Hi There I am a man in his 60's, very happily married except for one problem. My dear wife has informed me that she has no interest in sex anymore, or should I say love making. I do not ask a lot but really do miss the closeness, cuddles, kissing and intimacy that it brings. Would it be unreasonable for me to seek this else where, maybe there could be ladies in the same situation where a husband has gone off sex. I have even thought of trying out my bi side just to seek the release I need. Any help or advice from both sexes would be gladly received. kind regards Steve
I think it's her you should be talking to not us ! Ask her about how she feels and also maybe she still wants the cuddles etc but not actual sex ! You are more likely to find out if you ask her ! Also if you cheat on her that's probably not going to help matters at all if she finds out unless you tell her before meeting others ! Good luck x ps you joined this site in 2005 so obviously the thought of swinging isn't new to you.
If you're seeking permission to look elsewhere you're not going to get it by asking here. As Nellie said, you need to talk to the only person who can help you - your wife.
your profile was opened in 2005 and it says single ! You are also a member of 8 groups ...one of which is a bareback gangbang group !!! So does make us wonder the truth of anything you have said.....If married you were looking for a while before the wife went off sex !!
"the closeness, cuddles, kissing and intimacy that it brings" These shouldn't just be a part of sex but a part of a loving relationship. If she was feeling wanted and cherished all the time her desires might be a bit higher. Just a thought! But as others have said, its not here you will find the answers but by having a conversation with your wife
I wanted to answer this this morning. But others have said it so much better than me! As a wife that constantly gets lied to, talk to her!! Forgot to add, ain't Dean's arse lovely?
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