Hi Everyone,
Looking for a bit of advice really.
I would really like to chat with some females on here, and just try and make some new friends if nothing else. It just seems really hard to get replies to ads, or if I reply to ads I get nothing. What am I doing wrong? I am a pretty nice guy (most of the time), and can't seem to get much out of the site. Is it because I am single?
If anyone can give me some good advice on this, it would make my day. Please message me, or reply on here.
Thanks everyone
Jack
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chatting on the forum is good and also in the chatrooms but dont be too pushy or sound too desperate and you should get on fine for both friends and other things lol... perhaps get to some socials/munches etc to get your name and face known ... dont be too disapointed in the site it can be difficult at first but perseverance and a sense of humour go a long way
Hi Jack,
welcome to the forums!
I just looked at your profile and it said you are looking for a whole list of people. But on your written profile and here you are just looking for single females. You don't have very much written in your profile at all.
It might be in your intrest to re look at your profile and be clearer in what it is you are looking for.
As explained above forums and chat rooms are a good way to start getting noticed. A suggestion is pick one of the quieter chat rooms at first. The main rooms are a bit daunting for a first timer there.
Good luck
welcome to the forums!
I just looked at your profile and it said you are looking for a whole list of people. But on your written profile and here you are just looking for single females. You don't have very much written in your profile at all.
It might be in your intrest to re look at your profile and be clearer in what it is you are looking for.
As explained above forums and chat rooms are a good way to start getting noticed. A suggestion is pick one of the quieter chat rooms at first. The main rooms are a bit daunting for a first timer there.
Good luck
and :welcome: to the forum...
Try making your profile as individual as possible; something no one else has written and include humour/wit.
Something that amuses people.
I'm a bit of a non-conformist so I have no problem saying exactly what I want and don't want and as I do it in a non standard way this often arouses the interest of others.
You have to sell yourself as a unique, intelligent,interesting person. In order to do this you have to believe it of yourself first.
It's regardless of what other people might think - if they don't want to know you, that's their loss.
That's how you have to approach it in my opinion.
It's easier for women to get attention than men on here so I suspect men need to do more such as the chatroom to get to know people better first.
What would be in your best interests would be to find a single woman then advertise as a couple to maximise your opportunities - that seems fairly logical to me.
Something that amuses people.
I'm a bit of a non-conformist so I have no problem saying exactly what I want and don't want and as I do it in a non standard way this often arouses the interest of others.
You have to sell yourself as a unique, intelligent,interesting person. In order to do this you have to believe it of yourself first.
It's regardless of what other people might think - if they don't want to know you, that's their loss.
That's how you have to approach it in my opinion.
It's easier for women to get attention than men on here so I suspect men need to do more such as the chatroom to get to know people better first.
What would be in your best interests would be to find a single woman then advertise as a couple to maximise your opportunities - that seems fairly logical to me.
Just looked at your profile and (to me) it seems a bit too 'nice' and non-sexual
You've got to focus less on the friendship/talking stuff and more on the f-ing, to put it crudely!
I would also do poses in photos standing up and in underwear. One of your poses (one on the right) looks a bit 'camp' to me.
Are you being totally honest about your sexuality?
You've got to focus less on the friendship/talking stuff and more on the f-ing, to put it crudely!
I would also do poses in photos standing up and in underwear. One of your poses (one on the right) looks a bit 'camp' to me.
Are you being totally honest about your sexuality?
