Hi all,
new to all this so please bare with me, me and the wife have been talking about a threesome for awhile and are getting very keen, our problem is finding the right person, ether male or female, we though about one of m ym8's but as we are both good m8's and when asked he said how much he would love to but wouldnt dare comprimise our work life, wich is fair enough. now we dont want to just pick some random bloke or woman of the street cas god knows how they would react when they get home, our question is.
How do u choose the person for a threesome. be it male or female.
Thanks all.
Fraggle
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Sex God
I reckon the only way to get good 3-some going is to know the person first - but not too well, if you see what I mean.
Old friends may not feel comfortable going that far.
Get chatting in the forum, and especially the chat-rooms. You are bound to click with some people. If one or two of them have had 3-somes before all the better. When you get to know someone that interests you both you'll know, and getting to the point of asking them about meeting up for fun (or drinks etc first) is wayyyyy easier on here than in the pub etc.
Have fun - and don't be put off if it takes a while. It's worth it.
Old friends may not feel comfortable going that far.
Get chatting in the forum, and especially the chat-rooms. You are bound to click with some people. If one or two of them have had 3-somes before all the better. When you get to know someone that interests you both you'll know, and getting to the point of asking them about meeting up for fun (or drinks etc first) is wayyyyy easier on here than in the pub etc.
Have fun - and don't be put off if it takes a while. It's worth it.
my wife and i are in the same situation so we are going to meetings munches socials (same thing really) london social called night of senses and erotica this way the people we meet will be open minded and if we hit it off then we will take that step without feeling pressured if we dont feel the people are to our needs then at least we had a good time at the meets
some times you try too hard
sometimes meeting people dont give you that sexual urge but become great friends for life
good luck
some times you try too hard
sometimes meeting people dont give you that sexual urge but become great friends for life
good luck
Hi!
You'll find it much easier to find a guy than a lady. Actually it's much easier to find couples than ladies, so you might think about going straight to a foursome.
We had a very good MMF, we put up an ad, got lots of replies, and basically chucked out anyone who we had any concerns about. Picked a few of the best candidates, then that whittled itself down due to trying to find a time when we were all free, but basically we did what foxylady said above - chose someone who we thought seemed reasonable (and sexy enough).
You don't necessarily have to go the forum route, we didn't cos we don't really usually have time to spend loads of it online. But yeah using this site (and other ones to be honest) worked well for us (check our profile photos!).
We've still never managed to "turn" someone we met in real life (but we do think it would be fun. Anyone else done it?)
You'll find it much easier to find a guy than a lady. Actually it's much easier to find couples than ladies, so you might think about going straight to a foursome.
We had a very good MMF, we put up an ad, got lots of replies, and basically chucked out anyone who we had any concerns about. Picked a few of the best candidates, then that whittled itself down due to trying to find a time when we were all free, but basically we did what foxylady said above - chose someone who we thought seemed reasonable (and sexy enough).
You don't necessarily have to go the forum route, we didn't cos we don't really usually have time to spend loads of it online. But yeah using this site (and other ones to be honest) worked well for us (check our profile photos!).
We've still never managed to "turn" someone we met in real life (but we do think it would be fun. Anyone else done it?)
Sex God
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Hi!
You'll find it much easier to find a guy than a lady. Actually it's much easier to find couples than ladies, so you might think about going straight to a foursome.
We had a very good MMF, we put up an ad, got lots of replies, and basically chucked out anyone who we had any concerns about. Picked a few of the best candidates, then that whittled itself down due to trying to find a time when we were all free, but basically we did what foxylady said above - chose someone who we thought seemed reasonable (and sexy enough).
You don't necessarily have to go the forum route, we didn't cos we don't really usually have time to spend loads of it online. But yeah using this site (and other ones to be honest) worked well for us (check our profile photos!).
We've still never managed to "turn" someone we met in real life (but we do think it would be fun. Anyone else done it?)
Absolutely spot on as far as we are concerned.
Put up an ad and be very specific and disciplined in how you reply to respondents.
Get verification from them and go have fun in a neutral venue (to begin with). It is just like normal dating, just have to take a few common sense precautions.
We had an ad last week for a meet tomorrow and we arranged it. Just looking forward to it now !!
Hi there Fraggles.. our first FFM was actually with a woman we knew as an acquaintance rather than a close close friend so we knew each other anyway.
Our first MMF was with a lovely caring guy from here, (you know who you are..
) and it was great because we had taken the time to get to know him and he us.
It's all about trust with us and respect, and in these situations all parties need to respect boundaries.
Good Luck!
Our first MMF was with a lovely caring guy from here, (you know who you are..
) and it was great because we had taken the time to get to know him and he us.It's all about trust with us and respect, and in these situations all parties need to respect boundaries.
Good Luck!
