Hi I’m a newbie to this and would like your views on how to present myself. Please realise that this is not an attempt at deception but an attempt to gain information on how best to present myself.
If you could just give me feed back on what information you expect to see and how important you rate this information it would really help me with my profile and adverts. Thank you David (and to the moderators I am not trying to do anything to undermine this site this is a genuine inquiry you have my email address and if you want to confirm this drop me an email with a phone number and I’ll call you back, I would also like to talk to you about helping you supporting this site)
What do you expect in a photograph? Head shot, full body, cock shot. Other
What information is most important? Relationship status, photos, physical description, Other.
What puts you off? Lack of contact details, Poor Description, Photographs, Other.
What do you want the hear? Can accommodate, can travel, hung like a horse, Other.
Any other pointers would be greatly appreciated practically if you have said other. I’ve included a bio below and would love (if you have the time and inclination) your views on this but if you got his far thank you very much for your time and attention. David
I guess i better give you a bio - I’m a newbie to the swinging scene but have enjoyed a rather active sex life. I'm 34, just over 6' reasonably healthy, I drink, don’t smoke but I’m a couple of pounds over weight. I’m a humorous, intelligent, honest, polite and conversant person but I tend to be shy with people. When meeting people I am always well groomed, tidy and discreet, making an effort to neatly trimmed and clean shaven. I have my own very basic accommodation (I’m a part time student and part time IT Tech so don't have a lot of spare money – partly the reason I’m looking on this site as I don’t have the money to hit the bars every night on the pull) and I’m happy to accommodate so long as you are happy with a sparsely furnished little house (with unfortunately only a single bed). I’m really happy to travel but as I’m a bit of a green I use public transport all the time so will have a problem travelling on really short notice but as I make a lot of my own hours I can be rather flexible with a few days notice.
I have shoulder length brown hair, a single tattoo on my back and no piecing. And have no other blemishes apart from a couple of old scars (not sex related). I’m about averagely hung neither small nor particularly large (I’m happy to supply photos if required as soon as I can find a ruler!) Although I enjoyed an active sex life I've had limited experience with men only having had sex with guys on a couple of occasions and only as part of mixed couples but admit to being curious to developed more of this side of my sexuality but i am always respectful of any bounds that have been set. I enjoy a wide range of sexual activity. Like most people really I like oral (giving and receiving), anal, d.p. and full penetration and I’m happy to wear condoms and if I am on the receiving end I will require them, Sorry but I like to keep healthy. I have been lucky enough to have an ex girlfriend who was a masseur so am happy to bring oils and spend time getting people really relaxed or really turned on. I’ve also had experience with dominance / submissive play, toys and light bondage but again this comes down to what bounds have been set.
If I do meet someone I would like to spend time initially having a drink and chatting and if we get on then we can take things from there.
In partners I do tend to like vocal partners who are not afraid to give instructions I would really like it improve general sexual performance especially my oral skills. I have no problems with three somes (in my experience a lot of women really get off on this). I will consider most suggestions but I don’t get off with the infliction of lots of pain.
So if you have any other questions or have a request for more photos please drop me a line at this email address.
Anyway thank you again for getting back to me
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Hi if you got five minutes I would like your advice
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Several posts have the sort of advice you are looking for ... http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/20451.html and here http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/13919.html
Firstly - you dont need to have your advert written in full in your sig hunny.
you can just have a link to your ad instead!
- and, there's even a sticky telling you how to do it (dont ask me, I just followed the instructions given and bingo - small sig, instant access to info about me!)
other than that, squirtee has provided you with good links to probably all the answers you need
Welcome , by the way! :welcome:
you can just have a link to your ad instead!
- and, there's even a sticky telling you how to do it (dont ask me, I just followed the instructions given and bingo - small sig, instant access to info about me!) other than that, squirtee has provided you with good links to probably all the answers you need
Welcome , by the way! :welcome:
sorry did not realise I’d done the signature thing am changing it next and setting up a profile i know html so will try and do something eye catching, but thank you for your feed back I’ve already read both suggested posts but again thanks as any suggestions are appreciated. - David
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sorry did not realise I’d done the signature thing am changing it next and setting up a profile i know html so will try and do something eye catching, but thank you for your feed back I’ve already read both suggested posts but again thanks as any suggestions are appreciated. - David
the two threads provided by Squirtee cover most things - please, if you want to ask for specific advice, I'm sure folk are prepared to give it. At the moment the 'Mentoring' scheme for you 'noobs' is on hold cos of Xmas and stuff, but, if Mal gets it up and running again, you can always ask for a mentor in the new year.
In the meantime though, other people will give you good advice - just ask - and as long as we aint wasting our breath to people who dont follow advice, help will come in abundance.
oh, bless you!! and you sound like such a sweetie!! dont worry about anything darlin - me and my fella are so new to this too - and there will always be someone newer than you!! from what i can gather, it seems like you should just be yourself, and be honest - you cant please everyone all the time so you might as just go with what you feel....good luck darlin, and drop us a line if you feel like talkin xxx
hi welcome to swinging heaven
it reads ok, there was one thing that would put me off big time its the line about not having money so your using this site as you cant afford to do the pubs and clubs.
it might not be as ive taken it but jumps out as hoping this site will bring you quick shag that you cant be arsed to pay money out on by meeting people out socially.
like i said maybe im wrong but that bit would have put me off
good luck
xx lou xxx
it reads ok, there was one thing that would put me off big time its the line about not having money so your using this site as you cant afford to do the pubs and clubs.
it might not be as ive taken it but jumps out as hoping this site will bring you quick shag that you cant be arsed to pay money out on by meeting people out socially.
like i said maybe im wrong but that bit would have put me off
good luck
xx lou xxx
