I spend twice a month in Manchester on business and stay in a hotel outside the city close to Worsley I would often put a message on the forums for couples or single ladies to meet for a drink dinner see what you think this is too formal an approach? or should i just direct my forum messages to meeting for fun and nothing else just wondered what people think?
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can be both,
obv most people want to meet for a drink first, afetr all you might not like the couplethat turn up. :shock: i know its shocking but single blokes are allowed to turn couples down lol
so a drink and if things click it can lead to fun that evening or the next time your in the area if its a reguler occurance
xxx fem xx
obv most people want to meet for a drink first, afetr all you might not like the couplethat turn up. :shock: i know its shocking but single blokes are allowed to turn couples down lol
so a drink and if things click it can lead to fun that evening or the next time your in the area if its a reguler occurance
xxx fem xx
Sex God
I agree with fem.
For some people, they prefer to just meet and get down to 'business' so-to-speak but others like to get to know the person/couple first.
Depends what feels right to you I'd say.
Nola x
For some people, they prefer to just meet and get down to 'business' so-to-speak but others like to get to know the person/couple first.
Depends what feels right to you I'd say.
Nola x
Sex God
I suppose by virtue of the fact that you are posting on this site the inference is fairly clear of what you would like to happen. If you wanted just a pleasant evening of conversation you would be posting in a more conventional meeting place. Of course were you doing that then asking for a couple to meet would seem a tad odd . Theres nothing wrong with wanting to build up an evening with a nice social event, but it must always by implication here be assumed it is one of two things - its either part of the foreplay which can be cool, or its simply an opportunity to pass judgement on wether you fancy the people involved and provides a slightly less awkward escape hatch from the night. Either way its kewl to want it, less kewl to be falsely coy about it.
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I spend twice a month in Manchester on business and stay in a hotel outside the city close to Worsley I would often put a message on the forums for couples or single ladies to meet for a drink dinner see what you think this is too formal an approach? or should i just direct my forum messages to meeting for fun and nothing else just wondered what people think?
I think you have to post for what YOU want out of the night and then allow the people who want the same thing to make a decision if that is what they also want. If you feel more comfortable with the social element first, then you should not change your approach to suit others. The meet is for you fun as well as the couple/lady you are meeting.
However, if you do want to meet for just fun and feel that you 'should' add the part about the social drink/meal as you feel it is probably what people want, you could add a line about open to suggestions of either meeting for a social first, or meeting to get down to business.
Good luck with which ever approach you take, but remember, the meet is for YOUR fun as well as the people you are meeting and dont feel that you have to change your approach just to suit others peoples ideas of what should/should not happen
