holes and digging

6 Jul 2005

Consider this situation....you are invited to a party by frenz you met through swinging, but its a normal drinks party with mainly non-swinging people. Whilst in the kitchen getting another bottle out of the fridge you strike up a conversation with Mr and Mrs Normal. Of course, they ask 'How do you know Phil and Irene?'. After a quick double take, as to you the hosts are known as Mr Loverocket and Miss Dynamite, you have to come up with a response. The trouble is you don't know if you are talking to work colleagues, neighbours, oldest schoolfriends, uni mates, or the people they go on holiday with EVERY year............

6 Jul 2005

:rotflmao: :rotflmao:
I know, it's difficult isn't it!
The stories we've told about how we know our swinging friends are vast lol

Basically keep it simple and as vague as possible.
A recent one for us was (for the babysitters ....) meeting one of the Laird's work collegues, but for everyone else............ I was a distant relative :shock: This was for the ONE meet :lol: (don't ask!!)
Got to have a good memory though so you don't trip yourself up next time you're in the same company rolleyes

Fee
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6 Jul 2005

note to myself, always establish a story with a couple before turning up for a social event lol lol

6 Jul 2005

Are you following me, Welsh One ???? :shock: wink

Fee
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6 Jul 2005

i have done that b4 i said he was my hubbies old work m8 so then the woman asked where it was they worked together confused

6 Jul 2005

no lol but with an avatar like yours you coulnt really blame me wink

6 Jul 2005

LOL that is a toughie. smile

I'm sure you have a good imagination though - just have to remember the story. Best to pick one single believable one that you can use as a blanket in any situation, and apply it to any swinging friends you might get. :)
One strange thing for me was one of my ex's from a few years ago - we got together and became boy and girlfriend like you do, and got invited around to her parents for sunday lunch and asked how we met, with living about 40 miles away from each other...
The truth was that she had come over to have a threesome with me and another old girlfriend of mine, but I wasnt going to say that. I cant even remember what I told them to be honest, I felt like I was in front of a firing squad. :)

6 Jul 2005

Thats easy.....if anyone asks you how you know them just say"if i tell you that i will have to kill you afterwards".... lol

6 Jul 2005

Quote by da69ve
Thats easy.....if anyone asks you how you know them just say"if i tell you that i will have to kill you afterwards"....

or vanilla for the time of year ,and say sorry got to go to the loo

6 Jul 2005

There are so many general socialising groups on the internet now, formed in MSN, , or other sites, that it's no stigma just to say that you got to know each other over the internet. I have used this a number of times with friends I got to know through various specific types of groups(not just swinging), and if anyone asks more, I just say through general chat or groups - most people don't press to know more.
Mike.

6 Jul 2005

Quote by silentsven
Of course, they ask 'How do you know Phil and Irene?'

My favourite response is
'Are you a cop or just writing a book?'
The questions usually seem to stop about there...
wink

S xx

6 Jul 2005

we have made some really god m8s through here ,playmates as well as good mates we forever pop into each others gor a cuppa(more ours ,we get the dear t-bags lol) er and now both sets of kids ask a lot questions but a few days out on the quad and bbqs later they now take it as normal now.

6 Jul 2005

Quote by MikeNorth
There are so many general socialising groups on the internet now, formed in MSN, , or other sites, that it's no stigma just to say that you got to know each other over the internet. I have used this a number of times with friends I got to know through various specific types of groups(not just swinging), and if anyone asks more, I just say through general chat or groups - most people don't press to know more.
Mike.

Yep that's the one I use. Covers most things. Never been pressed further. That way you don't have to lie and create more lies later to cover up, if you get to know them well enough and feel able to tell them more of the truth there's no embarassment about what you told them in the first place and no trying to think quick.