Hi people,
My wife and I are both in our mid-twenties and live in the York area. I am very interested in joining the swinging scene and would like to get my wife involved also but I am not too sure how to go about it. Does anybody on here have any advice on how to raise the subject? Obviously I would not dream of forcing her into something she's not comfortable with but I suspect that she could be persuaded as she already enjoys sex-in-public and posing for sexy photographs etc...
My biggest fear is that by suggesting this I will make her feel that she is not good enough somehow and I don't want to dent her self confidence. Any advice appreciated.
Cheers
Stuart
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Hello all :)
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Yeah, get her to have a quick look :shock:
But Hi all the Same
But Hi all the Same
Hi!
Not being hugely involved yet myself, I'm not sure what my take on this is worth. But I'd suggest that as long as you raise it in an 'I think this could be great for both of us and it doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you, it means I think you're so great I want to share you' kind of way, rather than an 'I want to sleep with other people' kind of way, she shouldn't be too upset. She might not be interested, of course! But as long as you're not pushy, and you're just raising the idea (which is what it sounds like from your post) it might all be well worth it!
Good luck, anyway, if you decide to talk about it. And if she is interested, then... what they all said! Bring her in here!
Not being hugely involved yet myself, I'm not sure what my take on this is worth. But I'd suggest that as long as you raise it in an 'I think this could be great for both of us and it doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you, it means I think you're so great I want to share you' kind of way, rather than an 'I want to sleep with other people' kind of way, she shouldn't be too upset. She might not be interested, of course! But as long as you're not pushy, and you're just raising the idea (which is what it sounds like from your post) it might all be well worth it!
Good luck, anyway, if you decide to talk about it. And if she is interested, then... what they all said! Bring her in here!
