hi there, I often go to fetish clubs and the guys there wear a mixed variety of clothes, some wear latex, rubber, or fishnet tops with black trousers, others wear shirts with frilled cuffs and the odd one wears a leather thong! It's always best to try and check up and see if a club has a dress code.
Pvc pants and a close fitting top are ok too - leather waistcoats are sometimes worn too
some of the sub guys wear leather or pvc shorts with a harness or collar and cuffs
E-bay is a good place to have a quick look - just type fetish in the search there or there are plenty of sites sellin fetish wear. Give me a shout if u need any help
Hope u have a great night
i get a lot of stuff from ebay ..especially boots
plus i clicked the link on here for shopping
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.some nice stuff and not to expensive
I generally wear black shoes, black leather trousers, black t-shirt and black leather waistcoast (is there a colour theme coming out here I wonder?)
If I want to be particularly dressy I'll wear a white frilly shirt with a velvet type long coat over the top.
As long as you make something of an effort, you shouldn't have any problems at all, but of course you could email the club arrangers and ask for their opinion on what would be acceptable to turn up in.
P.
We have been to Club Wicked and Torture Garden, and some of the costumes are fabulous! The main reason for my posting is just to say that whatever you decide to wear, you will fit in, because the outfits are so varied and individual that no-one looks odd or like a 'twat' as you said!
By the way, a costume I have seen a few tiimes and i think would look really striking, esp with your height, is a gladiator style top, leather vest top with metal plates over the top, worn with similar or plain trousers.
To get some ideas, try looking on fetish clothing websites.
xxx :taz:
Only a few snippets to add to Judy's post...
1) Contact the club organisers (web, phone, whatever) and ask what their dresscode is. Don't be afraid to say you are new to the scene, and are on a budget, everyone on the scene has been there once!
You will (in most cases) get some excellent and helpful advice. If you don't get excellent and helpful advice, then simply file that particular club in the 'somewhere to go when we are past the newbie stage' category and look elsewhere.
2) Some of the softer clubs accept a formal dinner jacket & bow tie outfit as 'fetish wear', so you can raid your cupboard or go to Moss Bros for your 1st visit.
3) People's attitiudes to you will vary depending on how dom or sub you dress. If you don't want people to be calling you 'slave' or 'master', take care to dress neutrally (collars usually imply ownership, for example).
4) When you buy clothes, don't buy what the club wants, buy what YOU want. That way you'll get to enjoy wearing it in the bedroom as well as in the club!
5) Chains and dog collars are available in your local pet shop for a fraction of the price of your local fetish outfitters!