please can someone tell me hoew to successfully get some meets etc from people on this site?!!
have sent a few messages but nothing back and then no responses to my advert!!!?/
have now got a pic on profile(thanks for the sim card advice!!)
any hints guys??
dave
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help,help,help!!
There have been lots of similar threads started by single guys, and there are a lot of you out there! Have a search for other posts, but quick advice - fill in your profile and add more pics. Offer something more than just a cock ie wit, charm, intelligence and pics of your bum!
All the best,
SlurpySarah xxxx
All the best,
SlurpySarah xxxx
you are asking the guys ?? mmm well I aint a guy but I can tell you what attracts me to a profile
Something well written with interests and likes presented clearly. What the man is looking for, someone who is picky always gets my attention. The 'would meet anyone not fussy' profiles gets looked over as the person looks desperate.
a torso shot (dressed preferably). A face shot is lovely but not necessary on the profile.
mmmm but also have a search on here for help as there has been loads and loads and loads and loads and loads (get the picture) of people asking this.
as for securing a meet... well, that takes time.
have fun
Something well written with interests and likes presented clearly. What the man is looking for, someone who is picky always gets my attention. The 'would meet anyone not fussy' profiles gets looked over as the person looks desperate.
a torso shot (dressed preferably). A face shot is lovely but not necessary on the profile.
mmmm but also have a search on here for help as there has been loads and loads and loads and loads and loads (get the picture) of people asking this.
as for securing a meet... well, that takes time.
have fun
Sex God
My two pen'orth, for what it's worth... 
Don't send a one-response-fits-all type email when responding to an advert. Make sure you have read it and the profile and personalise it. Always impresses me if I think someone has taken time to read what I have to say. If you are sending someone a PM having seen their profile rather than them actually advertsing, don't say "I like your advert" - is a dead give away for a cut and paste response! Be interesting, witty and original... when I have advertised in the past then they are always the type of responses that generated interest. Make your own profile as detailed as you can. Include pictures (please not just cock pictures) and try and get some of your personality across.
But, as others have said, it does take time!
If you are responding to adverts or profiles of single women then be aware they will get LOADS of replies. I'm sure couples do too, but can only speak from my experience.
Chatrooms, posting in the forums if you fancy it, going to a Munch or Social - all good ideas.
Put some effort in and you'll get something back - well, that's what I've found anyway.
Nola x
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): man I am rubbish at spelling tonight, doesn't pay for me to have time off work... my brain clearly stops working!
Don't send a one-response-fits-all type email when responding to an advert. Make sure you have read it and the profile and personalise it. Always impresses me if I think someone has taken time to read what I have to say. If you are sending someone a PM having seen their profile rather than them actually advertsing, don't say "I like your advert" - is a dead give away for a cut and paste response! Be interesting, witty and original... when I have advertised in the past then they are always the type of responses that generated interest. Make your own profile as detailed as you can. Include pictures (please not just cock pictures) and try and get some of your personality across.
But, as others have said, it does take time!
If you are responding to adverts or profiles of single women then be aware they will get LOADS of replies. I'm sure couples do too, but can only speak from my experience.
Chatrooms, posting in the forums if you fancy it, going to a Munch or Social - all good ideas.
Put some effort in and you'll get something back - well, that's what I've found anyway.
Nola x
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): man I am rubbish at spelling tonight, doesn't pay for me to have time off work... my brain clearly stops working! 
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Lots of Patience
Good Manners
and last but not least a sense of Humour
You won't go far wrong following those guidelines
Good Manners
and last but not least a sense of Humour
You won't go far wrong following those guidelines
Sex God
Hello 
and welcome to the forums 
I see you've only recently joined so remember that this site isn't just quick results and things may take a little longer than you might like. But keep with it and I'm sure you'll have fun.
You've been given some god advice above, so have a good read of it and see if it helps.....there is also a mentor scheme for newbies that you migh be interested in joining :)
and welcome to the forums I see you've only recently joined so remember that this site isn't just quick results and things may take a little longer than you might like. But keep with it and I'm sure you'll have fun.
You've been given some god advice above, so have a good read of it and see if it helps.....there is also a mentor scheme for newbies that you migh be interested in joining :)
Sexpert
Quote by splendid_
you are asking the guys ?? mmm well I aint a guy but I can tell you what attracts me to a profile
Something well written with interests and likes presented clearly. What the man is looking for, someone who is picky always gets my attention. The 'would meet anyone not fussy' profiles gets looked over as the person looks desperate.
a torso shot (dressed preferably). A face shot is lovely but not necessary on the profile.
mmmm but also have a search on here for help as there has been loads and loads and loads and loads and loads (get the picture) of people asking this.
as for securing a meet... well, that takes time.
have fun
So I can't just pm you and go, 'Hubba Hubba' then?
I am going to have to try and rethink my tactics :>
In answer to the original question, though - I think you need to try and let your personality shine through - on the forums, on your profile etc. as that can only help.
I have quoted Splendid here as her profile says loads about her. Mine doesn't at the moment but then I'm forever changing it and adding and removing pictures. There is a lot of good advice on this thread, so good luck
Sex God
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god advice?
wow, some people really know their stuff round here.
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PK means he's asking for a miracle :giggle:
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I'll leave the lot who can spell to the advice in future :lol2: Quote by gothicpunk
loads of quality suggestions about profiles
So I can't just pm you and go, 'Hubba Hubba' then?
I am going to have to try and rethink my tactics :>
I have quoted Splendid here as her profile says loads about her as well as how damn boring she is and how feckin' picky and pedantic. :roll:
you can say anything you like in my PM box....
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please can someone tell me hoew to successfully get some meets etc from people on this site?!!
have sent a few messages but nothing back and then no responses to my advert!!!?/
have now got a pic on profile(thanks for the sim card advice!!)
any hints guys??
dave
This is a very easy one to solve. First try to put another pic up instead a pic of your cock...think we all know what one of those look like.
Not being judgemental here but...we and many others will not knowingly meet a married guy, and because you say you can only meet daytimes, that is a dead giveaway. Going by your advert and your picture, we would never consider meeting somebody with an advert like yours....sorry if that offends, but you asked the question.
