Hi all,
I am new to this and the scene. Its difficult for newbies in any forum, but this one seems espeically tough.
How does one get accepted? Are there any tips? Esp. r.e. etiquette.
I am obviously on this site to learn more about the swinging scene, but my ultimate aim like a lot of people on here is to meet up.
ANy tips on both this forum and the scene in general would be gratefully received
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Hi I am new
Quote by Sexysteph
HIya Methuk
Welcome to the forums.
How to get accepted - join in
Let people get to know you by what you post. The more people see you around the forums the more familiar you will be and people will be able to work out some ideas to personality and whether they would like to meet you.
You could also check out the advice thread Here and see what advice you can glean there.
Most of all have fun joining in.
Steph
Steph,
Very kind of you to reply, thanks.
It makes sense what you say, it just seems that people are very wary(?) of newbies. I accept it takes a while to get known though, Do you have any tips on getting involved on the scene? It is quite nerve rackign and had thought about going to a club, just not quite plucked up the courage yet
Quote by Sexysteph
Hun you are welcome and far far from being a nuisance. It is far more sensible to ask questions if you are unsure and I am sure that others will be only too happy to help with their varied experiences too.
The most important two things in the scene IMO is
Respect and Fun
Respecting each other and having loads of fun - if it ain't fun it ain't worth it
Enjoy
And I presume it is better practice to post on open forum than send PMs to begin with as well
Sexlightened
We are all kind in here, if a little insane, best advice I can give is try making yourself known, get involved in threads on the forum, and when known on the forum, try a social or two, I myself have been to a social event and it was very friendly and nice to meet people who I have only talked to through the forum.
Anyways, that's my two penneth.
Anyways, that's my two penneth.
Quote by kry10
We are all kind in here, if a little insane, best advice I can give is try making yourself known, get involved in threads on the forum, and when known on the forum, try a social or two, I myself have been to a social event and it was very friendly and nice to meet people who I have only talked to through the forum.
Anyways, that's my two penneth.
Thanks fro that kry, much appredciated - i hadn't seen a pic of Kryten for ages. Good pic!