Help needed

7 Apr 2007

Hi we are newbie to this site, and are still finding our way around but i was wondering if anyone can help.
On the homepage it show people that you might be intrested, we are only intrested in Bi-fems at the moment but we seem to be getting either banned user or couples and even the odd single male.
Where in the setting can you either specify what you looking for I.E only a single bi curious fem,bi-Fem, and can you set a milage limit?
Hope you can help biggrin

7 Apr 2007

well just looked and everything is on your add and in your profile so its all set for you two. lol

7 Apr 2007

Hiya

I dont think you can stop anyone looking at your profile unless they already have done & you then add them to your 'ignore' list ....but I dont think this actually makes them unable to view you, they just cant contact you :crazy: lol

Similarly, you can tick the options in 'my settings' which block pm's from particular categories (ie: fems, couples, single males) - they'll still appear on your 'who's viewed us' list but you wont be able to see their pm if they contact you.
You might find this useful: http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/81218.html - just click the link toward the bottom of the info text to get your very own mentor! :thumbup:
hope that helps wink

7 Apr 2007

Quote by northeastcoupleuk
well just looked and everything is on your add and in your profile so its all set for you two.

Thanks for looking northeastcouple, but like i say its still showing people that we are not intrested in ie couple and single guys.
Can anyone else shed so light on this as i must be doing something wrong

7 Apr 2007

It just says you are looking for bi single fems now - good luck :thumbup:

7 Apr 2007

Quote by U4_us_4u
well just looked and everything is on your add and in your profile so its all set for you two.

Thanks for looking northeastcouple, but like i say its still showing people that we are not intrested in ie couple and single guys.
Can anyone else shed so light on this as i must be doing something wrong
wave

The people who might be of interest feature is a bit strange, I think it's all a bit random.
Best advice I can give is not to bother with it.

7 Apr 2007

you're not doing anything wrong :thumbup:
I sneaked a peek at your profile, it clearly shows you are only looking for single fems (no other options ticked)
but it may also help you to fill in the 'message' area of your profile with a bit of info about you - most people use that to specify (again) what they are or are not looking for. A polite reminder that you are only looking for bi-single fems might be good - but it wont stop those you dont want simply viewing your profile (they have to view it to know that info in the first place! lol

) - but like I say, you can block particular categories from actually messaging you. wink

7 Apr 2007

Quote by HornyLittleBlonde
well just looked and everything is on your add and in your profile so its all set for you two.

Thanks for looking northeastcouple, but like i say its still showing people that we are not intrested in ie couple and single guys.
Can anyone else shed so light on this as i must be doing something wrong
wave

The people who might be of interest feature is a bit strange, I think it's all a bit random.
Best advice I can give is not to bother with it.
Yeah i thought it was strange as it does seem to be random to us also, it looks like it could be a very good thing it you could modify it to your requirerments.
Is there any site updates for it ? as i think it would be very useful but i think it would be better if you could set a distance in your setting so it only show the people your intrested in.
Please dont think we are knocking this site as we think its great have chatted to loads of people and meet a few.

7 Apr 2007

Preffered it when the list provided was people close to you going by post code. It was a lot more scary though going by how many came up my whole street must be members here wave

The current system is crap just seems throw up any old random people.

7 Apr 2007

Don't worry you two- that feature is a pile of nonsense, people have moaned about it in the past- it's never relevant for anyone and I don't know of anyone who finds it useful- so it's not just you!
Maybe they will make it worthwhile one day!
haha probably not is the more likely answer!
Anyway, welcome to the forums!
M xx

7 Apr 2007

Yep this feature seems not to work very well.
Not only can they be not what you are looking for but can be miles away too.
I'd keep looking at the names thet interest you though you never know
Good Luck