Help!!!!! Nerves or Excitement I can't tell.

17 May 2006

Hello
Some of you have probably had your "first time" enjoying the particular experience you were looking for and its probably a fond memory at the beginning of all your other memorable occassions. WELL the question is, how the hell did you ever get the nerve to go thru with it???? I'm not easily frightened and I am practically having kittens! Stormwalker on the other hand is at the moment cool as cucumber and won't panic until the day. I have been trying to search within to find out why I feel like this... Am I really curious? well if my fantasies both awake and asleep are anything to go by ....yes! Also I notice a nice female behind almost quicker than Storm redface

Am I frightened of letting the person we are playing with down? .... maybe. Or am I worried I might let Storm down.... maybe. Am I frightened that when presented with our opportunity I might suddenly decide that no I'm as straight as a really straight thing..... hell yes! Or could it be excitement?... possibly, too nervous to tell the difference rolleyes

Were any of you THIS nervous or is it just me??
Love
Firelizard xxxxx

17 May 2006

Believe me hunni, I was bricking it ! I think it helped that the lovely lady in question ( no, I'm not going to name names, you pervs flipa

) was just as nervous as I was. We chatted for ages, giggled like a pair of schoolgirls but then after what seemed like hours just got it together. I did worry that I was doing things right but it all went so well, I think it was a success ( for me it was anyway :twisted: ) She's a very sexy lady and hopefully we'll get together again real soon.
Hunni, just relax, go with the flow and have fun kiss

17 May 2006

SASSxxxxxxxxxx I knew it would be you to the rescue first hun!!!!
Thank you I need encouragement. I know it will be great don't know why I'm being such a wuss smile

Hugs xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

17 May 2006

I was physically sick all day on our first meet redface

But really when we met up the other couple had been exactly the same lol

We enjoyed ourselves very much wink

Just be yourself & whoever you are meeting will love you, I'm sure
Good luck & have fun kiss

17 May 2006

We always say if the nerves stop then its time to stop.... nerves are all part of it in a way. So long as its fun though relax....... I'm sure it will work out! Even after 2 years of meeting people were just as nervous if we all decide to play... its natural lol.
Mike xx

17 May 2006

Thank you Hisnhers, Mdr2000 and scandal for your encouragement it means alot xxxxxxxxxxxxxx

17 May 2006

As Mike says when the nerves stop then it's time to move on wink

They are all part of the enjoyment hun.... I am very confident but I get nervous before a meet, but I also think it's partly anticipation as well :rascal:
Just go with the flow kiss

17 May 2006

Quote by firelizard
WELL the question is, how the hell did you ever get the nerve to go thru with it???? Were any of you THIS nervous or is it just me??

Well, my first time with another girl, I was a little bit nervous but it helped that she certainly knew what she was doing wink

Also it was straight after a munch, which I quite like cause you've had the evening to relax, have a couple of drinks and a laugh.
My advice is just be yourself and "go with the flow".....usually works fine for me and keep a sense of humour! :wink:
Good luck and enjoy!
Fee
XX

17 May 2006

just relax and enjoy yourself hun.........don't worry about it........take you time.......you'll have a great time lol

17 May 2006

you're going to be fine, yes it's just nerves, nothing more (she says being a towering stregnth of confidence!!!)
'Go with the flow' and 'Be yourself' may sound like sound bites but they're not. The most important thing is that you all have a good time.
Enjoy yourself!
H.x

17 May 2006

I was absolutely terrified! Not just the first time, but at least the next few... but once I'd met the person, and chatted and giggled and realised we were going to be friends, it was all fantastic. It's an odd feeling - you're used to having sex with men, you know the moves, you know how it all works. With another woman you're kind of making it up as you go along, discovering, exploring - it's an amazing feeling, because it's sex - but not as you know it. It's like losing your virginity, but good this time. biggrin

Oh, you're going to love it! But if you don't - if you try it and realise it just isn't your thing - I'm absolutely sure it won't be a problem. If you're with someone you get on with, they'll understand - and I'm sure you'll handle it well - and you can just be friends.
Good luck! You'll be fine. kiss

Cocoa xxx

17 May 2006

Quote by mdr2000
We always say if the nerves stop then its time to stop.... nerves are all part of it in a way. So long as its fun though relax....... I'm sure it will work out! Even after 2 years of meeting people were just as nervous if we all decide to play... its natural lol.
Mike xx

Ditto
the way I have learned to cope with it (probably wont work for others as Iâ€™m a bit weird) I just say to myself " these are nice people who are as nervous as I am, there are no expectations either way, we will either like each other, or we wont dunno

at the end of the day, its another experience and the chance to make some new friends, anything else is a bonus"
it works for me, leaves me just a nervous wreck as opposed to a complete screamer rolleyes

it will be fine hun, honest, within a few minutes you'll be wondering what the hell you were worrying about, everyone will relax, and you'll have a wonderful time. You'll go home grinning like a pair of Cheshire cats ........................................ till the next time :shock:
donâ€™t ask me why :dunno: we have had quite a few meets now, and it's the same thing every time, the only thing that makes it easier is that subsequent meets you know it's coming lol

:shock: not helping much am I :roll: ................................... I'll get me coat bolt

17 May 2006

Awww I knew I could rely on you all for some understanding and soothing smile

Thank you all
Love and hugs
Firelizard xxxxx

17 May 2006

Quote by makingcocoa
you're kind of making it up as you go along, discovering, exploring - it's an amazing feeling

Cocoa, my little posh hottie, us blokes use the same method with ladies to a certain extent. you're all a little different so although the basic mechanics are the same it's always the fine subtlties that take the extra concentration. wink

Anyway, Miss Firelizard. can i suggest you tell your guest how you're feeling, try to relax and don't worry if it doesn't go entirly to plan, if you've chosen wisely it should all work out in the end
just remember
Enjoy yourself kiss

17 May 2006

Quote by meat2pleaseu
Cocoa, my little posh hottie, us blokes use the same method with ladies to a certain extent. you're all a little different so although the basic mechanics are the same it's always the fine subtlties that take the extra concentration.
Anyway, Miss Firelizard. can i suggest you tell your guest how you're feeling, try to relax and don't worry if it doesn't go entirly to plan, if you've chosen wisely it should all work out in the end
just remember
Enjoy yourself

:shock: :shock:
You just made a completely sensible post with compassion and feeling, Meaty!
Fee
XX

17 May 2006

He's Ms Meaty now though....
H.x

17 May 2006

Quote by LadyFeeBee

Cocoa, my little posh hottie, us blokes use the same method with ladies to a certain extent. you're all a little different so although the basic mechanics are the same it's always the fine subtlties that take the extra concentration.
Anyway, Miss Firelizard. can i suggest you tell your guest how you're feeling, try to relax and don't worry if it doesn't go entirly to plan, if you've chosen wisely it should all work out in the end
just remember
Enjoy yourself

:shock: :shock:
You just made a completely sensible post with compassion and feeling, Meaty!
Fee
XX
Maybe Bloke is bringing out his sensitive side dunno

Les x

17 May 2006

Piss orf ya bunch of cheeky old slappers flipa

17 May 2006

Quote by LadyFeeBee
:shock: :shock:
You just made a completely sensible post with compassion and feeling, Meaty!
Fee
XX

:undecided: surprised

:shock: :shock: confused

:? :?

I think Meaty has been assimilated :borg: :borg:
:twisted:
Bloke................ show us your chips

:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:

17 May 2006

Quote by meat2pleaseu
Piss orf ya bunch of cheeky old slappers

Now now my little cup fungus... I have a nice warm bath, scented candles and foot rub with sensuous oils ready for you... what music would you like?
wink

17 May 2006

Hiya,
Your feelings are the same as most of us, smile

My 1st time was at a party, just sort of "happened".
Afterwards i thought "wow,did that really happen?" Havent looked back since wink

Just wish we lived nearer to you and didnt smoke :cry:
Hope ya have fun
dee n Rich xx
xx to Stormy from dee and a manly handshake from Rich :)

17 May 2006

Quote by Bloke2005
Now now my little cup fungus... I have a nice warm bath, scented candles and foot rub with sensuous oils ready for you... what music would you like?

Y.M.C.A??

Fee
XX

17 May 2006

Well Mrs Firelizard.....i'm swinging redface

(yes already ) between calm acceptance that , 'YES'!....its finally going to happen....and....'Oh shit'...what have i let myself in for!, but, am more excited than nervous and can't wait to meet you lovely people . I think that after a drink or 3 and a good laugh that everything will be absolutely fine. drinkies

Whatever happens i have really enjoyed our chats and hope that i have made some friends . Love :love:

17 May 2006

Quote by Bloke2005
Piss orf ya bunch of cheeky old slappers

Now now my little cup fungus... I have a nice warm bath, scented candles and foot rub with sensuous oils ready for you... what music would you like?
wink

Oh!!!! you bitch you..............that's it ..........I'm sticking with women :wink: lol

17 May 2006

Quote by firelizard
Hello
Some of you have probably had your "first time" enjoying the particular experience you were looking for and its probably a fond memory at the beginning of all your other memorable occassions. WELL the question is, how the hell did you ever get the nerve to go thru with it???? I'm not easily frightened and I am practically having kittens! Stormwalker on the other hand is at the moment cool as cucumber and won't panic until the day. I have been trying to search within to find out why I feel like this... Am I really curious? well if my fantasies both awake and asleep are anything to go by ....yes! Also I notice a nice female behind almost quicker than Storm Am I frightened of letting the person we are playing with down? .... maybe. Or am I worried I might let Storm down.... maybe. Am I frightened that when presented with our opportunity I might suddenly decide that no I'm as straight as a really straight thing..... hell yes! Or could it be excitement?... possibly, too nervous to tell the difference
Were any of you THIS nervous or is it just me??
Love
Firelizard xxxxx

Its all of them girl !
Yeh I can remember the 1st time too and yes i was very nervous and oh so innocent (yeh ok stop laughing at the back please)
relax if youve gone this far then your not straight, one more if us babe, one less of them !
Take your time, take little mental snapshots cos you will want to remember it all and enjoy ..............
GF2 and of course an equally nervous k !

18 May 2006

Quote by LadyFeeBee
:shock: :shock:
You just made a completely sensible post with compassion and feeling, Meaty!
Fee
XX

Fooking ell ! That's scary ! :scared: bolt

18 May 2006

Can I just say what an excellent sensible thread this is. Excellent advice, consideration and encouragement. Have a lot of fun firelizard, and also remember there will be a lot of envious people out there

18 May 2006

Quote by DeviousLiasons
Help!!!!! Nerves or Excitement I can't tell.

Right!! Stand by your beds! Kit inspection !!!
Look at the state of those undies!!! Are those stains????
Now..... if the stains are in the front.... you are excited.....

... round the back!
:laughabove: ............. Trust you to lower the tone
Firelizard ........... hope it turns out to be what you want
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

18 May 2006

Quote by Sassy-Seren

:shock: :shock:
You just made a completely sensible post with compassion and feeling, Meaty!
Fee
XX

Fooking ell ! That's scary ! :scared: bolt

will you lot piss off, i can do serious, helpful, sensible, nice, non-piss taking replies you know. i'm all upset and offended now :cry:

18 May 2006

H.x