HELP! catch 22!

1 May 2005

have just come out of a long term relationship. my ex and i had a very active and open sex life. however she was never comfortable with the idea of swinging. which was fair enough (it wasn't why we split).
anyway now i've been single for a few months, i'd like to try new things and meet new people.
however, one problem.
i'm male and single. bugger! sad

i totally understand why single males are snubbed. hell i'd be wary if i was female or in a couple.
so i any of you nice people could gimmie some poiters/tips.
cos i am a nice ,not bad looking guy whos after new experiences, likes peole and loves sex (i'm up 4 owt as they say in lancashire).
i'm not some sad smelly weirdo trying blag photos for a quick wank.
so if there's anyone out there who can put me in the right direction. you'd make my day.
cheers for your time
biggrin

1 May 2005

Hang to know peeps and let them get to know a few at social only do's then you never know,peeps may then come to you biggrin

1 May 2005

Quote by pubdog
one problem. i'm male and single. bugger!

Oh dear that is a problem wink

Nah, it's not that much of a problem really. Yeah, there are tons more single guys than couples or females, but it's all about attitude on SH.... get to know people and your single guy status becomes less of an issue. Some couples prefer single guys and don't actually want to swing with other couples at all. Others play with both singles and couples. If you're bi, there are plenty of bi guys on here too cool

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Basically, chill out and enjoy the site lol

... Oh yeah, and some of the advice on the advice section might be worth a quick read whil you're chillin' smile

1 May 2005

:D :D
thank you. for the info so far. what lovely people! didn't expect to get a reply. let alone for them to be useful.
are all swingers this nice?
i know some clubs have nights that single guys can go to.
but what do you all think of these men.
i aware not to expect be made up to meet some nice new people.
i am chilled out(to much sometime) and will and can get on with any one. but im bound to say that arnt i. just dont want to ruin anyones night just by being there (if you get what i mean).
oh yeah anyone can recomend a club, partys in the northwest.
sorry for asking really dumb questions. but i'm impressed with the scenes attitude feel it derserves respect.
thanks tons again.
wink

p.s. spelling? grammer? i know sorry could do is sunday though. :shock:

1 May 2005

Quote by pubdog
are all swingers this nice?
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No ! ! !
but the majority are wink

:wink: :wink:

1 May 2005

Quote by pubdog
anyone can recomend a club, partys in the northwest.

All the clubs in the Manchester area let single guys in. Have a look at the clubs and parties page (see menu at the top of your screen) and read some of the reviews and browse the club websites. There are several to choose from, so happy hunting wink

1 May 2005

Hiya pubdog wave

Welcome to SH. Hope you have fun here.
Err.........................you weren't by any chance on your knees in the pub lapping up beer off the floor when you chose that handle were you? :shock: :shock: dunno

ES and KcKat

1 May 2005

i'm male and single. bugger!

I am in a very similar situation, but don't despair!! I have an advert on SH and am a single guy looking for nsa one on one with females. There ARE females out there looking for that type of fun and I have had responses to my ad. I just take the time to get to know people once they make contact and let things move at the ladies pace. Us men tend to want to rush things too much!!
I agree with Bluexxx - I don't think being single is the issue. The main problem for us is competing against the vast number of guys doing the same thing. This is not so much of a problem - you just have to stand out from the crowd! Don't appear desperate for a shag and take your time getting to know people!
Hang on in there smile