Hello from a newbie!!! And some ADVERT advice please!

3 Feb 2005

Hi all,
I have been lurking for a few weeks now, and finally got the nerve to register blink

....I am not usually so shy, but swinging is all a bit new to me....but hello at last!!! It's nice to be able to actually "speak" to the people I've been reading all this time *waves* biggrin

Well, a little about me...I am female, I've been in a heterosexual relationship for a few years now, we both have our fantasies, I've actually fulfilled mine but want MORE! LOL! I'm a BBW (thanks to this site I have an acronym!), 33 years old, more than bi-curious, am open and honest, and have a cracking dirty sense of humour (apparantly lol

).....
And I would LOVE to place an ad, but have serious nerves about it! I keep trying to write one, but then hit delete...so I thought I would come here for advice about writing a good ad, and also how to filter the replies??? And any other advice that can be offered!
Be gentle with me! redface

Thank you all smile

3 Feb 2005

Hello, Good evening and welcome. wave

Having 'lurked' for a few weeks I'm sure you'll have noticed that regular posters tend toward the 'stange' side.
It's not a problem really.... You don't notice it and it's not painfull.
Welcome agin

3 Feb 2005

Quote by SurreyBloke
Hello, Good evening and welcome.
Having 'lurked' for a few weeks I'm sure you'll have noticed that regular posters tend toward the 'stange' side.
It's not a problem really.... You don't notice it and it's not painfull.
Welcome agin

LOL!!! Thank you for the welcome....I've noticed that many posters share a similar sense of humour to me...'strange' comes naturally to me :mrgreen:

3 Feb 2005

Hmm.
You could try the ad thing. If you want a zillion replies from people that have not read the ad and just make you feel ill. (Along with one, maybe two, who sound vaguely interesting, to you) OR you could stay in here and have a laugh and see what happens. This has been the most wonderful approach for us.

3 Feb 2005

I wouldn't be in a rush to write an ad if I were you. Hang around here and get to know everyone and you'll soon be having fun!! wink

:lol:
Oh!! ........................................ and welcome!!! wave

:wave: :wave:

3 Feb 2005

Quote by Vix
Hmm.
You could try the ad thing. If you want a zillion replies from people that have not read the ad and just make you feel ill. (Along with one, maybe two, who sound vaguely interesting, to you) OR you could stay in here and have a laugh and see what happens. This has been the most wonderful approach for us.

LOL! OK, I'll put that on the back burner for a while....sounds like it should be conducted while part-pissed and with a "happy" head on! lol

I've had more fun reading the forums than the ads, to tell the truth, some things posted have made me LOL!

3 Feb 2005

what those two said! ;)
:welcome: to SH Fluffy Thing! and good on ya for delurking! just dive right in now! biggrin

have fun! :D
neil x x x ;)

3 Feb 2005

Quote by Sgt Bilko
I wouldn't be in a rush to write an ad if I were you. Hang around here and get to know everyone and you'll soon be having fun!! :lol:
Oh!! ........................................ and welcome!!! :wave: :wave:

Eeeeehhh...I couldn't find the wave smilie for my OP...thanks for that!
OOH! And a reply from a mod....fanx :wave:

3 Feb 2005

Hope you enjoy the shits and gigals on this site as much as i have

3 Feb 2005

Quote by james02
Hope you enjoy the shits and gigals on this site as much as i have

no one enjoys the shits....well as far as I know anyway!!!!
smile

:)

3 Feb 2005

Quote by ant140
Hope you enjoy the shits and gigals on this site as much as i have

no one enjoys the shits....well as far as I know anyway!!!!
smile

:)
I've not met one yet lol

3 Feb 2005

Quote by neilinleeds
what those two said! ;)
:welcome: to SH Fluffy Thing! and good on ya for delurking! just dive right in now!
have fun! :D
neil x x x ;)

Thank you :D
:D

3 Feb 2005

Quote by ant140
Hope you enjoy the shits and gigals on this site as much as i have

no one enjoys the shits....well as far as I know anyway!!!!
The Gigals are a bit frightening too!! :shock: :shock: :shock: lol

:lol:

3 Feb 2005

Hi welcome to the site lol

you seem to be well accomplished in posting.
Salute :lol:

3 Feb 2005

Quote by MrFC
Hi welcome to the site you seem to be well accomplished in posting.
Salute :lol:

LOL....that's years of practise on various other forums :lol:
Just feeling my way round here cool

3 Feb 2005

Hello Ultimate,
I think we've just posted similar 'how to' posts. Hello, I'm John (36) and I live in London.
John.

3 Feb 2005

Hi The_Ultimate_Fluffy_Thing, (or TUFT) and welcome to the forums. I hope you enjoy it in here.
You'll soon discover that de-lurking is the best thing you ever did! They're a great bunch in here.
Mike.

3 Feb 2005

Hi there,
it sounds like you have been given sound advice. I am sure that you will enjoy it here a lot!
Welcome! kiss

3 Feb 2005

Quote by Sgt Bilko
I wouldn't be in a rush to write an ad if I were you. Hang around here and get to know everyone and you'll soon be having fun!! :lol:
Oh!! ........................................ and welcome!!! :wave: :wave:

:welcome:
Good advice Fluffy from Sgt Bilko.
Just keep your head down from below the parapet, but contribute where/when you can.

3 Feb 2005

Quote by MikeNorth
Hi The_Ultimate_Fluffy_Thing, (or TUFT) and welcome to the forums. I hope you enjoy it in here.

So should we nickname you 'tufty'??
Welcome love, keep postin, get your name down for a munch and you won't need an ad, just a lot of free time wink