help............URGENT advice needed!!!!

23 Jul 2004

hi

I have got my first meet on Saturday... :wanker: 69position

and the woman is bi, myself bi-curious...
And I am really unsure of how to dress.
We are going to their house, having a meal, watchings some dvd's and taking it from there.
It may sound really silly but I am really lost about how to dress!
Any help, tips or advice? :confused:
thanks!
:rose:

23 Jul 2004

First impressions count,
I would suggest nothing to trashy / tarty, something casual maybe but smart.
It depends how u would like her to react & how well u know her.
Most of all though I think you should wear whatever YOU feel comfortable with.
I hope the meet goes fantstically for you & it's what you hope & expected it would be
The WHOOSH Man xxx

23 Jul 2004

i think the best way to dress is how you feel comfortable with lots of sexy little secrets
underneath
i hope it go's well for you
its a bit like going the dentist you worry your self sick then realise when you meet
theres nothing to have worried about wink

23 Jul 2004

I'd say something nice and smart/casual to wear but then have some raunchy underwear on underneath so when it gets to that 'stage' of the evening you can feel extra sexy! :twisted:

23 Jul 2004

I would think sexy , but not so the neighbours will get any ideas ,and you want to turn on the other couple but not be too go 4 it on a first date as they may want to take it steady . I would expect a short skirt would work well, you can always let it ride up, flash your pants a bit etc if things are going the right way and you want to help them along .Have a chat with the other girl , maybe suggest you both wear w/e you both fancy ?
I guess winter is better there coz you can wear a PVC micro mini and no pants under your coat :shock: , which does give a clue as to whats on your mind , but Mrs Scroggins next door has no idea ( well she may be able to guess later if you arer a bit vocal and there is a thin party wall evil

.)

Finnaly have great time

23 Jul 2004

thank you, i shall take head, and i bet that most of tomorrow is spent dragging my fiance round the shops, looking for something to wear and screaming out "I'm not going" at home with half of my wardrobe on the bed, whilst my man stands there sighing at me!!!!!
But oh well, it'll all be worth it and i'm sure it'll be fine.
Thanks for all the good lucks and words of encouragement,
I will make sure to come back on Monday and write a detailed reported of our encounter.
Cheers
:thumbup:

23 Jul 2004

thank you, i shall take head,

and give I hope , good luck
XX biggrin

23 Jul 2004

gosh, how careless of me!!!!
:shock:
I meant to take heed!!!
(but of course flipper, I shall be taking and giving head too!)
blast

23 Jul 2004

Simple!!! Just dress the way you hope she will be dressed !! confused

:lol: :lol: :lol:

23 Jul 2004

Defiantly go for a sexy little black dress and then youâ€™ll feel sexy and they will look at you and think wow dress to impress thatâ€™s my motto
Other than that find out what there going to wear and make up your mind from that
I wore a little black skirt on our first swing and everyone else wore jeans but I didnâ€™t feel stupid I suppose it made me feel more confident because I looked sexy
I just like showing my legs off
Hope it goes well
Molly xx

23 Jul 2004

Why not send her an email and ask her what she would like to see you in and out of? lol