Holiday Season means seeing relatives

14 Dec 2006

As we approach Christmas I know I am going to have to put up with spending time with the relatives, well Ians family anyway rolleyes

I've made it plain on the forums many times that I do not get on with my Mother in Law so I would like some ideas of how I should deal with her.
How can I make the woman like me dunno

I'm being serious, do not hijack my thread :giggle:

14 Dec 2006

Sorry Dawn I cant help..... We dont see Steve's mother and mine doesn't like me which is fine by me :lol2:

14 Dec 2006

Can't help either sorry hun dunno

I've never had a mother in law

14 Dec 2006

Quote by Sassy-Seren
Can't help either sorry hun I've never had a mother in law

Do you want mine :dunno:

14 Dec 2006

Quote by Dawnie
Can't help either sorry hun I've never had a mother in law

Do you want mine :dunno:
Only if I get hubby too :twisted:

14 Dec 2006

Is it possible to make someone like you? dunno

perhaps it depends on why she doesnt like you in the first place ? but, sometimes arn't Mother in Laws just like that by nature? lol

last minute Xmas holiday deal, not including her? :lol:

14 Dec 2006

Quote by Sassy-Seren
Can't help either sorry hun I've never had a mother in law

Do you want mine :dunno:
Only if I get hubby too :twisted:
If you're sure loon

14 Dec 2006

I get on with my kids' Dads' Mum no problem :thumbup: She is a lovely woman and we have my children in common-I go and visit her Xmas morning with said ex and the kids lol

My most recent 'mother-in-law' I never met, after 4 years of corrupting her little boy rolleyes

and that's how we get on :thumbup:
I realise this isn't much help but it worked for me ;) ( Never see the bitch that is.)

14 Dec 2006

I find walking around topless with purple balls hanging off my nips helps!! confused

:? :? :? :? lol

:lol:

14 Dec 2006

Quote by Darkfire
perhaps it depends on why she doesnt like you in the first place ?

I am not 'good enough' for her son sad

Twenty something years later and she still thinks I'm too common :eeek:

14 Dec 2006

Quote by Sgt Bilko
I find walking around topless with purple balls hanging off my nips helps!! :? :? :? :? :lol:
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/images/avatars/2163624530.jpg

You hate me don't ya rolleyes

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14 Dec 2006

there is a 18 year age gap between me and mrs cream...her sister and her mam took a instant dislike to me because of the age gap between us.....they like me now because i was me...i never changed i just carried on being me if they didn't like me being me.... tough that was there problem...i'm lucky mrs creams mam and her sister accept me...they have seen that mrs cream is happy and in love(her dad died a few years ago incase ppl were wondering what his opinion was).....
all i can suggest is just be yourself hun...don't make yourself out to be something you aren't....if they don't like it then tough....there missing out on the true you... the person ian fell inlove with and married and the grand kids they now cherish......

14 Dec 2006

Quote by Dawnie
perhaps it depends on why she doesnt like you in the first place ?

I am not 'good enough' for her son sad

Twenty something years later and she still thinks I'm too common :eeek:
:idea: Ahaa!! solution !!
I'll pretend to be his new Mrs over Xmas then - she'll be welcoming you back with open arms by New Year! lol

14 Dec 2006

Quote by Dawnie
perhaps it depends on why she doesnt like you in the first place ?

I am not 'good enough' for her son sad

Twenty something years later and she still thinks I'm too common :eeek:
Maybe the baubles should be gold ones?
Sorry, I cant help either as I dont have a mother in law. Is there anything that you`d both like doing that you could maybe do together? A subject that she likes to talk about that you could maybe have a natter about?

14 Dec 2006

Quote by Darkfire
Is it possible to make someone like you?

Not sure but Shireen's mother hated me with a passion when Shireen and I got together but since I stood up and was as agressive to her as she was with me she seems to have done a complete U turn and now likes me lots confused

14 Dec 2006

Dose her up on hash cakes, once she's off her tits she'll either fall asleep or get the munchies, at which point you can bribe her to be nice for tasty treats.
A result which ever way you look at it :thumbup: bolt

14 Dec 2006

I got into trouble with my ex once when my mother in law came around after a row with my father in law. I opened the door and she said "can I stay here for a couple of days" I said sure and shut the door lol

14 Dec 2006

Quote by markz
I got into trouble with my ex once when my mother in law came around after a row with my father in law. I opened the door and she said "can I stay here for a couple of days" I said sure and shut the door

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14 Dec 2006

Quote by markz
I got into trouble with my ex once when my mother in law came around after a row with my father in law. I opened the door and she said "can I stay here for a couple of days" I said sure and shut the door

Glad to see you have your face pic back on Markz :evil2:

14 Dec 2006

Quote by creampie123
there is a 18 year age gap between me and mrs cream...her sister and her mam took a instant dislike to me because of the age gap between us.....they like me now because i was me...i never changed i just carried on being me if they didn't like me being me.... tough that was there problem...i'm lucky mrs creams mam and her sister accept me...they have seen that mrs cream is happy and in love(her dad died a few years ago incase ppl were wondering what his opinion was).....
all i can suggest is just be yourself hun...don't make yourself out to be something you aren't....if they don't like it then tough....there missing out on the true you... the person ian fell inlove with and married and the grand kids they now cherish......

i second that same things with us only dek had 2 dads to deal with (real and step) his mam still gets the digs in but ignore all that now they respect dek now "god knows why" biggrin

not looking fwd to xmas tho my parents for dinner his for tea confused

:? :? :? :?

14 Dec 2006

Dawnie,just tell her something like:
"If you think I'm common I'll have you know that I'm a forum moderator for Swinging Heaven,the top swinging lifestyle website in the UK!"
She'll just love that I'm sure! :shock:

14 Dec 2006

MIL's

:? :? Mine always said Id die on me back :shock: I dont know what she meant rolleyes

:roll: :roll:
Dawnie......If someone doesnt like you, they are the ones missing out on a lovely warm bubbly lady (notice I said lady hehe smile

).
Mine didnt like me much either........ think it might because I set her kitchen on fire :? :? :? I didnt mean to, it just happened......strangely enough she remembers it like yesterday and always mentions it when she spots me hiding behind shelves in supermarkets :roll: :roll: :roll:
MIL dodging is a hobby of mine now :?
You could do what I do......go into hiding for a few weeks?
Good luck :)
xanaisx

14 Dec 2006

Quote by niceandgentle
Dawnie,just tell her something like:
"If you think I'm common I'll have you know that I'm a forum moderator for Swinging Heaven,the top swinging lifestyle website in the UK!"
She'll just love that I'm sure! :shock:

Excellent

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14 Dec 2006

Quote by anais
Dawnie......If someone doesnt like you, they are the ones missing out on a lovely warm bubbly lady (notice I said lady hehe ).

You sweetie kiss

Now can we go doggin dunno

Quote by anais
Mine didnt like me much either........ think it might because I set her kitchen on fire :? :? I didnt mean to, it just happened......strangely enough she remembers it like yesterday and always mentions it when she spots me hiding behind shelves in supermarkets :roll: :roll:

So what you're saying is that I have to set fire to her kitchen :dunno:
I can do that :bounce: :bounce: :bounce:

14 Dec 2006

stop trying.
You know that you are loved by your hubby and kids. You don't need her approval.
Her loss.
Be confident about the person that you are... and let her be a snob all by herself. She will regret what she has missed out on.

14 Dec 2006

Quote by splendid33
stop trying.
You know that you are loved by your hubby and kids. You don't need her approval.
Her loss.
Be confident about the person that you are... and let her be a snob all by herself. She will regret what she has missed out on.

Splendid
Things is, I know I shouldn't try but she is Ians Mum so I still feel the need to confused

14 Dec 2006

Quote by Dawnie
Things is, I know I shouldn't try but she is Ians Mum so I still feel the need to

Maybe so, but the chances of her visiting us is pretty slim.
I got into an arguement once with the old goat. (ok lots of times) we hadn't visited them in a while, and they hadn't come here.
Her answer....
"well its further for us to travel"
Go figure dunno

Ian

14 Dec 2006

I get on with my in-laws better than I do my own parents in some respects. I'm not a 'family' type person I suppose, I will do what's expected of me, we are even cooking Xmas dinner this year. :shock:
After all my duties are done I'll be looking forward to being able to turn the phone off, lock the front door and snuggle in bed all day with Mrs Kiss for the remaining days we have free.

14 Dec 2006

Quote by Ian
I got into an arguement once with the old goat. (ok lots of times) we hadn't visited them in a while, and they hadn't come here.
Her answer....
"well its further for us to travel"
Go figure
Ian

:rotflmao: That one always cracks me up :giggle:

14 Dec 2006

Quote by vodka_babe22uk
let ian and the boys visit on there own as
1 your trying to finish your uni work

I use that excuse throughout the rest of the year as it is redface