanted. But this place is better than that. I stayed, I learned, I enjoyed and continue to enjoy.
Have fun.

3 Jan 2005

:welcome: to the forum smile

We weren't sure what we wanted when we first came but it didn't take long before we knew wink

Hope you have fun and enjoy your stay biggrin

Tracy-Jayne

3 Jan 2005

nice intro
welcome x

3 Jan 2005

:welcome:

3 Jan 2005

Hiya,
we know what we are looking for at the current time yes, but this may change lol

Bev & Chris

3 Jan 2005

Hiya Midnight,
It is not unusual to arrive not knowing what you want exactly. Kit and I didn't, in fact, Kit didn't even know I was on here. We had been exploring fantasies together, and I wanted to make them a reality. So I popped in here to see if the swinging scene was as it was pictured in the press. When I found out it wasn't, I confessed all to Kit, then we both went exploring.
As for being bi-curious, I think you will find that most of the women on here will give you SERIOUS encouragement to explore that issue further. rolleyes

Is Mrs Midnight leaving you totally to it, or will she be lurking over your shoulder checking that you will not be led TOO far astray. wink

lhk
Kat

3 Jan 2005

For the moment the Mrs is leaving me to it and not looking over my shoulder (I think lol) - But I really would like her to get more involved. Don't want to push my luck really - I am lucky she lets me do what I want anyway and not sure if I want to rock the boat smile

3 Jan 2005

lovely idea - but if I had any advice it would be this. Any swinger on here will tell you that you cannot fully judge your partners reaction to you swinging until you have done it.
Better a little rock now than a bloody great shipwreck later. lol

lhk
Kat

3 Jan 2005

:welcome: from us and as we Scots say
"Whits fur ye wont go bye ye"

3 Jan 2005

Hi and a big welcome to SH, hope you enjoy it as much as myself and mrpink do x

3 Jan 2005

Hi Midnight
Hope you eventually find what you are not sure what you are looking for confused

One piece of advice from me - keep MrsMidnight posted on what you are learning, she may be happy to let you do what you want at your own pace; but if she is anything like me - she will want to know what you are up to :twisted:
Enjoy your journey and have fun wink

(Kit=other half of KitKat)

4 Jan 2005

Hiya, welcome to SH....... enjoy an have fun smile

xanaisx