Hi guys and girls,
I've just completed my profile and would like to know your thoughts.
First of all I don't like labels but I guess we have to give some indication of what we are looking for.
I consider myself to be straight, I don't fancy guys, but I do love to play with and suck cock.
So I'm not bi, because that label means I fancy guys and girls.
I'm not curious because I know I like sucking cock.
So what am I?
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Hetero-Flexible?
Sex God
Hi and :welcome: to the site and forums.
With regards to your profile the only improvement I would suggest would be a pic or two, although I accept that you have said in your text that you do not want to add any pics.
As for what you are, well does it really matter? Surely it's more important how you view yourself.
With regards to your profile the only improvement I would suggest would be a pic or two, although I accept that you have said in your text that you do not want to add any pics.
As for what you are, well does it really matter? Surely it's more important how you view yourself.
Sex God
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As for what you are, well does it really matter? Surely it's more important how you view yourself.
Trouble is now you HAVE to label yourself as the new profile system doesn't allow your sexuality to be blank...
A backward step in my view....
Hi there, I describe myself as heteroflexible, but whatever the description you use it won't make any difference to who you are.
However, it is my opinion, and one based on some experience, that unless you are prepared to show yourself, at the very least by posting pics, although chatroom webcam is best if you wish to meet, then it's unlikely that anyone will take you seriously.
The only real alternative to this is to get yourself along to a social, where you can meet other members face to face. Otherwise it's likely to be assumed that you are one of the many anonymous guys who gets off on chat and postings and never intends to meet. It is a sad fact that most "single guys" who arrange a meet do not turn up.
However, it is my opinion, and one based on some experience, that unless you are prepared to show yourself, at the very least by posting pics, although chatroom webcam is best if you wish to meet, then it's unlikely that anyone will take you seriously.
The only real alternative to this is to get yourself along to a social, where you can meet other members face to face. Otherwise it's likely to be assumed that you are one of the many anonymous guys who gets off on chat and postings and never intends to meet. It is a sad fact that most "single guys" who arrange a meet do not turn up.
Sex God
A quick look at online dictionaries gives a definition of bisexual as "characterized by a tendency to direct sexual desire toward both sexes" which would seem to align with the OPs interest in sucking cock (but not necessarily fancying blokes). I've always found it fascinating when ostensibly straight blokes on here see a need to justify their occasional M:M dabbles with "..of course I'm straight". I think it's a shame that in the 21st century there is still enough societal pressure for men in the UK to have to justfy their actions. Women seem to suffer this less. This is not a knock at the OP - you just need to choose the label that suits you best and explain more (if you feel you need to) in your profile text.
I agree that there should still be an option to leave your sexuality undefine on your profile, or introduce more choices.
I agree that there should still be an option to leave your sexuality undefine on your profile, or introduce more choices.
Casanova
Hi Rick and :welcome:
It doesn't matter what you are
But it does matter who you want to attract or what statement you'd like to make.
If you're not looking for guys at all, put down "straight" and explain that you're bi-playful/heteroflexible on your description, as you have done. But if you're specifically looking for bisexual threesomes, it is better to put down "bisexual", then again expand in your profile that you are not looking for one-on-one. Just because you list yourself as bisexual doesn't mean you *have* to meet guys on their own - though be prepared to be propositioned, as people don't read profile text much or choose to ignore it.
I must admit, some cognitive dissonance to see a straight guy introducing himself with a line that ends with "I love to suck cock" ;)
It doesn't matter what you are
But it does matter who you want to attract or what statement you'd like to make.If you're not looking for guys at all, put down "straight" and explain that you're bi-playful/heteroflexible on your description, as you have done. But if you're specifically looking for bisexual threesomes, it is better to put down "bisexual", then again expand in your profile that you are not looking for one-on-one. Just because you list yourself as bisexual doesn't mean you *have* to meet guys on their own - though be prepared to be propositioned, as people don't read profile text much or choose to ignore it.
I must admit, some cognitive dissonance to see a straight guy introducing himself with a line that ends with "I love to suck cock" ;)
Sex God
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not known those with straight labels to suck cock, but then each to their own.
The bi rooms are full of them....
Casanova
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What's cognitive dissonance? Can I drink it? Is it/are they for sale in poundland or do I need to go upmarket?
Ah no need to go into expense - you can have mine, I'm done with it!
Now why don't you go fill in your partner's details and upgrade your profile text ;)
