Hi all,
Just thought I'd introduce myself.
I'm a 23 year old man who is brand new to the whole swinging thing. At first glances it seems to be more orientated to older married couples who are looking to perk up their sex life, but I know people come here for all sorts of reasons.
I responded to a couple of women-seeking-men ads yesterday, but haven't had a resonse. I'm a bit skeptical that there are actually women out there who just want NSA sex. What about Aids? Surely it's not safe to have unprotected sex with someone you don't know? Also, what about the danger of or assault? What's the best way to avoid this?
I think men are generally far more horny than women and are more likely to want to use a service like this... Maybe there are some women out there who can prove me wrong. Also, I'm a bit worried about the fact that a lot of the women are looking for super-huge penises. I'm afraid I'm only average.
Idoru.
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Hi all
Hi
Welcome to swinging heaven
I don't need my sex like 'perking up' thanks. Swinging is an added bonus :giggle:
Yep we have ladies on this site that want NSA sex.
What about aids? Have you not heard of condoms????
What has or assult got to do with swinging
Bollox, there are plenty of horny women around
This is not a service, that implies your paying for it. This is a free site we use to have fun
You are so wrong about all the women wanting super-huge penises. Stop stereo typing swingers when you so obviously know nothing about us
Dawn :x
Welcome to swinging heaven
Quote by idoru
Hi all,
Just thought I'd introduce myself.
I'm a 23 year old man who is brand new to the whole swinging thing. At first glances it seems to be more orientated to older married couples who are looking to perk up their sex life, but I know people come here for all sorts of reasons.
I don't need my sex like 'perking up' thanks. Swinging is an added bonus :giggle:
Quote by idoru
I responded to a couple of women-seeking-men ads yesterday, but haven't had a resonse. I'm a bit skeptical that there are actually women out there who just want NSA sex. What about Aids? Surely it's not safe to have unprotected sex with someone you don't know? Also, what about the danger of or assault? What's the best way to avoid this?
Yep we have ladies on this site that want NSA sex.
What about aids? Have you not heard of condoms????
What has or assult got to do with swinging
Quote by idoru
I think men are generally far more horny than women and are more likely to want to use a service like this... Maybe there are some women out there who can prove me wrong. Also, I'm a bit worried about the fact that a lot of the women are looking for super-huge penises. I'm afraid I'm only average.
Idoru.
Bollox, there are plenty of horny women around
This is not a service, that implies your paying for it. This is a free site we use to have fun
You are so wrong about all the women wanting super-huge penises. Stop stereo typing swingers when you so obviously know nothing about us
Dawn :x
Sexpert
well said dawn.
Sexlightened
I'm new to the site but have done a bit of swinging in the past. Yes there are women out there who want NSA sex - me for one! I'm afraid I totally disagree with your comment that men are generally hornier than women. My libido is higher than most men I know and my bf can rarely keep up with me, hence my enjoyment of swinging. Luckliy my partner loves to watch me having fun so we both win. 
As for STD's, I would NEVER have unprotected sex with anyone and in my experience most swingers will respect that, and indeed feel the same way. In fact I have more problems with guys I meet who are not into swinging being unwilling to use protection.
As for STD's, I would NEVER have unprotected sex with anyone and in my experience most swingers will respect that, and indeed feel the same way. In fact I have more problems with guys I meet who are not into swinging being unwilling to use protection.
Sexpert
I'm new to the site but have done a bit of swinging in the past. Yes there are women out there who want NSA sex - me for one! I'm afraid I totally disagree with your comment that men are generally hornier than women. My libido is higher than most men I know and my bf can rarely keep up with me, hence my enjoyment of swinging. Luckliy my partner loves to watch me having fun so we both win.
thats even better well said.... oh by the way where do you live again
thats even better well said.... oh by the way where do you live again
lo there
:welcome: to this our lil world called :swingingchair: Heaven
just because you replied to an add yesterday dont mean you should expect an answer today. I have waited 4 weeks for a reply from some, others never reply.
The basic maths are simple, 1 woman looking for NSA sex for every 40 men looking for the same thing, a woman can post an add and get 100's of replies, half didnt read her add just saw "woman wants NSA sex" so replied....the fact the woman wants guys of 8inch plus and they are only 6inch dont matter, nor that they live 150 mile away or can only meet in daytime when she wants nightime.
The woman would never get her sex if she spent the time replying to everybody so most just only reply to the most interesting people. Sure you spent 30 seconds making you reply, or 30 minutes even, sure it dont seem fair that you get no response...tough, thats life
It takes time and patience, plus a massive amount of perseverence/stubborness before you get your replies. Your profile shows you only joined the forums today, dont know how long you have been a member on the add section, but unless you are something real special dont expect the ladies to be knocking your door down.
Sorry to be so blunt but I figure hearing the general facts now will save you energy because if you are not willing to wait for the good things to arrive, then its unlikely you are going to be here next week
:welcome: to this our lil world called :swingingchair: Heaven
just because you replied to an add yesterday dont mean you should expect an answer today. I have waited 4 weeks for a reply from some, others never reply.
The basic maths are simple, 1 woman looking for NSA sex for every 40 men looking for the same thing, a woman can post an add and get 100's of replies, half didnt read her add just saw "woman wants NSA sex" so replied....the fact the woman wants guys of 8inch plus and they are only 6inch dont matter, nor that they live 150 mile away or can only meet in daytime when she wants nightime.
The woman would never get her sex if she spent the time replying to everybody so most just only reply to the most interesting people. Sure you spent 30 seconds making you reply, or 30 minutes even, sure it dont seem fair that you get no response...tough, thats life
It takes time and patience, plus a massive amount of perseverence/stubborness before you get your replies. Your profile shows you only joined the forums today, dont know how long you have been a member on the add section, but unless you are something real special dont expect the ladies to be knocking your door down.
Sorry to be so blunt but I figure hearing the general facts now will save you energy because if you are not willing to wait for the good things to arrive, then its unlikely you are going to be here next week
Hi
I really didn't mean to cause offence. As I said, I am new to all this and probably don't understand swingers - I appreciate you putting me right on a few things.
I only meant that there appears to be an inherent risk in meeting strangers for sex. I just wondered whether there are any precautions people should take if they are just starting out. I am aware that there are such things as condoms!
Quite a few of the personal adds were asking for well-endowed men (sometimes even specifying size and colour). That is the only reason I mentioned that it appeared some of the women wanted bigger than average penises. Again, I didn't mean to cause offence.
Idoru
I really didn't mean to cause offence. As I said, I am new to all this and probably don't understand swingers - I appreciate you putting me right on a few things.
I only meant that there appears to be an inherent risk in meeting strangers for sex. I just wondered whether there are any precautions people should take if they are just starting out. I am aware that there are such things as condoms!
Quite a few of the personal adds were asking for well-endowed men (sometimes even specifying size and colour). That is the only reason I mentioned that it appeared some of the women wanted bigger than average penises. Again, I didn't mean to cause offence.
Idoru
Sex God
Quote by uhuru
Yes there are women out there who want NSA sex - I'm afraid I totally disagree with your comment that men are generally hornier than women. My libido is higher than most men I know.
As for STD's, I would NEVER have unprotected sex with anyone and in my experience most swingers will respect that, and indeed feel the same way. In fact I have more problems with guys I meet who are not into swinging being unwilling to use protection.
Just as she said, ditto here!
Quote by kristof
The basic maths are simple, 1 woman looking for NSA sex for every 40 men looking for the same thing
This is what I meant when I said men are generally hornier than women... Perhaps I could have phrased it better: 'The proportion of men who want NSA sex is higher than women". Actually nothing to do with horn levels. Sorry about that.
Quote by kristof
Sorry to be so blunt but I figure hearing the general facts now will save you energy because if you are not willing to wait for the good things to arrive, then its unlikely you are going to be here next week
No need to apologise, I appreciate your straightforward and honest response.
Idoru
